BBW Love

[morena_69]

Lucky! We don't have Good Friday off! It's also Earth Day and 420 Day!

 

[Jenna2641]

Lucky! We don't have Good Friday off! It's also Earth Day and 420 Day!

It is actually a rare thing with my new company. We don't get a lot of the small holidays as they save them to give us the week between Christmas and New Years off. But this year it falls in a way they don't need as many of those little holidays, so good Friday is the one they gave us back this year.

 

[golfdude776]

Happy Hump Day BBW Lovers!! (Wednesday) Just think, we almost made it through the week! What will you do to get you through the week?

definitely enjoy looking at your curvy body

 

[morena_69]

Thank you

 

[ezwriter]

Love BBWs Morena. The curves, the softness, so much to kiss and caress. BBWs are totally sensuous.

 

[JuanVato]

As a young co-ed BBW, I find it hard to find real men who appreciate bigger women. We have the big tits and ass but, men don't seem to like everything in the middle. It makes me very aroused thinking that there is man, or woman, out there that still appreciates bigger women. Does anyone else share my love or is the BBW love gone?

We are out there.
I have dated size 16's that were much more fun than some size 6's.
Active is attractive, and that does not necessarily mean exercise.

 

[Wolfman1982]

We are out there.
I have dated size 16's that were much more fun than some size 6's.
Active is attractive, and that does not necessarily mean exercise.

I agree with that. my former love, was a BBW whom I was introduced to through another LOVELY bbw.

 

[EnglishEm]

I had to come in here and post because I'm a big woman with low self esteem. I don't consider myself a BBW because I don't think 'big, beautiful woman' applies to me.

Although my husband is constantly telling me how much he loves my 'squidgy bits' and how much he likes to get hold of them, there is always a tiny voice in my head saying, "Well, he wouldn't tell you he thinks you're a fat cow, would he? He wouldn't want to hurt your feelings".

In a world where perfection seems to be constantly shoved down our throats, I guess I've always assumed that most men are looking for women with perky breasts, taught, flat stomachs and tight, firm bottoms.

So, from a woman who doesn't have any of those attributes, can I say 'thank you' for not looking for perfection and instead, looking at the person underneath

(Just to clarify, this is my opinion on my own body and not a reflection on BBW's in general - as I said, I don't consider myself to be a BBW).

 

[KinkyGoose]

{snip} ...

Although my husband is constantly telling me how much he loves my 'squidgy bits' and how much he likes to get hold of them, there is always a tiny voice in my head saying, "Well, he wouldn't tell you he thinks you're a fat cow, would he? He wouldn't want to hurt your feelings".
...{snip}

See, I'm always trying to convince my wife of the same thing! I just love her soft curvy bits, but she doesn't tend to believe me, countering with the same thing as that voice in your head.

Let me tell you, if he didn't like them, and didn't think you were sexy the way you were, he wouldn't say anything about it at all! He wouldn't lie, because he'd know you would smell it on him, so he'd say vague dismissive things or avoid the subject altogether. Believe me

If he didn't like to get a hold of those 'squidgy bits' he'd leave his hands off them

You are a big, beautiful woman. And there are plenty, plenty, plenty of guys out there who agree. ~including me~

 

[SweetMerry]

Although my husband is constantly telling me how much he loves my 'squidgy bits' and how much he likes to get hold of them, there is always a tiny voice in my head saying, "Well, he wouldn't tell you he thinks you're a fat cow, would he? He wouldn't want to hurt your feelings".

I know what you mean. (I'm not married, but I have been in committed, monogamous relationships.) Until quite recently I, too, had that niggling feeling in the back of my head that even if someone said they liked the look of me, they had to be glossing over some imperfection to not hurt my feelings. Just within the past year I finally came to let that go.

I've discovered that when I feel sexy and beautiful, that is the big turn on. I mean, my body shape isn't going to be attractive to everyone, and that's fine. But, when I feel good about the way I look, I could give a flying flip about those people. In turn, that confidence attracts those that do like a curvy woman.

 

[spankmeagin]

BBW Luv

Morena! I love full figures women. They are the very most sensuous partners. I was born to Serv N Pleez and would enjoy very much pleezing you!

 

[koolfella81]

i most say that female that are healthy as i say are so sexy .... they meaty in the right parts .... and ez to hold when the fun starts

 

[Rolando2]

I am a huge fan of BBWs. I may be bisexual, but that doesn't stop me from loving a REAL woman!
:rose

 

[jsg1966]

What do you like about bigger women? I like that you can slap our asses on Thankgiving and it doesn't stop shaking until Christmas! ;-)

I like a woman that's comfortable enough with herself to make a joke like that!

