theravenfox
Aural Sex Goddess
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What is most important is to be confident of your identity and sexuality.
I am confident enough in mine to say your av is cute.
I have to agree with him. Very cute.
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What is most important is to be confident of your identity and sexuality.
I am confident enough in mine to say your av is cute.
Odd. I always pictured you with blue eyes.

Except for a few extra pounds, my AV is a pretty good likeness...
Except for a few extra pounds, my AV is a pretty good likeness...

Before I had a pic up, and with my name being pretty gender neutral, I got a lot of email from guys who got turned on by my story and wanted to do awful things to my pussy. I guess I write smut like a woman.

Sometimes I take the hat off.
I do have a tiara, but it's not as big as pictured.
I look much like mine.![]()
Don't let him kid you, his fur is gray. I've met him in person so I would know.![]()
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OK here's the thing...
I used to post here, and post stories here, some 7 years ago. It was during a period of my life when I was fairly happy, but a part of me was shut off and this was its only outlet. That is, I was a man, but I presented here and in my first person stories as a woman.
Some years on I am going through the first phases of what may eventually lead to full gender reassignmentand I decided, on a whim, to come on here and come out of the closet, as it were, as I am to all my friends in the real world.
At the time I thought of the people who used to frequent this board as my friends and felt a little guilty that I had to lie to some of them. I was concerned about a change in attitude to me and to my stories if I admitted my genetic identity.
I'm interested now in what, if anything, is people's reaction to this revalation, and how does it affect your reading of my work; if you are male and straight does it spoil it for you?
Except for a few extra pounds, my AV is a pretty good likeness...
I have to agree with him. Very cute.![]()
Not all of us are friendly. I think youre mad!
I have yet to see a transsexual who moves thru space like a female; all I know clomp along like Festus Hagan in a dress. When all is said and done you'll simply be one more deluded, gelded guy with a purse. A rose by any other name smells just as sweet.
Horror writer Clive Barker is queer and depicts queer characters in his stories. My favorite involves a statue (Roman Gladiator) that comes to life and protects its owner from predators. When a trio of Black hoodlums assault the owner for robbery they soon wish they hadnt.
I imagine many Gays wish they had such a guardian.
Barker's stories are congruent with who he is. More important, he doesnt put his homosexuality on a pedestal for adoration, what he does is write stories about queers having bad days and dealing with the supernatural. And straights can relate to his stories cuz we all get fucked with and wish for a guardian angel to smite the people of color.
But when a character tries to cope by leaping into the air to fly away from predators, folks cant relate to it anymore than they can relate to a guy who imagines himself a girl. DOES NOT COMPUTE.
THis attitude does not surprise me. I have taken more than 20 years coming to terms with it, I don't expect you to, who have no need. You did hit the nail on the head with the 'that you know of', though; if they do present fully as a woman, how would you know? I know many who do, and a few who don't.
The fear of being one of those that don't is what put me off for many a year. But you reach a certain stage in your life when you can go, hell, I'm me, I don't really care what other people think. And it's 2010, who really cares about a guy in a frock anymore? Any more than they care about girls in pants? I'm bothered about not looking ridiculous but that's more about being appropriate.
And I'm not gay. Equating me with Clive Barker is entirely missing the point. Most gay men are masculine and are attracted to other masculine straight men. I know that doesn't equate with what you have seen, but again that's because you only see the obviously camp (which is offputting to most). I'm not camp, but I'm too feminine for most gay men, even if I'd be happy with them. I'm something else. I don't expect to be attractive to or to con straight men into sleeping with me. There is a band of people that are happy to be with me knowing what I am and accepting it, and I'm happy enough with that.
By many definitions, I am mad. But if a madman will be made into a happy and useful member of society merely by painting himself blue, what difference does it make? Pass him the woad and stand back.
And do I read this right.. You are not only transphobic but racist as well?
Pish posh. You cant be a female anymore than you can be a horse. What you experience is entirely speculation, imagination, and cosmetic mimicry. Its like trying to slake thirst with a picture of a beer.
You missed my point about Clive Barker. Queers arent his main attraction or focal point, the horror is. His characters are Gay but the story will work with Vatican priests or opera tenors or census takers.
No, it really isn't. But I'm not going to argue the point with you any further because I've had a browse around and can see you're either a fascist nut-job or a troll, and I would just be wasting my time.