Attraction and Lust.....

[PeteHulbert37]

So, who here sees an attractive woman and thinks, "gee, I wish I could get in her panties"? What woman sees a fine looking man, I mean a real hunk, and thinks "I want on top of that right now"? See there are attractive people. Then, in my mind, there are attractive people that I would have lust for. I am using the term lust in a context of: I would like to be intimate with her.

For example: I think Zooey Deschanel is attractive and I have major lust for her!

In contrast: I think Julia Roberts is attractive and I have never felt an ounce of lust toward her.

There are some here. I see their picture, get to know them through posting and sometimes PM and I think, "Wow! She is attractive and I want to nom nom nom! lol However, others I see as very pretty women, but I don't look at them in that other way. What do you think about attraction and lust. Do you lust after every Litster that you see?

 

[Aquagal]

Interesting concept and I agree with you. Sometimes getting to know a Litster
better, beyond the Av or inside profile pics, can switch the chemistry on as you find common areas of interest or sometimes it just doesn't click and it becomes nothing more than a pretty picture.

 

[*Twisted*]

Interesting concept and I agree with you. Sometimes getting to know a Litster
better, beyond the Av or inside profile pics, can switch the chemistry on as you find common areas of interest or sometimes it just doesn't click and it becomes nothing more than a pretty picture.

Well said the both of you

 

[MsTexas]

I think more than not, people are attracted to the idea of lust ...

 

[littlelovedove]

So, who here sees an attractive woman and thinks, "gee, I wish I could get in her panties"? What woman sees a fine looking man, I mean a real hunk, and thinks "I want on top of that right now"? See there are attractive people. Then, in my mind, there are attractive people that I would have lust for. I am using the term lust in a context of: I would like to be intimate with her.

For example: I think Zooey Deschanel is attractive and I have major lust for her!

In contrast: I think Julia Roberts is attractive and I have never felt an ounce of lust toward her.

There are some here. I see their picture, get to know them through posting and sometimes PM and I think, "Wow! She is attractive and I want to nom nom nom! lol However, others I see as very pretty women, but I don't look at them in that other way. What do you think about attraction and lust. Do you lust after every Litster that you see?

Not every Litster, just the cute ones.



One question..................am I Julia Roberts or Zooey Deschanel??

 

[PeteHulbert37]

I think more than not, people are attracted to the idea of lust ...

Yes, this is a good case in point. Have you ever...........(am I in the right thread?)................seen someone as very attractive physically and then you start talking to that person. Then, at some point you are like, "this person is dumber than a box of rocks". That kind of kills the whole lust thing. Yet, they still remain as an attractive person at least from one perspective(the physical).

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Not every Litster, just the cute ones.



One question..................am I Julia Roberts or Zooey Deschanel??

Zooey aint got nothing on you sugar. I want to jump her bones. However, I AM GOING to jump your bones. You see the difference there!

 

[MsTexas]

Yes, this is a good case in point. Have you ever...........(am I in the right thread?)................seen someone as very attractive physically and then you start talking to that person. Then, at some point you are like, "this person is dumber than a box of rocks". That kind of kills the whole lust thing. Yet, they still remain as an attractive person at least from one perspective(the physical).

Of course I have.

There are different kinds of lust that can be associated with attraction. As you stated is the lust of just wanting to be with someone physically and then there is the mental lust where your brain over rides the physical aspect of it and solely wants to be rewarded mentally. IE .. words, stories, fantasies and things of that nature.

Rarely is there a mental and physical lust at the same time ...

 

[Aquagal]

Yes, this is a good case in point. Have you ever...........(am I in the right thread?)................seen someone as very attractive physically and then you start talking to that person. Then, at some point you are like, "this person is dumber than a box of rocks". That kind of kills the whole lust thing. Yet, they still remain as an attractive person at least from one perspective(the physical).

Ach! I just came across that last week! You read my mind Ricky! So very very dumb that the libido did a direct nose dive. Truly amazingly dumb could not hold my attention no matter how pretty.

