average girth?

lovetamingle said:
can women really take one that big all the way in?
It's going to vary from woman to woman. All vaginas are different, just like all cocks are different.

Although I have a thread that suggests otherwise (c'mon, it was a parody thread, people!), I can take 9" of my 12" dildo if I'm very aroused. A little extra lube doesn't hurt, either.

Because I know how some of you guys operate, please don't PM me about this. I've said all I'm going to say about my exploits with my largest dildo.
 
LadyJeanne said:
Yes, but how much does a penis weigh? That's what I want to know. :cool:
According to Scalywag, it's all about volume. :D
 
Eilan said:
According to Scalywag, it's all about volume. :D

Ah, yes...liquid displacement...did our Lit researchers complete their experiments and determine the average amount of water displaced by the 'average' penis, and calculate weight? Inquiring minds want to know.
 
LadyJeanne said:
Ah, yes...liquid displacement...did our Lit researchers complete their experiments and determine the average amount of water displaced by the 'average' penis, and calculate weight? Inquiring minds want to know.
Where are "Mythbusters" when we need them? :confused:
 
Lust Engine said:
I'd be willing to do Kari Byron all in the name of science.



Think the queue would be a long one for that.

Anyway wasn't Adam doing her at one point. The way those two carried on they had to be bumping uglies at one time.
 
FitnessGirl said:
Some points of reference on Circumference:

5 1/2 inches - Empty Toilet Paper Roll
6 3/4 inches - Can of Red Bull
7 3/4 inches - Standard Beer Bottle
8 1/4 inches - 12 oz Soda Can
8 3/4 inches - 24 oz bottle of Arrowhead Water (Sport Top)

Okay, I did a little research and found 3 solid and published surveys on penis size. One pole surveyed 3300 men, another 2500 and the other 1800. That is a total of 7600. I combind all the statistics and this is what I came up with.

AVERAGE LENGTH: 6 1/4 inches - measured from the pubic bone to the tip.
89% of the men were between 5 and 7 inches.
6% of the men were less than 5 inches.
5% of the men were more than 7 inches.

AVERAGE GIRTH: 4 7/8 inches - measured around the mid-shaft.
86% of the men were between 4 and 5 1/2 inches.
6% of the men were less than 4 inches.
8% of the men were more than 5 1/2 inches.

Botoom line, only 1 in 20 men are longer than 7 inches and less than 1 in 10 are thicker than 5 1/2 inches, so the claims in this post of being as thick as a beer bottle (7 3/4 inches) seem a little curious.

As for Sirens toy of 3" in circumference, I can't understand her statements of being fulfilled. A quarter (25 cents) has a circumference of 2.9". Pick one up and look at it. Does it really look like that would be satisfying?

Like Siren said she used to be, I am a bit of a size queen. Unfortunately, of the 20 or so guys I have been with (I am 23) only 3 were what I would consider well above the averages I stated above. The biggest was about 8" long and 6 1/2 - 7" thick (Red Bull can), and for me, the bigger the better.

Along with an 8" vibrator and Hitachi Magic Wand for my clit, I masturbate virtually everyday using a 10" vibrating dildo for penetration that is 7 inches in circumference at the tip and 7 1/2 inches at the base. I enjoy the pain/pressure that my thick dildo (I call him Big Red) puts on the walls of my pussy.

I have a small frame and I am in great physical shape (check profile) and do PC muscle excercises twice a day. I even throw in a few each time I sit down to pee. My pussy is tight, but I love stretching it out and pushing it to the extreme.

I am not saying I can't enjoy an average penis, but there are just some things, and orgasmic places, that Big Red can take me that an average penis can not.
 
FitnessGirl said:
Botoom line, only 1 in 20 men are longer than 7 inches and less than 1 in 10 are thicker than 5 1/2 inches, so the claims in this post of being as thick as a beer bottle (7 3/4 inches) seem a little curious.
As the one who said that my ex-husband was 8" around--I measured it myself.

I can't speak for the Litster who made the beer bottle claim and I know that there's a lot of embellishment for the sake of fantasy on these boards, but I don't lie or exaggerate when I'm posting here, and I resent any implication that I might have done so.

Welcome to Lit. :)
 
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Eilan said:
As the one who said that my ex-husband was 8" around--I measured it myself.


Obviously your man is in that 5 percent "above average" category. (Lucky bastard.)

I can see why some people would doubt that he's 8 inches in girth... That's one fat dick. On the other hand, guess it's not all that surprising. Just look around. The average male height is, what, 5'9", but I see lots of guys in the mid-6' range, so clearly there are lots of unusually sized people all around us.
 
Eilan said:
As the one who said that my ex-husband was 8" around--I measured it myself.

I can't speak for the Litster who made the beer bottle claim and I know that there's a lot of embellishment for the sake of fantasy on these boards, but I don't lie or exaggerate when I'm posting here, and I resent any implication that I might have done so.

Welcome to Lit. :)

Sorry Eilan, I certainly wasn't making any accusations. All I said was it was curious.
 
BigM said:
Obviously your man is in that 5 percent "above average" category. (Lucky bastard.)

I can see why some people would doubt that he's 8 inches in girth... That's one fat dick. On the other hand, guess it's not all that surprising. Just look around. The average male height is, what, 5'9", but I see lots of guys in the mid-6' range, so clearly there are lots of unusually sized people all around us.

8 inches is way above average. In your analogy to average height, your mid'-6' guy would actually have to be 9' 2''.
 
