BBW Love

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I love threads like this, its what gave me the confidence to start posting photos and I always find myself coming back to these threads when I'm in the midst of a panic attack after posting a picture that I feel shows "too much fat"

Your avatar and photos make men want to "attack". ;)
 
Hey all, just got here;

I love reading all these amazing posts about curves; totally put a smile on my face.

However, I keep wondering:
How does one exactly define a BBW?
I mean, I am off-the-charts-curvy, but it's never really been something I've loved (nothing against curves, I just dance and big boobs are a pain and really make you stand out from the other bun-heads). Nor would most people consider me fat. Is there something in between or does curvy equal fat? Is there some sort of 'plus-size' measurement that I should know about to be officially big?

Also, may I just say that since I moved to Spain I have not been able to find a bra store that has my size?! What is up with these crazy Mediterranean women and their lack of tits?!

*breathes* Okay, I'm done ranting now.

In my definition, which I must preface with I am married to a woman that is 5'3", over 200 lbs, and who carries DD cup breasts, a big beautiful woman is someone that does not fit into the "Size 4 is TOO fat" society in which we live. She is a confident woman that is not wear a single digit dress size, she does not blow away in a stiff breeze. Her breast size can be a B, a C, or larger. She can be pear shaped, apple shaped, or carry a sign "Warning: Dangerous Curves Ahead!"

To me, being a BBW is more of an attitude than a size or shape. "If you don't who I am, what I am, it's YOUR loss, not mine!" is what my wife and sister-in-law always say, always act, always carry with them.

As for the lack of adequate bras...Who needs to wear a bra, anyway? Let them be free!! <That's me speaking on a purly manly, perverted level :-D>
 
I love the fact that I'm a big, beautiful woman and I've found that having confidence speaks volumes when it comes to attracting lovers. I've had more offers than I care to count, more so than many of my attractive slender friends, and have the option of being very selective about who I actually do choose to take home with me.

I'm almost 6 foot tall and I'm a size 22, too, with great not-too-small-not-too-big tits and a round, perfect ass :) lol Forgive me if I'm sounding narcissistic, I probably am, and I know that my size isn't exactly happy, but I have been lucky in being able to find myself sensual and beautiful no matter what my size (I am in between the largest and smallest size I've ever been right now).
 
I am more than just a number on a tag, I am curvaceous, soft and luscious. My smile is infectious and my eyes sparkle when I laugh. I am passionate, forgiving and quite lovable. Like the previous Megrae, I too have had offers, from young and old, single and married. Size is not the issue, attitude and loving oneself is what makes one desirable.
 
I am more than just a number on a tag, I am curvaceous, soft and luscious. My smile is infectious and my eyes sparkle when I laugh. I am passionate, forgiving and quite lovable. Like the previous Megrae, I too have had offers, from young and old, single and married. Size is not the issue, attitude and loving oneself is what makes one desirable.

Very well said!! My wife is a bbw and I wouldn't have married any other type of girl!!
 
I can be attracted by all types, but most definitely tend to trend to bigger women. Granted, while a thinner woman might look great in a bikini, BBWs look better naked. :)
 
I am more than just a number on a tag, I am curvaceous, soft and luscious. My smile is infectious and my eyes sparkle when I laugh. I am passionate, forgiving and quite lovable. Like the previous Megrae, I too have had offers, from young and old, single and married. Size is not the issue, attitude and loving oneself is what makes one desirable.
I've never heard a more true statement in my life. I hope this doesn't sound odd, but I just wish I could see in person how beautiful your smile is and much your eyes sparkle when you give a cute little laugh. :)

I love threads like this, its what gave me the confidence to start posting photos and I always find myself coming back to these threads when I'm in the midst of a panic attack after posting a picture that I feel shows "too much fat"

Darling, take our word for it: You look incredible. I've seen most of your pics and I seriously think you could never take a bad pic if you TRIED. ;)
 
I am me, am a BIG, BOLD, wench. Look at my profile you will see me, click my link and if you are a Fetlife member you will see even more of me. I don't always like me, but I know a lot of men that do and that in itself makes me more than sexy.
 
