BBW Love

[Prince Albert]

See if he would've said he loved us because we're amazing, and we're good people, i would've been like hell yeah we are, but to just type something sexual, because HE likes to make us cum..uhh yeah..i'm gonna say something

No worries, i have a 100 lb pitbull..he's always hungry

Oh great; you fought/learned from MArines, & have a pitbull; remind me why I ticked you off earlier????? LOL

 

[Cipher]

Oh great; you fought/learned from MArines, & have a pitbull; remind me why I ticked you off earlier????? LOL

You didn't tick me off..lol

Here's "The Bosshog"..My pitbull..he's always hungry!

 

[Cipher]

And here's something for the ladies in here..

True words right here!

 

[lovecraft68]

LMAO! Right! or to "dumbass.com"


I swear..


Hey Love How are you? Kudos to your wife on the weight loss!

I'm doing well thank you. Yes it was a hard road.

I mean I do enjoy curvy women, but at that weight she was really starting to have some health issues.

Right now she's healthy and looks damn good.

As I said, it wouldn't bother me if she didn;t lose another pound, but that's her choice.

In the mean time I'm going to enjoy her full hips and nice round ass as long as I can.

 

[Cipher]

I'm doing well thank you. Yes it was a hard road.

I mean I do enjoy curvy women, but at that weight she was really starting to have some health issues.

Right now she's healthy and looks damn good.

As I said, it wouldn't bother me if she didn;t lose another pound, but that's her choice.

In the mean time I'm going to enjoy her full hips and nice round ass as long as I can.

Yeah i hear you, i try to stay as healthy as i can, i had to lose a bit of weight too, Diabetes was about to destroy me..so i did it my way, i walk, box, eat a bit better, i'm a nice size 18..i'm good with where i am, i love my ass, hips, and tits, i'm proportioned..and being 70+lbs lighter lets me wear heels and not feel like i'm freakin dying lmao

My fiancee was the same way, he encouraged me to lose weight for my health, but he absolutely loved the way i looked then, and still loves the way i look now.

I'm grateful he's awesome, and will always love me..but he did once say if i get below a size 12, he'd dump me lmao

 

[lovecraft68]

Yeah i hear you, i try to stay as healthy as i can, i had to lose a bit of weight too, Diabetes was about to destroy me..so i did it my way, i walk, box, eat a bit better, i'm a nice size 18..i'm good with where i am, i love my ass, hips, and tits, i'm proportioned..and being 70+lbs lighter lets me wear heels and not feel like i'm freakin dying lmao

My fiancee was the same way, he encouraged me to lose weight for my health, but he absolutely loved the way i looked then, and still loves the way i look now.

I'm grateful he's awesome, and will always love me..but he did once say if i get below a size 12, he'd dump me lmao

16-18 are perfect sizes IMO. Nice and thick.

Always loved bigger girls. Many guys do, but a shame they won't admit it.

Then you get those dip shits in the bars.

My wife and I went out last week and I'm waiting for a drink and two dumb bells' who didn;t know she was with me were talking about her. One says "she's pretty cute, she'd be better if she lost some weight."

Now mind you, both these guys had huge beerguts, so being the classy guy I am I asked who were they to talk and when was the last time they could find their cock without a gps.

I hate guys like that. I'm not perfect, but I work out and try to stay in shape. I certainly don;t judge others like that.

 

[blulilacgrl]

16-18 are perfect sizes IMO. Nice and thick.

Always loved bigger girls. Many guys do, but a shame they won't admit it.

Then you get those dip shits in the bars.

My wife and I went out last week and I'm waiting for a drink and two dumb bells' who didn;t know she was with me were talking about her. One says "she's pretty cute, she'd be better if she lost some weight."

Now mind you, both these guys had huge beerguts, so being the classy guy I am I asked who were they to talk and when was the last time they could find their cock without a gps.

I hate guys like that. I'm not perfect, but I work out and try to stay in shape. I certainly don;t judge others like that.

Oh no. I love those guys! They can be toothless, barely able to string two words together coherently, their pants can be in danger of falling down because of their beerguts. But no no it's my size 18 pants that are not good enough for them!

I mean really? Really?

 

[lovecraft68]

Oh no. I love those guys! They can be toothless, barely able to string two words together coherently, their pants can be in danger of falling down because of their beerguts. But no no it's my size 18 pants that are not good enough for them!

I mean really? Really?

