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[Ladybird]

night honey


LB - it's amazing how much different it is living in a house. My kids and I are still living in the marital home till at least next March and hopefully another year after that. It has 4 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms which I have gotten very used too. I would like to buy my ex out eventually. I don't know if I could go back to smaller now.

Not with 3 growing daughters (now 8 1/2, 6 1/2 and a month of 5) anyway.

My marital home was large too, but living on my own now I thought a unit was the way to go. It's not though. A house will mean more work, more maintenance etc, but I can't wait to tidy up the garden, grow my own herbs and sit outside under the stars and ponder.

Life is good, isn't it. And so much better when we shed what's wrong in our lives and move on. I've never been as happy or content as I am now.

 

[bertrande]

My marital home was large too, but living on my own now I thought a unit was the way to go. It's not though. A house will mean more work, more maintenance etc, but I can't wait to tidy up the garden, grow my own herbs and sit outside under the stars and ponder.

Life is good, isn't it. And so much better when we shed what's wrong in our lives and move on. I've never been as happy or content as I am now.

yeah I must say I am feeling pretty good about myself lately - and I have meeting Trev to look forward too also. Could be soon by the looks of it!

My girls and I are happy with the way things are, we do alright and I am much much better off in many ways.

 

[Orlanth]

It's late.

 

[bertrande]

It's late.

It's okay honey I am old enough to be up this late

 

[Orlanth]

It's okay honey I am old enough to be up this late

Oh???

 

[bertrande]

Oh???

yep 38 in July

 

[Ladybird]

yeah I must say I am feeling pretty good about myself lately - and I have meeting Trev to look forward too also. Could be soon by the looks of it!

My girls and I are happy with the way things are, we do alright and I am much much better off in many ways.

That's great hon, and I think it would be really wonderful if you and Trev found you had something special together. While we haven't met, I have met Trev and have a real soft spot for the man. He's a real sweetheart.

This thread is populated with great people though. My closest friend is someone I met here. It's all good.

Watch out for Orlanth though.... he's a real ladies man.

 

[Ladybird]

It's late.

You're very clever you know.

Hiya babe... how is ya??

 

[bertrande]

That's great hon, and I think it would be really wonderful if you and Trev found you had something special together. While we haven't met, I have met Trev and have a real soft spot for the man. He's a real sweetheart.

This thread is populated with great people though. My closest friend is someone I met here. It's all good.

Watch out for Orlanth though.... he's a real ladies man.

Having talked to Trev on the phone we seem to get on really well. As for meeting we joke but neither of us have any preconceived ideas, if we become more than friends great, if not thats great too.

 

[bertrande]

Watch out for Orlanth though.... he's a real ladies man.

gosh I would never have thought that

 

[Ladybird]

gosh I would never have thought that

He's so subtle I thought I should warn you. You know, girl to girl etc.

And with that I must away to bed, tis a big day tomorrow. It's been great chatting with you hon, take care and I'll see you again soon I hope. Nighty night.

 

[bertrande]

He's so subtle I thought I should warn you. You know, girl to girl etc.

And with that I must away to bed, tis a big day tomorrow. It's been great chatting with you hon, take care and I'll see you again soon I hope. Nighty night.

night honey, thanks for the girl to girl thing. Hopefully he will hang around to have made the warning worth while.

Good luck tomorrow

 

[Dracoa]

Good day all you wonderful Aussie's. I hope all are well.

 

[Gil_T2]

I've decided to leave. My heart can not keep going through this, I already have a bad heart.

Tonights my last night here.

Ok it is your decision ORLANTH but you must realise that your only pleasing THEM by leaving making them feel like winners...............LIT is a great place except for the GBers so just don't go there & if one of them posts something to shock ppl it is to suck in victims for them to flame STOP REPLYING TO THEM....IGNORE them as by responding you are giving them fun.

I've had 20+ PMs from that fucking moron & just delited them all not read as I won't give these wankers their fun.

 

[Dracoa]

Ok it is your decision ORLANTH but you must realise that your only pleasing THEM by leaving making them feel like winners...............LIT is a great place except for the GBers so just don't go there & if one of them posts something to shock ppl it is to suck in victims for them to flame STOP REPLYING TO THEM....IGNORE them as by responding you are giving them fun.