 

[jsg1966]

Although my husband is constantly telling me how much he loves my 'squidgy bits' and how much he likes to get hold of them, there is always a tiny voice in my head saying, "Well, he wouldn't tell you he thinks you're a fat cow, would he? He wouldn't want to hurt your feelings."

If he is actually getting hold of your "squidgy bits", you have less than nothing to worry about. If a guy wasn't attracted to your non-bathing-suit parts, he's spend all his time on the bathing-suit parts.

 

[bluemoonbill]

Absolutely

I know what you mean. (I'm not married, but I have been in committed, monogamous relationships.) Until quite recently I, too, had that niggling feeling in the back of my head that even if someone said they liked the look of me, they had to be glossing over some imperfection to not hurt my feelings. Just within the past year I finally came to let that go.

I've discovered that when I feel sexy and beautiful, that is the big turn on. I mean, my body shape isn't going to be attractive to everyone, and that's fine. But, when I feel good about the way I look, I could give a flying flip about those people. In turn, that confidence attracts those that do like a curvy woman.

I couldn't agree with you more. I feel you're absolutely correct.

You're a lady after my own heart.

"Sexy is as sexy does" and with the attitude you're talking about, your lover will find it difficult to see flaws..........the whole package takes-over and that's what true lovers see in each other.

Thanks for saying what you did.

 

[EnglishEm]

See, I'm always trying to convince my wife of the same thing! I just love her soft curvy bits, but she doesn't tend to believe me, countering with the same thing as that voice in your head.

Let me tell you, if he didn't like them, and didn't think you were sexy the way you were, he wouldn't say anything about it at all! He wouldn't lie, because he'd know you would smell it on him, so he'd say vague dismissive things or avoid the subject altogether. Believe me

If he didn't like to get a hold of those 'squidgy bits' he'd leave his hands off them

You are a big, beautiful woman. And there are plenty, plenty, plenty of guys out there who agree. ~including me~

Aha, so I'm not the only woman with that annoying voice then! And thank you for your comments

I know what you mean. (I'm not married, but I have been in committed, monogamous relationships.) Until quite recently I, too, had that niggling feeling in the back of my head that even if someone said they liked the look of me, they had to be glossing over some imperfection to not hurt my feelings. Just within the past year I finally came to let that go.

I've discovered that when I feel sexy and beautiful, that is the big turn on. I mean, my body shape isn't going to be attractive to everyone, and that's fine. But, when I feel good about the way I look, I could give a flying flip about those people. In turn, that confidence attracts those that do like a curvy woman.

I'm really glad that you've found a way to let it go - good for you! I have noticed that even a really big woman can command attention and interest if she has the personality and confidence to match her size.

If he is actually getting hold of your "squidgy bits", you have less than nothing to worry about. If a guy wasn't attracted to your non-bathing-suit parts, he's spend all his time on the bathing-suit parts.

Yes he does definitely get hold of them...all the time! So I do know (most of the time) that he's attracted to me. It's just that on some days that insidious voice creeps in...

But this thread definitely boosts the ol' confidence

 

[FarmerTan]

I don't consider myself a BBW because I don't think 'big, beautiful woman' applies to me.

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I hope someday you do. *hugs*

 

[morena_69]

EM: If your husband was attracted to you then her probably wouldn't be your husband. We should always remember that being beautiful is truly in the eye of the beholder. Just because some people think big women are not beautiful and like to attach a stigma to our weight doesn't mean that we have to abide by it.

SweetMerry: You are absolutely correct. I believe there is a catchy tune that I seem to hum a lot and it say, "Fuck Yooouuuu!" If you don't like my size or my weight and find something wrong with it, then it sounds like a personal problem.

JSP1966: If you can't joke about yourself then you are going to have a pretty sad life. I'm comfortable in my skin and I happen to like my ass.

For all my other BBW lovers and Big Beautiful Women(Thats you EM) and Big Beautiful Bold Women (SweetMerry) to everyone in between, I hope we can continue to love each other and ourselves.

 

[EnglishEm]

For all my other BBW lovers and Big Beautiful Women(Thats you EM) and Big Beautiful Bold Women (SweetMerry) to everyone in between, I hope we can continue to love each other and ourselves.

Thanks morena

 

[morena_69]

You're welcome!

 

[SweetMerry]

I couldn't agree with you more. I feel you're absolutely correct.

You're a lady after my own heart.

