BBW Love

[Sweetlilnaughty]

Here's hoping one comes your way

Thanks!

 

[wildxchild78]

I too am a BBW and have a very hard time finding men my age (27) who are into bigger girls. I always seem to be just the chubby friend and never the girlfriend. Where are alll the nice guys who want to date a bigger girl? Please send some my way.

I am in the same boat!

 

[curvywetness]

I too am a BBW and have a very hard time finding men my age (27) who are into bigger girls. I always seem to be just the chubby friend and never the girlfriend. Where are alll the nice guys who want to date a bigger girl? Please send some my way.

I'm in the same boat, but I'm 28. I've been trying online dating on normal sites, but am not having any luck. Probably because I put in there that I'm a BBW, and my pics do show that, but I do believe that I'm sexy and curvy. I'm getting really frustrated with trying to get back into the dating scene.

 

[flasubm]

I personally find a woman with curves more appealing than a paper thin doll. More to look at, more to touch, more to enjoy in my opinion at least.

It did take me a while to realize this fact of course and some of these men that are turning you beautiful ladies down now, will come around to bite them or they will end up missing out on some wonderful ladies.

 

[edal1959]

I'm in the same boat, but I'm 28. I've been trying online dating on normal sites, but am not having any luck. Probably because I put in there that I'm a BBW, and my pics do show that, but I do believe that I'm sexy and curvy. I'm getting really frustrated with trying to get back into the dating scene.

If your AV pic is one you post on the dating sites, I'd think you'd have the guys blowing up your inbox. Wow, what sexy curves!

 

[curvywetness]

If your AV pic is one you post on the dating sites, I'd think you'd have the guys blowing up your inbox. Wow, what sexy curves!

Thanks edal. I don't post that one on the dating sites since it's more sexual and it wouldn't be approved, lol. thanks for the vote of confidence though. I appreciate it.

 

[peggsy]

i will only seek someone out who is a bbw. i love them so much its so hot.

 

[Babyslave]

I came upon this thread, I'm only sorry I didn't see it sooner. I wanted to share some things my ex told me in writing, and more often in person. Whenever I'm feeling self conscious, I think of things like this. Granted, I'm not in my twenties, but I don't think it matters. Men like different things, and there are men who are drawn to BBW like us. Why? Cause we rock!

You again express doubts that I find you attractive. I think you've been getting opinions about your looks from the wrong people. I don't believe that I like anything that different from what other men like. You are a very attractive woman, ********, and don't try to tell me that you haven't been hearing that from other people. I also think you're attractive _because_ of your figure, and not in spite of it.

And....

I've said it before, and I'll say it again; I think you are very nicely put together. Its not that I am willing to overlook the fact that you're not a petite size 3, I don't want a petite-size 3! I want a woman of whom there is a little more. I don't think that wafer thin, emaciated women are attractive. I want a woman who is comfortable and warm to sleep with. I want a woman whom I'm not going to break if I get a little carried away with. I want you.

And from an earlier 'getting to know you' message:

Second, the phrase "to my liking" doesn't begin to describe my thoughts of your picture. I think you're drop dead gorgeous. I'll stop there because I'm sure you're starting to think I'm pushing the believeability envelope. A little bit about me before I go any further:

I have always prefered the fuller figure. I have never shared society's current view of the perfect woman. I am much more in tune with the preference of Peter Paul Rubens (16th century artist - origin of the word rubenesque).

Way back when I masturbated to the Sears catalog (all boys masturbated to the Sears catalog in case you didn't know), I would always tend towards the fuller figure womans section. I didn't know why, they just excited me more. The same was true when I started buying men's magazines (sorry to ruin the pristine image I'm sure you had of me up to this point). I tended towards magazines of the same ilk.

They're also the type of woman I watch in grocery stores, or pick out of crowds to look at, or who I try to walk behind in the street. (I have been known to shop several aisles in WalMart where there was absolutely nothing that I wanted, just to keep a certain woman in sight.)

In case you're wondering, there are an awful lot of men out there who feel the same way. Given society's current norm, not many are willing to admit it though.

He was right. I only had to open my eyes and look around. Once I did that? I could see the men that liked what they saw. A man who is sure of what he wants, secure in who he is isn't 'afraid' to admit that he wants MORE than the 'societal norm'. It's the men that are confident in going after what he desires are the men I'm attracted to. Not the ones who think lusting after a BBW is a 'dirty little secret'.