I've had 20+ PMs from that fucking moron & just delited them all not read as I won't give these wankers their fun.

I fully agree. While I may not have recieved anything from anyone, I do think that you should just ignore the idiots.

 

[Gil_T2]

Hey Trev

I mentioned to a couple of my friends that I met a guy online that I seemed to get on well with and said that I was going to meet you - eventually.

So of course I got the classic warnings.

Of course I responded by saying 'well we are not going to have our first lunch (meeting) in his bed'. So either we don't eat lunch or you head my way for the first meeting

There should be a MUST do list for anyone meeting on the NET when R/L meeting is organised ............

1st being make it in a busy public area.

Always let a trusted friend know where & with who you will be meeting.

There are a lot of glib opperators who use the NET to lure ladies in for way more than they had wanted.

Demand to have their licence with pic sent to you (so you'll recognise them on meeting is a good one) that way if it does go wrong you have their photo ID anyway.

Make sure you have an escape route (maybe a ladies loo with 2 ways in & out).

Of course none of this applies to NOSTRESS just any lady planning a meet.Better to be safe than suffer.

 

[mortalwombat]

There should be a MUST do list for anyone meeting on the NET when R/L meeting is organised ............

1st being make it in a busy public area.

Always let a trusted friend know where & with who you will be meeting.

There are a lot of glib opperators who use the NET to lure ladies in for way more than they had wanted.

Demand to have their licence with pic sent to you (so you'll recognise them on meeting is a good one) that way if it does go wrong you have their photo ID anyway.

Make sure you have an escape route (maybe a ladies loo with 2 ways in & out).

Of course none of this applies to NOSTRESS just any lady planning a meet.Better to be safe than suffer.

does this apply to men as well? not sure it would be appreciated if i escaped thru the ladies loo if i was ever to meet someone

 

[bertrande]

Gil that is fabulous advice for anybody planning meetings in RL.

I reminded my friends (who obviously care about me) that I am a sensible adult and I am not meeting anyone anywhere alone for the 1st time. I have already promised a friend that I will send them a text when nostress and I meet. I have also told this friend where to access any private messages from nostress if the need arose. AS YOU SAID I DO NOT BELEIVE FOR A MINUTE THAT THIS IS NECESSARY WITH TREV BUT IT'S BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY.

I also reminded them that I could meet a psycho at a pub and foolishly end up in a situation that got out of hand.

I am looking forward to meeting Trev, but not so much so that I would put myself in danger.

As you said though basic precautions should be taken into consideration when organising to meet someone you met online.

 

[mortalwombat]

Gil that is fabulous advice for anybody planning meetings in RL.

I reminded my friends (who obviously care about me) that I am a sensible adult and I am not meeting anyone anywhere alone for the 1st time. I have already promised a friend that I will send them a text when nostress and I meet. I have also told this friend where to access any private messages from nostress if the need arose. AS YOU SAID I DO NOT BELEIVE FOR A MINUTE THAT THIS IS NECESSARY WITH TREV BUT IT'S BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY.

I also reminded them that I could meet a psycho at a pub and foolishly end up in a situation that got out of hand.

I am looking forward to meeting Trev, but not so much so that I would put myself in danger.

As you said though basic precautions should be taken into consideration when organising to meet someone you met online.

except for meeting me-the only precaution needed is a psychiatric evaluation

 

[Dracoa]

except for meeting me-the only precaution needed is a psychiatric evaluation

I'll have you know that me and my 32 other personalities are all perfectly sane.

 

[mortalwombat]

I'll have you know that me and my 32 other personalities are all perfectly sane.

now there's value-32 meets in one!

 

[Dracoa]

now there's value-32 meets in one!

LOL It was a joke, though I suppose it would have been funnier if I said 42.

 

[mortalwombat]

LOL It was a joke, though I suppose it would have been funnier if I said 42.

why 42? did u miss a few?

 

[Dracoa]

why 42? did u miss a few?

LOL Go read "The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy" trilogy, all 5 books of it.

42 is the answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything.

 

[mortalwombat]

LOL Go read "The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy" trilogy, all 5 books of it.

42 is the answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything.

i have read the first 3-many years ago tho and i forget most of it. i did know that answer-just not thinking! i want to read all before i see the new movie tho