Have any of you found that your orgasm when there is something up your ass, a dildo or a cock, is relatively WEAK? I have. Anus always throbs when cumming, so maybe having it stretched does something to nerves down there and weakens orgasmic sensation. Any insights? Any observations or reflections from women who've observed ass-stuffed men getting off would be especially welcome....
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easytvgirlmandy
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I hope this doesn't sound too crazy!? I am a bi transvestite and although I haven't experienced full sex with a man yet I regularly use a vibrator. When using a toy I find that upon conclusion I have a very powerful spasm deep inside my ass. I can only describe it very fast contraction and release repeated very quickly which is incredibly satisfying. I have found that on some occasions that this is so powerful and satisfying that i do not need to experience an orgasm from my penis! I also feel very sleepy afterwards! On a few occassions I have had a double orgasm which is incedible in itself!
Do any of the other guys or girls have experience of this? I was scared the first time it happened but now enjoy it.
I am looking forward to enjoying sex with a guy as the feminine party!
mandy x
Do any of the other guys or girls have experience of this? I was scared the first time it happened but now enjoy it.
I am looking forward to enjoying sex with a guy as the feminine party!
mandy x
almasy7292
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I find that I have the most explosive orgasms when I have a butt plug in.
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Same here!
wannabeAli
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I have great orgasms with anything in my ass. I too have anal orgasms when being fucked with dildo's or cock. Always looking for more.
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Having my asshole stretched/vibrated/etc. Always makes it a ton better.
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Same here
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My problem is the opposite. I find sometimes i have trouble reaching orgasm if I don't have anything in my ass. Especially if i've had a few sessions in a row where i came with anal stimulation then I definitely find it more difficult and less satisfying without something there.
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Man... I kind of feel bad saying this, but about a month or so ago I recently figured out how to give myself an orgasm with only anal stimulation. It was much different, but completely amazing! Before this though, I've always had MUCH more explosive orgasms with the anal stimulation "helping out".
But, if it's any consolation, I've been using toys and having anal sex for years, and have just now figured it out. It's always felt great to me, but it was just an added benefit until I figured out how to work the prostate just right. My thoughts are that (1) anal stimulation just may not do it for you or (2) you just need to keep experimenting till you hit your spot. And believe me--you'll know when you hit it! I'd suggest #2.
But, if it's any consolation, I've been using toys and having anal sex for years, and have just now figured it out. It's always felt great to me, but it was just an added benefit until I figured out how to work the prostate just right. My thoughts are that (1) anal stimulation just may not do it for you or (2) you just need to keep experimenting till you hit your spot. And believe me--you'll know when you hit it! I'd suggest #2.
Your secret please!
Please tell me your technique for anal only orgasm! I am in the midst of exploring my bi side, and would love to be able to get fucked to orgasm by a guy while sucking another guy. I thik when I enter "slut mode", I won't have any hands free to stroke myself....
Please tell me your technique for anal only orgasm! I am in the midst of exploring my bi side, and would love to be able to get fucked to orgasm by a guy while sucking another guy. I thik when I enter "slut mode", I won't have any hands free to stroke myself....
rbone04
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Haha here goes nothing... For me it all has to do with the angle of penetration. From my experience so far, I need to be on top to make it happen. I usually use a very large butt plug or sometimes a nice sized dildo (unless I'm with another guy...then, duh). I personally like a thicker object up there, but I've been at anal play for a while and I just enjoy being "filled up". But... either way, it's all about the prostate - so I guess it's true (sometimes) "size doesn't really matter". Hell, I haven't tried it yet but check out the aneros. It's pretty darn small and apparently can cause an earth-shattering anal orgasm if you use it correctly.
I squat on "it" and once it's inside me I lean back with my hands or something to lean against for support (I'm still on my feet - it's tiring but well worth it) so it points towards my belly button and can brush the prostate as it slides in and out. I thought it was kind of a sharp pain when I first hit it right, but after a few strokes I knew it was the right spot. I sometimes have to feel around for a bit to find it, but you'll know when you hit it cause it feels totally different than straight penetration. It isn't very deep... probably only a few inches, so I have to ride it kind of shallow if I'm trying to approach orgasm.