 

[RjThoughts]

He was right. I only had to open my eyes and look around. Once I did that? I could see the men that liked what they saw. A man who is sure of what he wants, secure in who he is isn't 'afraid' to admit that he wants MORE than the 'societal norm'. It's the men that are confident in going after what he desires are the men I'm attracted to. Not the ones who think lusting after a BBW is a 'dirty little secret'.

I've come across far too many people that believe those words, that it is NOT natural to have urges for, attractions for, women with curves. I don't know why they can't "come out" and exclaim it. Come on, there's NO difference between being seen with a BBW - or two or three or four - in public and being seen with the "Olive Oyl" type.

I know I'm in the minority: I'm NOT afriad to hide it. I married a BBW. I lust after her and others. Hell, I had a chance in college to move into an apartment with two hot model-types when I was kicked out of the house, but instead went to live with three BBWs.

There SHOULD be not stigma attatched to loving a big woman, but society believes fat equates to ugly. It should NOT!!

 

[thejdangel]

Being 26 I have to agree that so few men my age seem to like a bbw!

 

[BBW Fan]

I just wanted to say that BBW's are great! We love you ladies!

 

[Babyslave]

...There SHOULD be not stigma attatched to loving a big woman, but society believes fat equates to ugly. It should NOT!!

Personally, I see it now as an age thing. As in, I'm no longer in my 20's... or 30's either.
I think that men 'of a certain age' (maybe mid thirties?) no longer care about what they're friends think. They want what they wants and F%*^ everyone else. Perhaps they're secure and confident of their own inner self, their own accomplishments, that they can go for what they truly want, and not be concerned with how things appear to others.

Honestly, I'm getting hit on more now than I ever did. But take heart you younger ladies. I have a good friend who is in her late twenties and even she's seen the shift over the last couple years.

 

[RjThoughts]

Personally, I see it now as an age thing. As in, I'm no longer in my 20's... or 30's either.
I think that men 'of a certain age' (maybe mid thirties?) no longer care about what they're friends think. They want what they wants and F%*^ everyone else. Perhaps they're secure and confident of their own inner self, their own accomplishments, that they can go for what they truly want, and not be concerned with how things appear to others.

Honestly, I'm getting hit on more now than I ever did. But take heart you younger ladies. I have a good friend who is in her late twenties and even she's seen the shift over the last couple years.

When I was a younger man, most of my friends could not understand why I was so in love with my then-girlfriend; I was an athlete and had several athletic, model-thin women making themselves available to me. As I grew older, those same friends began to see why I was attracted to women with curves. And now, as they approach 50, they're kicking themselves for not seeing what I did at 18, 19, 20.

 

[braincum]

The lovely softness

Here's an image for all of us BBW fanciers. It just erupted in my imagination as I read the previous tributes to the fleshy female form we find so enticing...

I close my eyes and rub my cum-drenched face back and forth, back and forth across the vast canyon of beautiful, moistening cunt before me. I feel her grab the back of my head and pull me deeper, closer to her thrusting hips.

As I see her rousing clit peeking slyly out of its hood, I continue to revel in the action of just wiping my face and drenched mustache repeatedly against her pussy, feeling, smelling, anticipating her impending orgasm. My own strokes bring my hard cock to a similar precipice.

I simply love the idea of sending pleasure throughout the massive body of my lover, feeling her orgasm resonate across her flesh, bringing magical sensations of delight to every fiber of her wondrous form.

 

[littlegirlnaughty]

Just came across this thread and was very excited to see it. It's nice to know that there is love out there for all us BBW. And I of course send my love out to all you guys who appreciate curves, big asses and big tits. Lol.

 

[RjThoughts]

Just came across this thread and was very excited to see it. It's nice to know that there is love out there for all us BBW. And I of course send my love out to all you guys who appreciate curves, big asses and big tits. Lol.

Big asses and big tits, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[FarmerTan]

Just came across this thread and was very excited to see it. It's nice to know that there is love out there for all us BBW. And I of course send my love out to all you guys who appreciate curves, big asses and big tits. Lol.

Thanks for the love! Plenty out there for you as well!

 

[biggreg]

Just came across this thread and was very excited to see it. It's nice to know that there is love out there for all us BBW. And I of course send my love out to all you guys who appreciate curves, big asses and big tits. Lol.

Mmm lovin' this thread, hi to all you gorgeous ladies xxx

 

[DarkBee]

I'm doing volunteering work for a music club and last sunday we had a short boat trip to celebrate the end of the season, to adress some issues and just to hang out and have fun (it was great).
There were a ton of people I hadn't seen before, quite a number of attractive girls and women, but the one I was immediately drawn to was this cute blond BBW girl. I hope I see her again real soon.