 

[fire_breeze]

So, who here sees an attractive woman and thinks, "gee, I wish I could get in her panties"? What woman sees a fine looking man, I mean a real hunk, and thinks "I want on top of that right now"? See there are attractive people. Then, in my mind, there are attractive people that I would have lust for. I am using the term lust in a context of: I would like to be intimate with her.

For example: I think Zooey Deschanel is attractive and I have major lust for her!

In contrast: I think Julia Roberts is attractive and I have never felt an ounce of lust toward her.

There are some here. I see their picture, get to know them through posting and sometimes PM and I think, "Wow! She is attractive and I want to nom nom nom! lol However, others I see as very pretty women, but I don't look at them in that other way. What do you think about attraction and lust. Do you lust after every Litster that you see?

I'm going to do something unusual and answer, directly. Actually, it's starting to be a worrying trend, but I digress .

Are there photos on here that make my jaw drop and mouth water? Yes. Sure. Do I want to jump into bed with them? Nope. While lust is a physiological response to something that attracts a person, I personally need a mental stimulus to be in lust with someone. What turns me on is having my mind turned on. I realise that this is a contradiction, but meh. It's the way I operate. I need to respect and be able to talk to the individual to feel some level of lust. So while there are many many attractive and beautiful pictures, I admire them as exactly that - being beautiful works of art (isn't that what the human body is?); the lust part comes when I get to know the person.

With the sole exception of Vin Diesel, of course. Him, he can just read the phone book and I'll just jump. But Vin Diesel is a special exception .

 

[PeteHulbert37]

I'm going to do something unusual and answer, directly. Actually, it's starting to be a worrying trend, but I digress .

Are there photos on here that make my jaw drop and mouth water? Yes. Sure. Do I want to jump into bed with them? Nope. While lust is a physiological response to something that attracts a person, I personally need a mental stimulus to be in lust with someone. What turns me on is having my mind turned on. I realise that this is a contradiction, but meh. It's the way I operate. I need to respect and be able to talk to the individual to feel some level of lust. So while there are many many attractive and beautiful pictures, I admire them as exactly that - being beautiful works of art (isn't that what the human body is?); the lust part comes when I get to know the person.

With the sole exception of Vin Diesel, of course. Him, he can just read the phone book and I'll just jump. But Vin Diesel is a special exception .

I think we all have at least ONE special exception.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Women that are funny, smart and open-minded about sex are a HUGE turn on for me....naturally, those that are smart also stay far far away from me...so I basically lust after any woman that mistakenly responds to one of my posts in a thread.....

 

[littlelovedove]

I'm going to do something unusual and answer, directly. Actually, it's starting to be a worrying trend, but I digress .

Are there photos on here that make my jaw drop and mouth water? Yes. Sure. Do I want to jump into bed with them? Nope. While lust is a physiological response to something that attracts a person, I personally need a mental stimulus to be in lust with someone. What turns me on is having my mind turned on. I realise that this is a contradiction, but meh. It's the way I operate. I need to respect and be able to talk to the individual to feel some level of lust. So while there are many many attractive and beautiful pictures, I admire them as exactly that - being beautiful works of art (isn't that what the human body is?); the lust part comes when I get to know the person.

With the sole exception of Vin Diesel, of course. Him, he can just read the phone book and I'll just jump. But Vin Diesel is a special exception .

On a serious note............I agree with you FB.
You can lust after individuals for many reasons. Not just looks.
True beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

[fire_breeze]

I think we all have at least ONE special exception.

Vin Diesel can be dumb as soup, but it's Vin bloody Diesel. Actually, with him, I'll break my rule. I'll tell him what to say to me

Bonus if his eyes has that Pitch Black shine to it.

Extra bonus if he's wearing a wife beater, and ripped jeans.

Triple bonus if he's sweating.

 

[MsTexas]

Vin Diesel can be dumb as soup, but it's Vin bloody Diesel. Actually, with him, I'll break my rule. I'll tell him what to say to me

Bonus if his eyes has that Pitch Black shine to it.

