Average in Bed- a research question

[Guest]

Here's a tidbit. During a blowjob, if she looks in my eyes with a sultry, smoky, sexy look that says, "The only reason I'm not pounding your dick with my pussy is that I want it in my mouth." then that can turn an average blowjob into an excellent one. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is the little "extra".

Add to this, slurpy sound effects. Even a few moans or mmm's on her part.

The unexpected can be a turn on too.

Like the girl from a foreign country who told me several times the evening we met, about how much more conservative girls in her country were compared to Americans. She had me so well conditioned, that when our good night kiss became two kisses, I was astonished. A few minutes later, when she unzipped me and started giving me an incredible blowjob, my mind officially boggled.

And finally, there was the girl who knew when I was about to cum, only to backoff, not once, but twice before finally letting me cum.

 

[Hercules_unleashed]

just a little something to add

Examples of passive aggressiveness, I think

Dead fucks may be #1 on every guy's list of bad sex--but it's #1 on every girl's list of passive aggressive ways to get a point across. Unfortunately...it doesn't work. And so the relationship drags on for weeks with this bad sex as a bad way of one party trying to tell the other party that things aren't working out.

Remember girls, men are not mind-readers.

Girls are not mindreaders either, for me the ideal is to raise my woman's passion, to intensify her pleasure, that is what give me pleasure. The biggest turn-off is a woman who does not know how to use her own body to add to my pleasure. all work and no play is not sexually satisfying

 

[Kallahar]

Feedback (visual, aural) is certainly important. It's hard for me to have a good time when it's obvious she's not.