FitnessGirl said:
.... I can't understand her statements of being fulfilled. A quarter (25 cents) has a circumference of 2.9". Pick one up and look at it. Does it really look like that would be satisfying?...

ummm... quarter =0.952" diameter.
0.952 X 3.14159 = 2.99, thats 3" for government work.

So,whats not to understand?

Would a quarter look like it would be satisfying? LOL! Not sure, ummm.... maybe someone out there might think so? But I would think that there are many more that would be more likely to be satisfied by a whole roll (or two) of quarters than just one quarter!! Don't personally know anyone that has a quarter fetish, so I could be wrong.

Would a silver dollar look like it would be satisfying? LOL!

My SO and I played with a couple that had a Yoga studio, they were masters of many types including Kundalini yoga. They were also Reiki masters...among other esoteric things. They both could get each other to orgasm without touching each other, and not only that, she said that she got her most intense orgasms with no physical stimulation at all... it was some sort of Kundalini energy meditation.

In other words, De gustibus non disputandum est!

.... but there are just some things, and orgasmic places, that Big Red can take me that an average penis can not.

You know, you can learn to overcome that limitation if you want.
 
FitnessGirl said:
As for Sirens toy of 3" in circumference, I can't understand her statements of being fulfilled. A quarter (25 cents) has a circumference of 2.9". Pick one up and look at it. Does it really look like that would be satisfying?
I don't know why it'd be hard to understand that different people have different preferences.

A lot of people are satisfied by thinner objects and cocks. I'll take a thin toy with a good shape, or thin cock attached to a man who knows how to use it and pleasure me, over a monster toy/cock anyday.

Often it's the mental aspect of using toys, masturbating or having sex that turns us on so much. I almost came from reviewing certain thoughts last night. There was no touching involved, and I'm sure even something the circumference of a quarter would have added a lot of pleasure. Hell, I love even one finger, when used correctly.

Like Siren said she used to be, I am a bit of a size queen. Unfortunately, of the 20 or so guys I have been with (I am 23) only 3 were what I would consider well above the averages I stated above. The biggest was about 8" long and 6 1/2 - 7" thick (Red Bull can), and for me, the bigger the better.
Perhaps you'd be happier with the smaller to average cocks if you focused on quality over quantity. At least that's what I've found -- the better my partner and I know each other, the more attraction, communication and interactions we have, the less important physical characteristics become. :)
 
BigM said:
Obviously your man is in that 5 percent "above average" category. (Lucky bastard.)
It was my ex, and he seemed to consider himself unlucky because his partners have complained that his girth is painful for them. He's 5" long, and I think that if he had his way, he'd sacrifice some girth to gain some length. But, on the other hand, he never pounded my cervix.

Fortunately, his cock is no longer my problem. :)
 
i_love_myself76 said:
lmao the bottom of the bottle and it has been more than 2-3 men thanks to be honest for the longest time i thought beer bottle was the average size so maybe i just attract the freaks lol

If you are taking that large a cock in you regularly, you are for sure attracting the freaks. Maybe you should start measuring with a real tape measure. You can't even wrap you hand around a beer bottle. Most cocks are less than half the size of a beer bottle around.
 
Hi, ok I'll answer this one about me being satified with the long thin dildo, that is originally intended for anal play. I do get satisfied because I flex my pc muscles more (I have to in order to feel it! it's very thin) and that is satisfying. A lot of times when I used to have very thick toys, it was difficult to flex the muscles cause I was so filled up, and I didn't need it, I just came instantly.
 
FitnessGirl said:
Like Siren said she used to be, I am a bit of a size queen. Unfortunately, of the 20 or so guys I have been with (I am 23) only 3 were what I would consider well above the averages I stated above. The biggest was about 8" long and 6 1/2 - 7" thick (Red Bull can), and for me, the bigger the better.

Along with an 8" vibrator and Hitachi Magic Wand for my clit, I masturbate virtually everyday using a 10" vibrating dildo for penetration that is 7 inches in circumference at the tip and 7 1/2 inches at the base. I enjoy the pain/pressure that my thick dildo (I call him Big Red) puts on the walls of my pussy.

I have a small frame and I am in great physical shape (check profile) and do PC muscle excercises twice a day. I even throw in a few each time I sit down to pee. My pussy is tight, but I love stretching it out and pushing it to the extreme.

I am not saying I can't enjoy an average penis, but there are just some things, and orgasmic places, that Big Red can take me that an average penis can not.

I have to call bullshit on those who claim size does'nt matter.

Being filled means finding the right fit with a partner.........whatever that size may be.

For ever female that likes being filled there's one who can't take a large cock.

One might become an addict while the other might banish you from touching her.

Excessive length is the biggest downfall to vaginal sex for those who are ''packin''.........hitting the cervix can be a showstopper for some women.

Excessive girth does the same thing for anal,one must use toys & fingers to stretch the sphincter until insertion is possible and pleasureful to both parties involved.
 
SouthernDom said:
Excessive length is the biggest downfall to vaginal sex for those who are ''packin''.........hitting the cervix can be a showstopper for some women.

I'm about 7 1/2" in length, and you're right - I've bottomed out a few times and it definitely ruins the whole mood. I haven't met a woman yet that enjoys that feeling
 
re

wow, thats i cant believe that those are the averages, im starting to feel really good about my dick lol, like 6 inches wide and 7long, so i guess im a lil above average? lol
 
Well, I'm waiting.

As I said earlier in this thread, I don't lie or exaggerate when I'm posting here, and I resent any implication that I might have done so.
 
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