Good evening from MO. I too am cute and perky and lots of fun. I just have more of me to love. {Waves}
 
Oh, where or where are the men in my area that feel this way? I'm loving the open acceptance of BBW's here. I'm not 'beautiful' but I'm pretty, intelligent, have a great sense of humor and am very loving and passionate. Unfortunately, the men in my neck of the woods only see those 'perfect' bodies.
 
Good evening from MO. I too am cute and perky and lots of fun. I just have more of me to love. {Waves}

Oh, where or where are the men in my area that feel this way? I'm loving the open acceptance of BBW's here. I'm not 'beautiful' but I'm pretty, intelligent, have a great sense of humor and am very loving and passionate. Unfortunately, the men in my neck of the woods only see those 'perfect' bodies.
Welcome to the thread ladies :)
 
I've never heard a more true statement in my life. I hope this doesn't sound odd, but I just wish I could see in person how beautiful your smile is and much your eyes sparkle when you give a cute little laugh. :)

Thanks so much....not odd at all...smiling right now as a matter of fact.
 
To me, being a BBW is more of an attitude than a size or shape. "If you don't who I am, what I am, it's YOUR loss, not mine!" is what my wife and sister-in-law always say, always act, always carry with them.

As for the lack of adequate bras...Who needs to wear a bra, anyway? Let them be free!! <That's me speaking on a purly manly, perverted level :-D>

Why, you have hit upon a key point. Society, naturally, needs it's labels to function. We need things to be black and white, wrong and right, so that we may work like a well oiled machine. However, human beings are not black and white and labels (in my experience) aren't the absolute. My age has given myself away.

I should turn inward to find the answers to my questions.

Perhaps, trying to label oneself is like grasping smoke; in trying to define myself, something is already lost in the searching.

*As to the matter of not wearing a bra: Good God, man! What if I actually need to run anywhere?!? This is not a laughing matter.
 
I need to figure out how to get a hold of the confidence you two have!! I know my lack of companionship stems from my lack of self esteem but Ive just never felt like the beautiful girl. Cute sure, nice definitely, sweet..yeah...but not the one that men want

I know for a fact that there are guys out there who want you.
 
It sounds like your confidence is at an all time low, we need to fix that!
 
Not really, its actually been pretty good...I just deal in facts.

Online i have had the chance to get close to some amazingly sexy men (yourself included) but in real life when I take the chance to talk to an attractive guy I get a polite dismissal or I get asked to hook them up with a friend of mine

just the way the cookie crumbles

I've been following this thread, and your posts. It's a shame a lot of guys are like that. I for one like curvey gals. The last three FWBs I've had were BBWs. And they are all sexy as hell, and could wear my ass out! LOL. It's all in the attitude, I say. Keep looking, SNG, we're out here.
 
Not really, its actually been pretty good...I just deal in facts.

Online i have had the chance to get close to some amazingly sexy men (yourself included) but in real life when I take the chance to talk to an attractive guy I get a polite dismissal or I get asked to hook them up with a friend of mine

just the way the cookie crumbles

SNG I totally agree and understand how you feel. I'm in the same boat as you and just wonder if there really are any guys out there that could accept me just the way I am.

From your posts I think you sound like a truly intelligent and terrific person. The guys don't know what they're missing out on, imo.
 
Count me in. As long as the lady I'm interested in doesn't mind wearing home-made nursing bras or being constantly fingered/eaten out and made to keep a vibrator inside her all day, waiting for me to cum home.
 
Count me in. As long as the lady I'm interested in doesn't mind wearing home-made nursing bras or being constantly fingered/eaten out and made to keep a vibrator inside her all day, waiting for me to cum home.

Wow -- super hot!
 
Let me just say that big gals know how to enjoy sex. They often take a little longer to loosen up, but look out when they start to feel comfortable. Maybe it's just me but there is nothing better than the soft tender flesh of a big woman. I just love the fell of their body underneath mine. And if you've never given a larger woman oral, you dont know what you are missing.
 
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