Bachelor/ette party

[temp256]

My sister is getting married, and I've been designated to throw the bachelor party. It's this friday, and I need help thinking of ideas. It's a combination bachelor/bachelorette since her fiance's friends are almost all women, and it's going to be held at our house.

So far the only ideas I have are phallic jello and breast shaped cakes. I really have no idea what to do. She says no strippers, but didn't give me much of a limit otherwise.

Any ideas?

Oh, and I made her a riding crop as a gift. I have no idea if they're in such a lifestyle, but I know they'll at least find it funny.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

I'm personally not a huge fan of combined bachelor/bachelorette parties - I think the party is a chance for the bride and groom to have some personal time before getting married.

With that out of the way, the best bachelor parties I've been to involved good friends, good food, good drinks, some games, and minimal shenanigans. We played some poker, watched the game, watched a movie, had a bonfire.... it was awesome.

Now, if you want shenanigans, I'd suggest some adult board games, an adult version of "pin the tail on the donkey" for the men and women, and maybe a penis cake and breast cupcakes...

 

[emap]

Yeah go with what Typical said. A mixed bachelor party with no strippers is a good idea. Otherwise the men are in one room the women in another, not many guys want to watch a guy strip even if there is a female stripper there to.

For the most part what you need to do is get a good stereo space for dancing, movies and games to do, the adult pin the tail is a good choice, guys turn such lovely colors of pink when you tell them to put the cock on the guy. Of course for that one to work you gotta have a fully stocked bar, overflowing is better get everybody sloshed and then bring out the naughty stuff.

 

[temp256]

See, here's the big problem with choosing me to organize this: I don't drink or listen to music, so I know absolutely nothing about them. There's a large stock of booze around the house in preparation for the wedding, but I haven't the slightest idea about music. I don't even know how to host a regular party.

I don't have any naughty games, and there will be very few guys there anyway. I really doubt there are many lesbians in the group either (sadly). I don't have a phallic mould for the jello either.

I'm already freaking out enough about being around lots of family for the wedding, and I don't need the added stress of hosting a party for a bunch of people I don't know.

 

[emap]

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Now, you can buy the games at either a porn shop or a party store, I assume you have one nearish to you. Find a cake shop or go to your local supermarket they will make desserts for you. As for the music, you have a radio right? Alternately, ask your sister for music you should play, I am pretty sure both she and her fiance have CD's of music they like.

 

[fire_breeze]

I hope this isn't too late. I've attended several bachelor/ettes parties, as the couple had mutual friends and we all got along anyway. Although it was adult themed, it wasn't focused on sex (unlike separate bachelor/ette parties which were really raunchy and in my opinion really boring). There's loads of things that you can do, although the ideas might come a little late:

1. Go mini-golfing, paint balling (girls vs. boys are always fun), hit a quiet bar and play pool or darts. Most people enjoy them, it gives a chance for people to mingle and there's booze for those who want them.

2. Go see a movie. Or better yet, rent 'their' movie (maybe the first one they saw together), have plenty of snacks and keep the lights dim. People will talk and that's good. Or have a marathon. Are they Star Wars or Indiana Jones buffs? Watch all in a row.

3. As for games, there's pin the heart on the man (poster of a hot guy and pin the arrow in the 'heart'), white elephant gift exchange using fun toys, or even trying to unwrap the gift with oven mitts on while questions about the future bride/groom are asked around (each time the question is correctly answered, the gift and the oven mitts are passed on).

4. Play poker, or black jack or whatever, with half the pot going to the couple. If you do play poker, be prepared for obvious cheating (actually, those are the best games - no one takes it seriously).

5. For more last minute ideas check this out

Good luck.

 

[tigerjen]

1. Music.....get some sexy dance music.....take Madonna's "Erotica" CD for starters....

2. Food.....stick with simple delicious appetizers, if you have a Trader Joe's where you live
they have some great ones! Definitely get some yummy sensuous desserts, dark chocolate
based especially!

3. Drinks......make sure to have options for BOTH those who drink and for those who don't.
For those who don't drink, a delicious mixed punch might do the trick!

4. Other activities......I love the movie idea....."Henry and June" is a good choice in my opinion
for starters

Just a sampling......good luck!


tigerjen

 

[neci]

some random games...

pass the double sided dildo
i bought a huge hot pink double sided dildo, and had everyone pass it around a circle between body parts. example: knee to knee, elbows to mouth, feet to armpit... i have played the game several times with some more reserved women, and it is always a hoot! plus the pictures are priceless. if the dildo drops, the person is out. last one standing wins a prize

deep throat the banana or other edible...
who ever can take the most in wins a prize

water filled condom balloon toss (add some lube to make it even more slippery!)

on the prize note, assorted condoms, sample size lubes and clitoral stimulants and little bottles of booze are great. plus if there are any left overs...

a little sign in book where all the guests can write advice (you can make it sexual or non sexual) to the bride. my favorite piece of advice was don't start doing anything now you don't want to be doing ten years from now.

we played bad 70's porn on the TV as back ground at one... helps set a humorous fun mood.

you can make a huge jello shot penis out of a plastic mold that lots of sex toy shops sell.

hmmmm... so many more fun things! the parties i have been to in the past normally have had a diverse group of women (and token gay guys), so i normally like to start things off slower with games that are not so risqué. as the party continues and people drink more, then the double sided dildo gets busted out. every party i have been to has had at least one prude, so it is nice to have an area, be it a porch or patio with music, for people who want to have fun, but are not quite ready to participate in the crazy games.

 

[infinity706]

Maybe the Great American Challenge would be even better than a double dildo. It's this even longer and heavier than Dick Rambone. I think the only other dildo quite that huge is the whale cock, but I'm not sure if that would be the best to break out with all those people you don't know. It is, apparently, a replica of an actual whale's cock.