Attitude versus Nakedness

[ssremember129]

As I've aged, I have come to believe that women (or men) with sexual attitudes are as equally if not more sexy than a person who just strips off their clothes and says fuck me.

You can almost sense it in their glances, the way they choose their words, and the poses they strike. It become one of building up for sex (a kind of foreplay). I also see more of this attitude in those who might be in their 40's to 60's as they know what they want.

So that is the poll, are you attracted more to a partner with a sexual attitude, playful or just one who says fuck me?

 

[hotoldrguy]

I guess I am a sucker for foreplay. And a sexual attitude is an amazing form of foreplay and very arousing. It really builds the sexual tension and feel. And yes I am older in my 60's.

 

[apom]

Sexy IS attitude.

 

[ProfWords]

So that is the poll, are you attracted more to a partner with a sexual attitude, playful or just one who says fuck me?

We're kind of a biased sample, aren't we? People who go online to message boards and read erotica.

I mean, I know we like naked bodies and looking at them, but words are about attitude and sexiness, inherently. Otherwise, we'd all just write BOOBS! COCK!

 

[kdb]

As I've aged, I have come to believe that women (or men) with sexual attitudes are as equally if not more sexy than a person who just strips off their clothes and says fuck me.

You can almost sense it in their glances, the way they choose their words, and the poses they strike. It become one of building up for sex (a kind of foreplay). I also see more of this attitude in those who might be in their 40's to 60's as they know what they want.

So that is the poll, are you attracted more to a partner with a sexual attitude, playful or just one who says fuck me?

Sexual attitude makes the naked body more sexy. Builds up the desire to see it,taste it feel it.

 

[live4thebj]

All honesty, I don' really get the question/poll.

 

[ssremember129]

All honesty, I don' really get the question/poll.

Stated differently...

Is sex interesting because the person is naked or is sex more exciting if the person has a sexual attitude, sends texts of a suggestive nature, plays or banters back and forth, et al to provide arousal before you ever see them naked. Is the foreplay of the mind important or just physical foreplay?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

It’s all about the sexiness factor.

 

[oneblueye]

hey

Stated differently...

Is sex interesting because the person is naked or is sex more exciting if the person has a sexual attitude, sends texts of a suggestive nature, plays or banters back and forth, et al to provide arousal before you ever see them naked. Is the foreplay of the mind important or just physical foreplay?

to me if the person doesn't have any sexual confidence about them then I never have to worry about my performance because its a cinch we aint having sex; because those people are too unsure to touch another person in a way that would cause me any excitation and touch is my main driver.