Yeah and these are the same guys who don't take care of themselves, drink too much, eat too much, hang out with their loser friends all the time and whose idea of foreplay is "hey how about it"

and of course they;re wives should always look good and be ready to give them porno sex at the drop of a hat.

Sometimes it sucks being a man. I hate getting lumped in with those d-bags.

When I say shit like that I get "what are you a fag?"

My answer is no, but I do still have a 32 waist and a wife who actually enjoys having sex with me. I'll take that over their approval anyday

 

[klippert]

good morning to all the wonderful and luv'ly full figured ladies and the gents that get as hard as I do for them

 

[blulilacgrl]

good morning to all the wonderful and luv'ly full fir. gured ladies and the gents that get as hard as I do for them

Good Morning Mr. K! How are you this Labor Day?

 

[Gradariun]

Oh no. I love those guys! They can be toothless, barely able to string two words together coherently, their pants can be in danger of falling down because of their beerguts. But no no it's my size 18 pants that are not good enough for them!

I mean really? Really?

Yes, really.

My fiance' always tells me that men are "allowed" to get like that as they age while women are not(as according to society's standards). Men are said to look more "distinguished" as they age, go bald, get beer guts, lose teeth, etc. As a guy I'm glad I can totally let myself go, but in reality, I never understood this logic.

I think men can still look good if they put on some weight; women even more so However, the whole stigma of the "fat chick" as I heard a lot of in college I think is total bullshit. My college buddies used to criticise me, "Yeah, Rick is a nice guy, that's why he does fat chicks," and that usually earned a good laugh. I'll admit, I laughed at myself to play along.

Now I will also admit, I think a lot of men grow up and don't play along to such immature behavior. I think if I see other men that have an opinion that another man is lowering himself by being with a bigger girl, you can automatically conclude immaturity on the occuser.

My fiance' would be classified as a BBW. She is absolutely gorgeous. By the way, she started a new diet and recently lost 10 lbs! I'm so proud of her! I've told her that if she loses weight, she is doing it for her health and for HER reasons. I love her fat or thin.

She thought when she met my family and friends that they wouldn't like her. "Why!? You're wonderful to me! You make me happy! You're not a drama queen. You're not obnoxious. Why the hell wouldn't they like you??"
Her answer, of course, because she's a little big, and she's not used to being with a guy that will keep holding her hand in public or just not being ashamed of her in general.

I will shamefully admit that I am very very glad other men in her life were like this, otherwise I might not have gotten the pleasure to meet her. However, I do find it really sad that she had to suffer the kind of neglect where her previous boyfriends made it seem like they were settling for her.

So yes, the kind of stigma where men are allowed to be fat and "distinguished" while women are supposed to maintain their figure does exist out there. However, that feeling of anger you may get out of say, neglect, frustration, or out of offense from another person saying something to the effect of, "You're great! It would just be better if you lost a few pounds..," use it. Use the anger to make an intelligent decision and drop the guy for someone that sees you for who you are and doesn't give a fuck about the weight.

Better yet, meet a nice guy and both agree that sex is a great exercise for weight loss

 

[buffler]

I for one love bbw and I am a real man

 

[Cipher]

Oh no. I love those guys! They can be toothless, barely able to string two words together coherently, their pants can be in danger of falling down because of their beerguts. But no no it's my size 18 pants that are not good enough for them!

I mean really? Really?

LoL Right! They're bellied up to the bar looking like beached whales, but yet i'm the "fattest" person in the club? LMFAO Yeah i get at those guys nastily, i always point out, "you're in here trolling for pussy like a loser, and i'm engaged, and happy in my life" So, by all means, we can continue this you played out beachball or you can just STFU. 99.9% of the time, they STFU lol

 

[Cipher]

Yes, really.

My fiance' always tells me that men are "allowed" to get like that as they age while women are not(as according to society's standards). Men are said to look more "distinguished" as they age, go bald, get beer guts, lose teeth, etc. As a guy I'm glad I can totally let myself go, but in reality, I never understood this logic.

I think men can still look good if they put on some weight; women even more so However, the whole stigma of the "fat chick" as I heard a lot of in college I think is total bullshit. My college buddies used to criticise me, "Yeah, Rick is a nice guy, that's why he does fat chicks," and that usually earned a good laugh. I'll admit, I laughed at myself to play along.

