Barebacking...

[HoldYouDown]

My gf and I bareback, but she's not on BC so I pull out (which is fine with me -preferable in fact). Occasionally I use a condom to finish inside.

Generally I don't mind condoms, I don't see them as a big deal and would rather use one than rely on her birth control. But a condom has to be a combination of large and thin for me to enjoy.

 

[Islander55]

My gf and I bareback, but she's not on BC so I pull out (which is fine with me -preferable in fact). Occasionally I use a condom to finish inside.

Generally I don't mind condoms, I don't see them as a big deal and would rather use one than rely on her birth control. But a condom has to be a combination of large and thin for me to enjoy.

I can tell you from experience that that pulling out thing does not work all that well. I suppose it reduces the chances but it only takes one of those little guys to fulfill his mission in life to get her pregnant.

 

[anniebaby10]

My wife really does not like cum in any way; she asked that I continue to use a condom after menopause so there wouldn't be such a mess (I tend to have big loads; not bragging, just is what it is). We did do bareback a few times in our marriage, but not often at all. We ended up not having sex much right after menopause anyway for various reasons, and none at all in the last few years.

The last girlfriend before my wife was using BC, so bareback every time. I definitely enjoyed that much more. She didn't mind cum at all, "Just bodily fluids" she would say. She also gave great blowjobs, which my wife has never done. I loved the feeling of her heat and wetness on my skin. Of course, that was almost 30 years ago.

I agree with your old girlfriend. Nothing like sharing DNA with someone you care about. I feel sorry for you with a sexless marriage.

 

[richdon03]

I worked as a escort for 5 years and guys would ask all the time.. of course 99% of the time it was a no but i always wondered why would you ask for that ?

There's always that 1%

 

[OldFred65]

My girlfriend and I both got tested before we met in person for the first time. She barebacks me when she fucks my ass. I love feeling her cock raw in my hole.

So your girlfriend has a cock? That's fantastic!

 

[Escierto]

So your girlfriend has a cock? That's fantastic!

It is fantastic actually. Her cock is beautiful but then so is she. The sweetest words are when she says. “I want to fuck you.” Yes, please!

 

[tinypenisguy]

I have gone bareback and creampied many women with my small penis. Pregnancy risk sex is really hot!

 

[Shi_One81]

My wife really does not like cum in any way; she asked that I continue to use a condom after menopause so there wouldn't be such a mess (I tend to have big loads; not bragging, just is what it is). We did do bareback a few times in our marriage, but not often at all. We ended up not having sex much right after menopause anyway for various reasons, and none at all in the last few years.

The last girlfriend before my wife was using BC, so bareback every time. I definitely enjoyed that much more. She didn't mind cum at all, "Just bodily fluids" she would say. She also gave great blowjobs, which my wife has never done. I loved the feeling of her heat and wetness on my skin. Of course, that was almost 30 years ago.

Hold up. Time out!
Your wife has never given you a bj?! What in the pent up sexual frustration? I’ll never ever understand women who don’t enjoy giving oral. I’d much rather give it than receive it. Also, my condolences regarding menopause. I had my hysterectomy at 33 and went right into menopause but my sex drive got higher, which I didn’t know was possible, than it was before.

Now, my husband is 54 and his sex drive f’ing sucks to the point he’s always allowed me to play outside of our marriage because he knows I want sex way more than he does.

 

[sparkymatt]

Hold up. Time out!
Your wife has never given you a bj?! What in the pent up sexual frustration? I’ll never ever understand women who don’t enjoy giving oral. I’d much rather give it than receive it. Also, my condolences regarding menopause. I had my hysterectomy at 33 and went right into menopause but my sex drive got higher, which I didn’t know was possible, than it was before.

Now, my husband is 54 and his sex drive f’ing sucks to the point he’s always allowed me to play outside of our marriage because he knows I want sex way more than he does.

I wish my wife allowed me to play outside our marriage. As she got older her sex drive got less and less and non existent after menopause, whereas mine kept increasing. To the point I ended up having affairs and so she ended our marriage. Now due to this pandemic, I dont get any firm of sex at all.

 

[Loveitdady]

Myself I prefer bareback but I leave it up to the woman I am fucking. If she wants a condom I always have one or two handy. It is so much better going bareback...

 

[Peaches1988]

Yes to barebacking within common sense.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Yes to barebacking within common sense.

Nothing like being filled until you drip.

 

[Islander55]

Hold up. Time out!
Your wife has never given you a bj?! What in the pent up sexual frustration? I’ll never ever understand women who don’t enjoy giving oral. I’d much rather give it than receive it. Also, my condolences regarding menopause. I had my hysterectomy at 33 and went right into menopause but my sex drive got higher, which I didn’t know was possible, than it was before.

Now, my husband is 54 and his sex drive f’ing sucks to the point he’s always allowed me to play outside of our marriage because he knows I want sex way more than he does.

Wait until he turns 65 and starts dealing with health issues. Fortunately mine is a pervert and would just as soon watch as play so that works for me.

