At what size are you a BBW?

[brightsmile]

Hello,

Is a size 14/16 considered a BBW? Some men I meet that prefer fit women say I'm too big. However, when I state that I'm a BBW, the men that prefer curvy women say I'm too small...sigh...What are the peeps from literotica's opinion? How should I describe myself?

Thanks

 

[Easyvirtue]

Hey, sounds sexy to me, how tall are you? That could help solve the question too.

 

[JackOffer]

I would call you curvy, but not a BBW. I love very, very big women and big men as well. My late second wife was around 450 when she passed away. I don't even give a woman under 300 pounds a second look.

 

[Jada59]

Depends on the other person and what they want. Many years ago, my friends and I used to hang out in an abandoned chat room. It was labeled as BBW. We paid that no mind until men came in looking for BBWs. In those days the men who came in were looking for 300 pounds or more and that's clearly not me!

 

[MsLead]

I've gotten mixed feedback on this question as a woman going from nearly 300# to 173#....because I had always identified myself as bbw. The answers I received were mixed but supportive in saying..."don`t worry about it." So there's no line and it depends how tall and what shape you are. I'm sure you are fabulous and more the average today than not.

 

[brightsmile]

Hey, sounds sexy to me, how tall are you? That could help solve the question too.

I'm 5'6". Does that help?

 

[brightsmile]

I would call you curvy, but not a BBW. I love very, very big women and big men as well. My late second wife was around 450 when she passed away. I don't even give a woman under 300 pounds a second look.

Oh yea, I'm too small for you

 

[brightsmile]

Depends on the other person and what they want. Many years ago, my friends and I used to hang out in an abandoned chat room. It was labeled as BBW. We paid that no mind until men came in looking for BBWs. In those days the men who came in were looking for 300 pounds or more and that's clearly not me!

Hi Jada, that's not me either.

 

[brightsmile]

I've gotten mixed feedback on this question as a woman going from nearly 300# to 173#....because I had always identified myself as bbw. The answers I received were mixed but supportive in saying..."don`t worry about it." So there's no line and it depends how tall and what shape you are. I'm sure you are fabulous and more the average today than not.

Thanks MsLead, maybe I should stop trying to label myself.

 

[TorontoShane]

It means different things to everyone. Really just feel comfortable as you are and be proud of your size and shape

 

[Oldsoul991]

Ive had this issue too. Sort of between types. It's a weird feeling to be way to small to one group to find attractive, and way to big for another, all in the same day

 

[biwifecurious]

According to a BBW website I frequent, I am considered a smaller BBW. I am 5'4" and 180 lbs.

 

[brightsmile]

It means different things to everyone. Really just feel comfortable as you are and be proud of your size and shape

Thanks Shane

 

[brightsmile]

Ive had this issue too. Sort of between types. It's a weird feeling to be way to small to one group to find attractive, and way to big for another, all in the same day

I'm glad I'm not alone in this

 

[brightsmile]

According to a BBW website I frequent, I am considered a smaller BBW. I am 5'4" and 180 lbs.

Thanks for the clarification. I can also identify as a small BBW.

 

[Shi_One81]

I don’t really know how or if I qualify as a BBW either, but I post on the BBW thread anyway *