"Sexy is as sexy does" and with the attitude you're talking about, your lover will find it difficult to see flaws..........the whole package takes-over and that's what true lovers see in each other.

Thanks for saying what you did.

Well, thanks for what you said, too.

I'm really glad that you've found a way to let it go - good for you! I have noticed that even a really big woman can command attention and interest if she has the personality and confidence to match her size.

My personality is actually pretty soft (I'm a lover, not a fighter) but there can be strength in softness as well. You just have to find your source, whether it though a big personality or a soft one (or a little of both.)

SweetMerry: You are absolutely correct. I believe there is a catchy tune that I seem to hum a lot and it say, "Fuck Yooouuuu!" If you don't like my size or my weight and find something wrong with it, then it sounds like a personal problem.

I that song! So true. If someone doesn't like me because of my size, then it's a sign of their issues, not mine.

 

[golfdude776]

I that song! So true. If someone doesn't like me because of my size, then it's a sign of their issues, not mine.

bbw's are sexy, its very sexy to see a women who knows that she is hot, every woman has the "skinny girl" inside... and us bbw lovers see that skinny girl on the outside all the way thru to the inside, so stand proud and love yourselves like we love you

 

[Teachme84]

Hey lovely ladies and gents
Just thought id throw my two pennies in...

Im a size 18..have never been smaller than a 12, well that i can remember anyway.

That voice that you are talking about englishem, swat it bat it and jump on it, i spend my days doing pretty much that..And the days i succeed in beating that sucker down are the days i get lots of compliments, smiled at, winked at, said hello to etc etc..And when that voice gets the better of me (without sounding like a complete nut job!) are the days when i have a huge chip on my shoulder scowl and frown and dilly dather about in the local shop getting increasingly worked up trying to find my change and then think everyones staring at me because im not thin....

I hate the word bbw, is there a sbw term (skinny beautiful women??) Or a fbw term (freckly beautiful women) Or even fbm...(fat beautiful men....)
No there god damn isnt! It really annoys me, your a woman, why should we be made to feel like we dont belong if we dont fit into a certain size piece of cloth.

Anyway sorry for the rant

Lots of love.xx

 

[morena_69]

Hey lovely ladies and gents
Just thought id throw my two pennies in...

Im a size 18..have never been smaller than a 12, well that i can remember anyway.

That voice that you are talking about englishem, swat it bat it and jump on it, i spend my days doing pretty much that..And the days i succeed in beating that sucker down are the days i get lots of compliments, smiled at, winked at, said hello to etc etc..And when that voice gets the better of me (without sounding like a complete nut job!) are the days when i have a huge chip on my shoulder scowl and frown and dilly dather about in the local shop getting increasingly worked up trying to find my change and then think everyones staring at me because im not thin....

I hate the word bbw, is there a sbw term (skinny beautiful women??) Or a fbw term (freckly beautiful women) Or even fbm...(fat beautiful men....)
No there god damn isnt! It really annoys me, your a woman, why should we be made to feel like we dont belong if we dont fit into a certain size piece of cloth.

Anyway sorry for the rant

Lots of love.xx

Rants are Welcomed!!

I think the term BBW is used in that particular order because you often find "Big (ger) Women who think they are "Beautiful". The image of a bigger women with the attitude that says, "fuck off, I look good and you & I both know it" is so foreign and strange to other people that they categories these rare women as BBW. There aren't SBWs because to a majority of people Skinny = Beautiful and Freckles = Cute(mostly).

And I must admit, it was not until recently that I started to look in the mirror and say, "Hmmmm... you know. You aren't ugly step child, you look pretty good with those curves." Then I started to look at myself and say, "You look really good with those curves." Now I'm thinking, "You look good!"

Similar things have happened to "feminist" and "Bi-Sexuals". Can't we just being people who think that women are equal to men and people who love to love on men and women? According to society, no.

The fact of the matter is; women with fuller curves need to hear a very important message. Society has already deemed you as ill-fitted for the term "Beauty". Well, they are wrong. You are beautiful and you were blessed with more than a little loveliness. With society already calling you out you do not need your own insecurities beating at you as well.

So, forget Victoria Secret because her secret is she has a damn good plastic surgeon and I don't need no Curves because I have them already. And don't get me started on Jenny Craig. I haven't seen Jenny Craig since Jenny Craig was fat herself. The lying hoe.

So; I'm big, I'm beautiful, I'm bold, I'm black and yes I have ta-tas and I like it that way.

Ok... My Rants done.. Sorry guys