 

[SubmissiveMom]

I allow bareback because I love cum x simple as that x x x

 

[rocketeer50]

My gf and I bareback, but she's not on BC so I pull out (which is fine with me -preferable in fact). Occasionally I use a condom to finish inside.

Generally I don't mind condoms, I don't see them as a big deal and would rather use one than rely on her birth control. But a condom has to be a combination of large and thin for me to enjoy.

Q. Do you know what they call women who use withdrawal as their primary method of birth control?
A. Mothers.

 

[rocketeer50]

I worked as a escort for 5 years and guys would ask all the time.. of course 99% of the time it was a no but i always wondered why would you ask for that ?

When I was in the escort world I followed the conventional wisdom. Oral was generally bare, but intercourse was not, ever. If she’ll do it with me for a few extra bucks she’ll do it for other guys and there goes the safety.I was in it for about 8 years and never picked up any diseases from it, not even a cold.

 

[ldlarry52]

If using a condom is to prevent pregnancy then I understand using it while fucking and not while having oral. However if disease control is the goal then a condom for fucking and not oral makes no sense. Disease can be transmitted orally whether it is cock to mouth, pussy to mouth or mouth to mouth. So if the escort or pick-up is sucking you without a condom or even engaging in heavy French kissing she could give or receive a Sexually transmitted disease.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Mutual Aid...

I have not had sex with a condom in about 30 years. I recently took up with a guy and had condoms for the first time but in the heat of the moment one forgets things. Since I am no longer able to get pregnant and was comfortable with the guy, it was not a big deal. I have never cared for the stopping to get the condom on. To me it can break the mood.

Sometimes it can be fun if the girl gets to put the condom on the guy first...

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I can tell you from experience that that pulling out thing does not work all that well. I suppose it reduces the chances but it only takes one of those little guys to fulfill his mission in life to get her pregnant.

awwwwww come on now--, just one of those 'little guys'... thats ALL thats needed?

my wife and I used the withdrawl method for over forty years, we still only wound up with two kids. The only time she got pregnant, was when she intended for it to happen and that was the only time it happened.

 

[pace_purr]

When we were swinging or involved in threesomes or hot wife situations 99% of the time it was bareback.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Hold up. Time out!
Your wife has never given you a bj?! What in the pent up sexual frustration? I’ll never ever understand women who don’t enjoy giving oral. I’d much rather give it than receive it. Also, my condolences regarding menopause. I had my hysterectomy at 33 and went right into menopause but my sex drive got higher, which I didn’t know was possible, than it was before.

Now, my husband is 54 and his sex drive f’ing sucks to the point he’s always allowed me to play outside of our marriage because he knows I want sex way more than he does.

At 33???, Damn that had to be a hammer to take a blow like that so young, my wife was 39 when she had her partial. She also went right into menopause and then it was 15 years of hell and practically no sex. These last 7 years has been better--, as far as her general disposition but the sex thing never came back. She likes to remind me that she is 61 now and she just doesn't need it or want much at all to do with it.
I'm glad to hear that you have made adjustments that work for you and your partners.

 

[Islander55]

awwwwww come on now--, just one of those 'little guys'... thats ALL thats needed?

my wife and I used the withdrawl method for over forty years, we still only wound up with two kids. The only time she got pregnant, was when she intended for it to happen and that was the only time it happened.

If I remember my high school biology correctly, only one of the sperm gets to fertilize the egg and the others just are there as extras. In my misspent youth, I used the withdrawal method a few times successfully but my daughter was a result of an unsuccessful time. For most men, there are sperm released long before orgasm. If you don't have a condom and don't want to get pregnant, it is much safer to use oral or anal.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

If I remember my high school biology correctly, only one of the sperm gets to fertilize the egg and the others just are there as extras. In my misspent youth, I used the withdrawal method a few times successfully but my daughter was a result of an unsuccessful time. For most men, there are sperm released long before orgasm. If you don't have a condom and don't want to get pregnant, it is much safer to use oral or anal.

absolutely should use something... the two methods at the end of your post were certainly would be my first 'go to' methods for not getting pregnant but as I have stated in other posts and have been repeatedly referred to as a liar, because I have the gumption to say that I have ALMOST NEVER had a girlfriend or just a random partner who would be willing to swallow or to have anal sex--, well... without me having to pay cash in advance anyway.

 

[Lynn1996]

Hold up. Time out!
Your wife has never given you a bj?! What in the pent up sexual frustration? I’ll never ever understand women who don’t enjoy giving oral. I’d much rather give it than receive it. Also, my condolences regarding menopause. I had my hysterectomy at 33 and went right into menopause but my sex drive got higher, which I didn’t know was possible, than it was before.

Now, my husband is 54 and his sex drive f’ing sucks to the point he’s always allowed me to play outside of our marriage because he knows I want sex way more than he does.

All wives no matter what age should get to enjoy some extra

 

[emperor0379]

I go bareback all the time with my sexy postmenopausal girlfriend. Wish I could always be able to be bareback with others, but it would depend on the situation.