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Lucky hubby!

Looks like my hemisphere is taking all the available rain at the moment just so you can enjoy a nice hot sunny holiday. I hope you appreciate the sacrifice.
 
blulilacgrl said:
Congratulations Cipher!

Can I just say, I wish I could be as uninhibited as you. I'm working on it but lately it just comes across as bitchy. :(

Still trying to accept my body instead of fighting it. But damn, somehow that seems to be a tougher battle.
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Thanks!


Comes across as bitchy :confused: How so?

I guess i'm kinda the type, idc how i come across people LoL I am who i am, i love me, and if no one else does, sounds like they have a personal prob LoL

Give it a try, know you're beautiful, regardless what anyone else says to or about you..Accepting ones body at any size isn't easy, but i embrace my curves, my body. If i can do it, you can too :rose:
 
Cipher said:
I'm not sure what you mean by that..i think i'm sexy daily..:cool::rolleyes:

But anyways, my wedding is Oct 2013 and i've got the place booked & paid for and my wedding planner has the rest under control. Thanks for asking..:cool:
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Congratulations Cipher :D

Evening everyone, how's tricks?
 
Cipher said:
Thanks!


Comes across as bitchy :confused: How so?

I guess i'm kinda the type, idc how i come across people LoL I am who i am, i love me, and if no one else does, sounds like they have a personal prob LoL

Give it a try, know you're beautiful, regardless what anyone else says to or about you..Accepting ones body at any size isn't easy, but i embrace my curves, my body. If i can do it, you can too :rose:
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I think I have just begun to stop editing myself. lol

I have started to have a 'Fuck it' attitude that after years of being so concerned with being proper... well let's just say the pendulum has swung rather far to the other end. ;)

I kind of broke down today when in talking with a friend I realized that while today's young women will grow up with these new terms of 'curvy' and 'BBW' and even 'Reubenesque'. But when I was growing up the term was simply fat. And like it or not it will take a while for decades of conditioning to wear off. I wish it were easier. I wish I could trust it when someone tells me that they think I am beautiful or sexy, but I am always looking for the 'gotcha', ya know? Either that or I am so completely oblivious to it, because it doesn't occur to me that anyone would find me attractive.

Funny, smart, insightful...yes I could see that. Attractive, sexy...no that would never occur to me.

But I guess the thing is I have to not look to others to say that to me. And instead say that to myself and for myself right? That's the hard part. Shouting down the voices that I have internalized over the years and instead listening to a new voice, my new voice.

Okay deep breath and maybe time to think up a few positive (focusing on the physical aspect of me) thoughts for myself. ;)


And maybe I should also apologize for the long rambling post. Hell why not! I seem to be apologizing a lot lately. :rolleyes:
 
blulilacgrl said:
I think I have just begun to stop editing myself. lol

I have started to have a 'Fuck it' attitude that after years of being so concerned with being proper... well let's just say the pendulum has swung rather far to the other end. ;)

I kind of broke down today when in talking with a friend I realized that while today's young women will grow up with these new terms of 'curvy' and 'BBW' and even 'Reubenesque'. But when I was growing up the term was simply fat. And like it or not it will take a while for decades of conditioning to wear off. I wish it were easier. I wish I could trust it when someone tells me that they think I am beautiful or sexy, but I am always looking for the 'gotcha', ya know? Either that or I am so completely oblivious to it, because it doesn't occur to me that anyone would find me attractive.

Funny, smart, insightful...yes I could see that. Attractive, sexy...no that would never occur to me.

But I guess the thing is I have to not look to others to say that to me. And instead say that to myself and for myself right? That's the hard part. Shouting down the voices that I have internalized over the years and instead listening to a new voice, my new voice.

Okay deep breath and maybe time to think up a few positive (focusing on the physical aspect of me) thoughts for myself. ;)


And maybe I should also apologize for the long rambling post. Hell why not! I seem to be apologizing a lot lately. :rolleyes:
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Apologize? For what? Saying what many MANY women in the thread have felt, have wanted to do, have done. No, no need to.

I applaude :rose:
 
blulilacgrl said:
I think I have just begun to stop editing myself. lol

I have started to have a 'Fuck it' attitude that after years of being so concerned with being proper... well let's just say the pendulum has swung rather far to the other end. ;)

I kind of broke down today when in talking with a friend I realized that while today's young women will grow up with these new terms of 'curvy' and 'BBW' and even 'Reubenesque'. But when I was growing up the term was simply fat. And like it or not it will take a while for decades of conditioning to wear off. I wish it were easier. I wish I could trust it when someone tells me that they think I am beautiful or sexy, but I am always looking for the 'gotcha', ya know? Either that or I am so completely oblivious to it, because it doesn't occur to me that anyone would find me attractive.

Funny, smart, insightful...yes I could see that. Attractive, sexy...no that would never occur to me.