Extra bonus if he's wearing a wife beater, and ripped jeans.

Triple bonus if he's sweating.

Stop!!!!!

You're turning me on!!!

Vin is the ultimate hottie ...

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Vin Diesel can be dumb as soup, but it's Vin bloody Diesel. Actually, with him, I'll break my rule. I'll tell him what to say to me

Bonus if his eyes has that Pitch Black shine to it.

Extra bonus if he's wearing a wife beater, and ripped jeans.

Triple bonus if he's sweating.

And we now have a clear vision of exactly what FB's lust looks like.

Bonus, she got MsTexas fired up to! Now we're really getting somewhere!

 

[fire_breeze]

On a serious note............I agree with you FB.
You can lust after individuals for many reasons. Not just looks.
True beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Absolutely.

I won't lie and say that there needs to be a certain physical attraction. I also won't lie and say that I haven't enjoyed checking out beautiful people. But I will say that despite that, there was no lust. I might have well been looking at a statue.

 

[fire_breeze]

Stop!!!!!

You're turning me on!!!

Vin is the ultimate hottie ...

I'll just hum and have a glazed look in my eyes

And we now have a clear vision of exactly what FB's lust looks like.

Bonus, she got MsTexas fired up to! Now we're really getting somewhere!

*laugh* And here I was, thinking that I was restraining myself

Glad to be a service!

 

[MsTexas]

And we now have a clear vision of exactly what FB's lust looks like.

Bonus, she got MsTexas fired up to! Now we're really getting somewhere!

My word it takes just the hint of a mention ...

I'll just hum and have a glazed look in my eyes


*laugh* And here I was, thinking that I was restraining myself

Glad to be a service!

*shudders at the thought*

~changes desktop wallpaper~

 

[TheSilverLining]

Okay, I'm going to have to agree completely and utterly with what fire_breeze has said:

1. Yes...I have undeniable lust for vin diesel. he's hawt. I'd jump his bones in a nanosecond.

2. I used to think that lust was based upon physical attraction. But, not now.
More and more I'm coming to realise that it's the mental aspect that attracts me - the personality. Of the people that I've lusted after recently....none of them meets what has been my usual "type" (physically mainly).
It's the personality that does it for me - the man who can get inside my head, call me on my bullshit and drives me mad.
After all, what is the biggest erogenous organ if not the brain?

 

[Wings27]

Right, this is where I confess, right? No? Wrong thread? Oh well, I'm here so here goes.

I was seeing a gentleman that could have passed for Mr. Diesel himself. Unfortunately after that initial punch of lust I completely lost respect for him. He was not intentionally cruel, he was just plain dumb. So, I'm glad I appeased that lust but damn, not even a man that LOOKS like Vin can hold my interest if he's dull and self-centered.

There is my main problem with letting lust lead me, it often doesn't have enough of that all elusive attraction that I have been seeking.

And to directly answer your question, unless I know for sure that someone's av is actually of them then I don't lust after it. There are so many people on here trying to pass off amazing pictures of men/women 20 years younger or 30 pounds lighter that it doesn't impact me much at all.

 

[newbiebabe]

In total agreement with FireBreeze and TheSilverLining....

The "person" is what attracts me.. not necessarily the "packaging"

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I don't lust after every litster I see for the reason that there are often litsters who merely snag an AV off of the internet.
I have talked to some litsters who went nuts after another litster -later to discover "That hot guy w/ the ripped 6 pack isn't him OR it use to be him, but he's not looked like that in 6 years." or "That hot chick w/ the stunning cleavage, lips, or ass isn't her at all."

Not to say I haven't had my moments of lust, but it's rare.

 

[Miles Long]

Wait... are you guys implying that some people on the internet intentionally misrepresent themselves? Pull the other one!

 

[Wings27]

Wait... are you guys implying that some people on the internet intentionally misrepresent themselves? Pull the other one!

This is not the masturbation thread. don't pull anything here.