Now I will also admit, I think a lot of men grow up and don't play along to such immature behavior. I think if I see other men that have an opinion that another man is lowering himself by being with a bigger girl, you can automatically conclude immaturity on the occuser.

My fiance' would be classified as a BBW. She is absolutely gorgeous. By the way, she started a new diet and recently lost 10 lbs! I'm so proud of her! I've told her that if she loses weight, she is doing it for her health and for HER reasons. I love her fat or thin.

She thought when she met my family and friends that they wouldn't like her. "Why!? You're wonderful to me! You make me happy! You're not a drama queen. You're not obnoxious. Why the hell wouldn't they like you??"
Her answer, of course, because she's a little big, and she's not used to being with a guy that will keep holding her hand in public or just not being ashamed of her in general.

I will shamefully admit that I am very very glad other men in her life were like this, otherwise I might not have gotten the pleasure to meet her. However, I do find it really sad that she had to suffer the kind of neglect where her previous boyfriends made it seem like they were settling for her.

So yes, the kind of stigma where men are allowed to be fat and "distinguished" while women are supposed to maintain their figure does exist out there. However, that feeling of anger you may get out of say, neglect, frustration, or out of offense from another person saying something to the effect of, "You're great! It would just be better if you lost a few pounds..," use it. Use the anger to make an intelligent decision and drop the guy for someone that sees you for who you are and doesn't give a fuck about the weight.

Better yet, meet a nice guy and both agree that sex is a great exercise for weight loss

Hmm, let's see how i should answer this "Wall of text"..

So, men let themselves go, and we're supposed to accept that, and date a guy looking like "who did it and what for"? Um no, Not me. I NEVER settled for less than what i was seeking in a guy. I shouldn't have had to.
Immature guys will always be just that..you're right on that!

When people tell me "You look great, it would be better if i lost a few pounds" I'm supposed to "go with it" and "lose weight"? WHAT?!
Um again, No. I simply say i'm happy with me, and you'd be alot happier in YOUR life if you stopped worrying about my looks and my weight..LoL

I'm not one to hold things back, if an ignorant guy comes at me, he better be ready for war. I've seen way too many "BBW, Full figured, Plus sized" women just back down, stop accepting the bullshit i say, and fight back, come out of the corner, swinging! LoL I do, and always will.

There are guys like you and the genuine ones on this thread that adore us because we're good women. No matter what we're built like.

 

[Gradariun]

Hmm, let's see how i should answer this "Wall of text"..

So, men let themselves go, and we're supposed to accept that, and date a guy looking like "who did it and what for"? Um no, Not me. I NEVER settled for less than what i was seeking in a guy. I shouldn't have had to.
Immature guys will always be just that..you're right on that!

When people tell me "You look great, it would be better if i lost a few pounds" I'm supposed to "go with it" and "lose weight"? WHAT?!
Um again, No. I simply say i'm happy with me, and you'd be alot happier in YOUR life if you stopped worrying about my looks and my weight..LoL

I'm not one to hold things back, if an ignorant guy comes at me, he better be ready for war. I've seen way too many "BBW, Full figured, Plus sized" women just back down, stop accepting the bullshit i say, and fight back, come out of the corner, swinging! LoL I do, and always will.

There are guys like you and the genuine ones on this thread that adore us because we're good women. No matter what we're built like.

I can't tell if you're arguing with me or agreeing with me, but I think we see eye to eye.

 

[blulilacgrl]

Better yet, meet a nice guy and both agree that sex is a great exercise for weight loss

I will be honest, the only real problem i had with your post, other than I think you might have meant one thing but expressed it a bit poorly. Was this line.

Sometimes it's not about exercise or about eating. Trust me you would be surprised at how I eat, the food I keep in my kitchen and the amount of exercise that I engage in (or have in the past). Sometimes our bodies are our bodies.

Could I lose the weight? Sure if I worked out for an 1 1/2 hours a day and spent the rest of the time monitoring every single bite that I put into my mouth. But you know what? I did that. I did that for 20+ long and exhausting years. I did that and hated my body. I hated how I felt betrayed by how hard I had to fight it to make it look like all the skinny girls. I had to literally starve myself and kill myself to get my body to conform.