But I guess the thing is I have to not look to others to say that to me. And instead say that to myself and for myself right? That's the hard part. Shouting down the voices that I have internalized over the years and instead listening to a new voice, my new voice.

Okay deep breath and maybe time to think up a few positive (focusing on the physical aspect of me) thoughts for myself. ;)


And maybe I should also apologize for the long rambling post. Hell why not! I seem to be apologizing a lot lately. :rolleyes:
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Babe, I said fuck it a long time ago....Everyone needs to blow off that steam...pipe off, let people know how you feel. I don't hold back.
You know.... you saying fuck it is rather Attractive and beautiful. Makes me think your very sexy.....

Gotcha......no that's my hands on your curvy ass....
 
blulilacgrl said:
I think I have just begun to stop editing myself. lol

I have started to have a 'Fuck it' attitude that after years of being so concerned with being proper... well let's just say the pendulum has swung rather far to the other end. ;)

I kind of broke down today when in talking with a friend I realized that while today's young women will grow up with these new terms of 'curvy' and 'BBW' and even 'Reubenesque'. But when I was growing up the term was simply fat. And like it or not it will take a while for decades of conditioning to wear off. I wish it were easier. I wish I could trust it when someone tells me that they think I am beautiful or sexy, but I am always looking for the 'gotcha', ya know? Either that or I am so completely oblivious to it, because it doesn't occur to me that anyone would find me attractive.

Funny, smart, insightful...yes I could see that. Attractive, sexy...no that would never occur to me.

But I guess the thing is I have to not look to others to say that to me. And instead say that to myself and for myself right? That's the hard part. Shouting down the voices that I have internalized over the years and instead listening to a new voice, my new voice.

Okay deep breath and maybe time to think up a few positive (focusing on the physical aspect of me) thoughts for myself. ;)


And maybe I should also apologize for the long rambling post. Hell why not! I seem to be apologizing a lot lately. :rolleyes:
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Nah uh girl you don't apologize. IMHO i think more women need to be more verbal in how they feel. I've made many enemies on this site because i say what they hell i need to say. I've always told people what they needed to hear, not wanted to hear. *Shrugs* People say that want the truth, but can't ever handle it. So..

I had a time in my life when i felt i was only a "fat girl with a great personality" Girl, i woke up and said "People can call me any name they choose, it's what I CHOOSE to answer to"..And BAM! My new attitude, my new outlook on my life, and here i am years later, rockin what i wear, how i carry myself, i don't need anybody EVER to tell me i'm sexy, cute, etc..etc..I KNOW i'm all of these things. I have confidence. I love me, i'm freakin awesome, and if people don't want to take the time out to get to know me and judge me because i'm fuller figured, too curvy, fat..whatev names are out there, IDGAF! I will always love & accept me!

If you can't love and accept you, no one else will. That was a lesson well learned for me at one time too.

Things are going to be okay for you, you wake up tomorrow and say "FUCK IT"!
Make tomorrow the day for a new you! If no one likes it, WHO CARES! You don't owe anyone shit. That's how i look at it.

:rose:

*Getting of soap box*
 
blulilacgrl said:
I think I have just begun to stop editing myself. lol

I have started to have a 'Fuck it' attitude that after years of being so concerned with being proper... well let's just say the pendulum has swung rather far to the other end. ;)

I kind of broke down today when in talking with a friend I realized that while today's young women will grow up with these new terms of 'curvy' and 'BBW' and even 'Reubenesque'. But when I was growing up the term was simply fat. And like it or not it will take a while for decades of conditioning to wear off. I wish it were easier. I wish I could trust it when someone tells me that they think I am beautiful or sexy, but I am always looking for the 'gotcha', ya know? Either that or I am so completely oblivious to it, because it doesn't occur to me that anyone would find me attractive.

Funny, smart, insightful...yes I could see that. Attractive, sexy...no that would never occur to me.

But I guess the thing is I have to not look to others to say that to me. And instead say that to myself and for myself right? That's the hard part. Shouting down the voices that I have internalized over the years and instead listening to a new voice, my new voice.

Okay deep breath and maybe time to think up a few positive (focusing on the physical aspect of me) thoughts for myself. ;)


And maybe I should also apologize for the long rambling post. Hell why not! I seem to be apologizing a lot lately. :rolleyes:
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I agree with RJ; plus welcome to the thread where you will be accepted for the PERSON you are.
 
RjThoughts, Klippert, Cipher, Prince Albert

Thank you so much for the warm welcome. You really made me smile and I will definitely try to incorporate your words into my own thoughts from here on out.

Of course, now I have my husband going "See! See!" and "Why is it you will listen to them and not meeee?"

So now I have to go shut him up. :rolleyes:

But rest assured (or should I say be afraid?) I will be back.
 
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