 

[klippert]

Bbw

I think we need to establish what a BBW is.... can we use: Size.... like a size 12. Is that a bbw.... are we talking over 20, if sizes go that high.... I'm serious. because my wife is a 14 and I don't consider her a BBW. she has big boobs, 38DDs and a belly....That she isn't a fan of by the way..... BUT, she isn't huge. What are the parameters...

Are we talking BBW, in weight scale.... you could be 6'-0", at 130lbs....that would be a big woman....are we talking Large Marge, 180 - 250's plus..... you know huge. I have always been attracted to woman with curves....natural curves.... but not natural, bucket of chicken a day curves....

we have a neighbor, she has a medium waist, and very round hips, and she knows how to move those hips... she has smallish boobs, though she carries some meat on her bones... maybe a size 12-14....

We need guide lines....

Yes Im serious. and since lit won't let me post the same pic on two threads.... you must go to: Fetish: sliding between them, joys of titty fucking and see mrsK's pic...

 

[EnglishEm]

I think we need to establish what a BBW is.... can we use: Size.... like a size 12. Is that a bbw.... are we talking over 20, if sizes go that high.... I'm serious. because my wife is a 14 and I don't consider her a BBW. she has big boobs, 38DDs and a belly....That she isn't a fan of by the way..... BUT, she isn't huge. What are the parameters...

Are we talking BBW, in weight scale.... you could be 6'-0", at 130lbs....that would be a big woman....are we talking Large Marge, 180 - 250's plus..... you know huge. I have always been attracted to woman with curves....natural curves.... but not natural, bucket of chicken a day curves....

we have a neighbor, she has a medium waist, and very round hips, and she knows how to move those hips... she has smallish boobs, though she carries some meat on her bones... maybe a size 12-14....

We need guide lines....

Yes Im serious. and since lit won't let me post the same pic on two threads.... you must go to: Fetish: sliding between them, joys of titty fucking and see mrsK's pic...

In order to try and answer 'some' of your questions, sizes go a lot higher than a size 20. I've seen ladies sizes up to 50 (in the UK).

A woman with big boobs is not a BBW, neither is a size 12, 14, 16...perhaps a lady who is a size 16 would consider herself a BBW but I don't (again, these are UK sizes).

I guess there really isn't a hard and fast rule here because BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman and some guys find larger ladies attractive but some don't so it's up to the individual person.

Don't forget personality as well. A lot of the time, a large woman who has average looks will become a lot more attractive because she has a happy, bubbly, outgoing personality.

Also, a large lady who embraces her large frame and dresses sexily with a sexy, sassy attitude, will also appear more attractive.

If you want the definition for a large, attractive guy, it's BHM or Big Handsome Man.

I hope these answer your questions and to be honest, judging by the comments you've made in your post, I don't think the average persons definition of a BBW is the same as yours.

 

[RjThoughts]

Happy Friday you wonderfiul ladies and grateful lusters! Anyone with big plans?

On the topic of what sizes constitute being a bbw: if she shops at Lane Bryant and other clothing stores which cater to "Women sizes" she's a bbw. For safety reasons, I wont't ask my wife for specifics.

Having big breasts does not make the woman a bbw, nor does a bbw need big breasts. One nice was a d cup before her pregnancy, but she is NOT 5 ft tall nor did she weigh 100 lbs. My wife's bestie is a large woman, a regular LB shopper, but is barely a b cup. ( Bra cup sizes are guesstimates based on years of looking at them and other boobs. Your mileage may vary. )

 

[big_heart_nerd]

I love large women

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Happy Friday you wonderfiul ladies and grateful lusters! Anyone with big plans?

On the topic of what sizes constitute being a bbw: if she shops at Lane Bryant and other clothing stores which cater to "Women sizes" she's a bbw. For safety reasons, I wont't ask my wife for specifics.

Having big breasts does not make the woman a bbw, nor does a bbw need big breasts. One nice was a d cup before her pregnancy, but she is NOT 5 ft tall nor did she weigh 100 lbs. My wife's bestie is a large woman, a regular LB shopper, but is barely a b cup. ( Bra cup sizes are guesstimates based on years of looking at them and other boobs. Your mileage may vary. )

Hot tub party tonight. Three couples, all the wives are BBW. It's going to be fun

 

[EnglishEm]

Hot tub party tonight. Three couples, all the wives are BBW. It's going to be fun

Hope you enjoy your hot tub party I'm off to a naturist club that hosts adult parties at the weekend (and yes, they have bigger women there too!)