The fact is I am who I am. My husband loves me for who I am. And I am no longer going to concern myself with weight loss. Instead I am going to concern myself with doing the things I enjoy, sex included. I am going to accept my body for what it is. Part of that acceptance comes from letting go of the battle with my body and instead concentrating on all of the wonderful things about myself. [laughs]

I can...muck a stall, throw hay bales, ride horses, till a garden, hike a trail, change a flat tire, build a bookcase, and replace a toilet.
I can... recite Chaucer and Shakespeare, discuss politics and philosophy, laugh at Monty Python and really bad jokes.
I can...love my husband, raise really great kids, be a good daughter, a great sister and an awesome friend.

And I can do all of that at a size 18.

 

[Cipher]

I can't tell if you're arguing with me or agreeing with me, but I think we see eye to eye.

Arguing? What?

Anyways let me try making this a bit more understandable..

I don't agree women should "accept" men being "allowed" to be fat, unkept, etc..We like attractive guys that take care of themselves just like guys like "attractive" women (whatever definition that is to the individual), i'm well aware of society's take on what a beautiful women should look like, but if we keep accepting it (thin is in and fat is out), it will never change. I for one, do like trying to change that beauty perception, it's 2012 ya know? Let's get over it already, a beautiful woman is exactly that, in my opinion, no matter what the size. And she has the right NOT to settle because it's "okay" for the man to be fat and unkept because society says so.
You didn't settle did you? So why should any woman? I guess that's what my point was trying to be..It's not fair one "has" to settle because it's ok..Not in my book..i don't settle and most women of any size forget that.

And as far as someone saying "you should lose weight" and then going to do so? (go with it as you said) So let me ask you, do you jump and go do what others suggest for you to do? So you just "go with it"?

I'm happy with me, so someone telling me to do anything about my looks, is irrealevant. I don't do what others tell me to. Why should i? i own me.

As for a man actually being with a full figured/bbw/ps woman, and loving her no matter what, yep, i agree with you on that 100%! I've got a good man in my corner, he never cared about my size, all he cared about was healing and repairing my heart and loving me. i'm grateful he has my back and never gave a damn about what anyone ever said.
Sounds like you're the same way, and more should be that way.

Hopefully this reply doesn't seem "argumentative" to you..

 

[Cipher]

I will be honest, the only real problem i had with your post, other than I think you might have meant one thing but expressed it a bit poorly. Was this line.

Sometimes it's not about exercise or about eating. Trust me you would be surprised at how I eat, the food I keep in my kitchen and the amount of exercise that I engage in (or have in the past). Sometimes our bodies are our bodies.

Could I lose the weight? Sure if I worked out for an 1 1/2 hours a day and spent the rest of the time monitoring every single bite that I put into my mouth. But you know what? I did that. I did that for 20+ long and exhausting years. I did that and hated my body. I hated how I felt betrayed by how hard I had to fight it to make it look like all the skinny girls. I had to literally starve myself and kill myself to get my body to conform.

The fact is I am who I am. My husband loves me for who I am. And I am no longer going to concern myself with weight loss. Instead I am going to concern myself with doing the things I enjoy, sex included. I am going to accept my body for what it is. Part of that acceptance comes from letting go of the battle with my body and instead concentrating on all of the wonderful things about myself. [laughs]

I can...muck a stall, throw hay bales, ride horses, till a garden, hike a trail, change a flat tire, build a bookcase, and replace a toilet.
I can... recite Chaucer and Shakespeare, discuss politics and philosophy, laugh at Monty Python and really bad jokes.
I can...love my husband, raise really great kids, be a good daughter, a great sister and an awesome friend.

And I can do all of that at a size 18.

That's my girl!

 

[Prince Albert]

Good afternoon sexy people!!!!

 

[Cipher]

Good afternoon sexy people!!!!

Hey Albert, How are you?

 

[Cipher]

I for one love bbw and I am a real man

Well ok then!

LoL

 

[Prince Albert]

Hey Albert, How are you?

well Cipher; we're all crazy now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[blulilacgrl]

well Cipher; we're all crazy now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wait...we're just now crazy? What was I yesterday?

 

[Prince Albert]

Wait...we're just now crazy? What was I yesterday?

You were still an innocent sweet; little thing. Now you have been corrupted by the forces of EVVIIIILLLLLLLLLLLL!!!! MWAHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PS, milk & cookies later OK????

 

[blulilacgrl]

You were still an innocent sweet; little thing. Now you have been corrupted by the forces of EVVIIIILLLLLLLLLLLL!!!! MWAHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PS, milk & cookies later OK????

Hmm...not a big cookie fan. Can we make it cherries? Mmm... I just got a big bag of them from the store. Yum!!