bbw & cunnilingus

My husband and I would be glad to sponsor a support group here in Baltimore, MD. Meetings could be held at our place and we'd make sure all the ladies left with a sense of relief. ;)

A little far for me but if it was really started itv would make me smile:cathappy:
 
perceptive than most though. So many of us put up these walls in self-defense at one time or another - a means of self-protection. It sometimes takes an extremely perceptive (and persistent) lover to get through to us just how loveable, sexy, and desirable we are. The rewards are usually worth it ;):kiss:

Persistence pays off! I once dated an extremely big bodied woman who was very self conscience of her weight. So much so, sex wasn't on the table for about a month. I kept pursuing it and kept pursuing it until she finally gave in. Once I got my tongue and mouth on her pussy, she couldn't get enough. It was "Katy bar the door" from then on. She was a very sweet person and a FANTASTIC lover!!!
 
I think I am in the same boat ~~~ I have been married for 26 years now ~ and the hubs is not into giving or receiving oral ~ and for me now ~~~ having my pussy ate is the thing I want to experience most ~~ but I know it will never happen ~
That's so sad. Don't see why anyone wouldn't want to give something that brings so much pleasure. You don't have to be Albert Einstein to be good at it either, just listen to your partner's body. I would happily do it all night if that's what the other person wanted..
 
My girlfriend is ~5' 200lbs and has a good sized belly. It really helps if I spread her pussy with my fingers, but when she moves around a lot it's sometimes difficult for me to get air. Her clit seems somewhat smaller than what I've been used to previously as well and on occasion can be difficult to reach, depending on her position. Still, she hasn't had any complaints about how I lick her and I enjoy it a great deal but I have thought of using a pillow and will have to try it at some point for better access. She's a very lovely and sexy lady and I love to hug her and run my hands over her curves and kiss her all over and lick her ass as well. Any problems are very definitely worth overcoming (no pun intended :D ).
 
My girlfriend is ~5' 200lbs and has a good sized belly. It really helps if I spread her pussy with my fingers, but when she moves around a lot it's sometimes difficult for me to get air. Her clit seems somewhat smaller than what I've been used to previously as well and on occasion can be difficult to reach, depending on her position. Still, she hasn't had any complaints about how I lick her and I enjoy it a great deal but I have thought of using a pillow and will have to try it at some point for better access. She's a very lovely and sexy lady and I love to hug her and run my hands over her curves and kiss her all over and lick her ass as well. Any problems are very definitely worth overcoming (no pun intended :D ).
Think a pillow is a great idea sometimes for oral and sex..Maybe even get her to lie near the edge of a table or something. As for not getting any air, any discomfort is worth putting up with to give our loved ones what's coming to them (pun intended!)
 
My girlfriend is ~5' 200lbs and has a good sized belly. It really helps if I spread her pussy with my fingers, but when she moves around a lot it's sometimes difficult for me to get air. Her clit seems somewhat smaller than what I've been used to previously as well and on occasion can be difficult to reach, depending on her position. Still, she hasn't had any complaints about how I lick her and I enjoy it a great deal but I have thought of using a pillow and will have to try it at some point for better access. She's a very lovely and sexy lady and I love to hug her and run my hands over her curves and kiss her all over and lick her ass as well. Any problems are very definitely worth overcoming (no pun intended :D ).
An idea (I know we all have seen before) that many not be possible or practical for everyone but it something Sony and I used at a party we attended...A 4 point swing that a person can lie in with foot straps and leg supports. It was comfortable to use and with my legs angled back towards my belly and my pussy completely exposed and easy to enjoy :D. The swing also made my ass easily accessable...for licking or penetrating. The height of this device was also adjustable making it easy for a guy to stand and slip himself into his partner. And an added plus, for me, was that Sony could get in it and I could don my strap-on and butt fuck his butt very easily. :devil:
 
I'm a big gal with a tummy (I wear a size 26 jeans & 26 or 28 top). Hubby is also big with an equal sized tummy. I want more oral sex & he is full of excuses. His latest excuse is that he can't get to my clit because of my stomach. I say his head is too big! :rolleyes: Poor guy...his tongue gets tired. :( Of course he enjoys his BJs.

I've considered getting a wedge shaped pillow to elevate myself...wondering if anyone has used or tried this? Did it help? I think he is not really into giving oral (maybe the taste...I'm not really sure as he won't say). I do shower before I ask for it.

Any other suggestions or ideas? Thanks.

If you're just laying flat on your back...ya, that won't work very well. The angle of his head won't be comfortable and he'll have to strain a bit to reach, which makes it tiring. The best experience was with a girl that was more flexible and could pull her knees up against her chest some, spread apart more though. That brings everything up into a sort of snacking buffet style position. What works for us now is 69, with me on top, as I'm not "big", and another position where she is laying across several (3?) pillows so that her bottom is up in the air.

If he's turned off by the taste or scent then I'm not sure what suggest about that. A shower is a turn-off for me (e.g. scentless or tasteless pussy isn't very exciting), but so is too much Starbucks coffee. *blah* Something in between is perfect.

You might not be encouraging him like you need to for him to sort of associate oral with something that provides him with reward. Which could be almost anything -- different clothing, verbal encouragement, talking dirty, etc. Oral is unique, it's him putting off his own pleasure completely for yours, so the gratification is more mental or as a result of the situation (e.g. power over your sexuality) instead.

I suppose.

I guess he could be genuinely just not into it. Maybe that happens. I know it's important, and I hope that you can work things out.
 
My husband and I would be glad to sponsor a support group here in Baltimore, MD. Meetings could be held at our place and we'd make sure all the ladies left with a sense of relief. ;)

I'd be willing to help build several queening chairs for the cause.

Just saying...
 
Your man is making excuses.:(
if he ws interested in pleasing you that way, he would figure something out in order to please you........:devil:

that's not to say that there may b obstacles along the way.......;)
 
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