A lot of it is mental. At this point, for me at least, you have to be kind of greedy and focus on yourself (unless of course you're by yourself). I've yet to be with a man that could hit the spot just right and for long enough to get me off with anal stimulation alone. That's why it's best for me to be on top. Once you find the prostate you have to FOCUS! FOCUS! FOCUS! on it. Try different "massaging" techniques, as I'm sure everyone differs. I need to be very turned on and I really have to concentrate on the sensation cause the slightest distraction can make me have to start all over again (which isn't necessarily a bad thing).
If everything goes off without a hitch, I'll start ejaculating uncontrollably (not hard shots... more like a steady ooze) before I actually hit the point of climax. I like using very quick and short thrusts getting there. Just deep enough to hit the prostate and back out and repeat. When you finally orgasm it's a completely different experience. I've found I can pretty much continue to climax (while convulsing uncontrollably) for as long as my legs will hold out!
In short... you'll have to figure out what works best for you, so get yourself a toy (or a patient partner with a TON of stamina), some lube and get to practicing. The experimenting can be quite pleasurable too!!! Anyways, that's how it works for me, maybe this is a helpful starting point but I'm sure your way will end up quite differently.
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My problem is it is hard for me to get off unless I have something up another guy's asshole. It doesn't have to be my cock, finger, toe, toy, tongue will do. When I'm by myself, I have to fantasize that some hot guy has something up his ass to get me off. Thank goodness my partner loves ass play, otherwise, I'd be one frustrated person.
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I've only had fingers up there, but anal play either makes my O a lot stronger or a lot weaker, depending on when I insert a finger, how deep and how intense, etc.
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same here and with the right plug it will hit the prostate and make your orgasm better then you'd ever expect..
I used to have the regular med size plug (vibrating and not vibrating) and it was good but then I bought whats called "the plug" and its been far better then in the past. The reason why is because it is on the large size (so they say) but its shaped differently then the normal kind.
It only takes a few seconds after I sit on it before I start leaking badly. Thats the only "con" I have about it. It feels so good that I start leaking fast and most of the time I am cumming a few minutes after. Of course that doesn't stop me from putting it back in and going about my day....lol
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the other night in the shower i had my realistic rubber dick plunged to the wall. i bent over and pushed back into it. it penetrated me and i got used to it for a second. i then pushed myself on it faster. it must have been the angle or something, because i shot cum after i was fucking myself as hard as i could without even touching my dick.
my wife had me bent over on the bed with my face burried in the pillows the other night. she had her pink strap on balls deep in my ass. she was fucking me goood and slapping my ass while she talked dirty to me. i came while she deep penetrated me without even touching my dick again.
i have different orgasms when my ass is being messed with. i think my orgasms are harder without any anal stimulation.
my wife had me bent over on the bed with my face burried in the pillows the other night. she had her pink strap on balls deep in my ass. she was fucking me goood and slapping my ass while she talked dirty to me. i came while she deep penetrated me without even touching my dick again.
i have different orgasms when my ass is being messed with. i think my orgasms are harder without any anal stimulation.
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I've often wondered if it's possible for your ass to actually orgasm (or something like it) like that. Sometimes while using a toy I've felt the very beginnings of something like an orgasm building in my ass but I've never been able to keep going long enough to see if anything would happen.
Maybe if someone were to just lay on top of me and pound me senseless for twenty minutes or so...
No the opposite! My O's are SUPER STRONG when I have something up my ass! Near "pass out" strong! I LOVE IT.
Like Mandy I am a bi transvestite and my experiences are very similar. Though slightly off topic I have extremely sensitive nipples if I am in the right frame of mind I can orgasm just by playing with them, however, my penis remains soft and the cum just runs out rather than being pumped out as with and orgasm via the penis. It leaves me feeling incredibly drained but very satisfied.
When dressed as a woman, and I fully dress and can pass (at least I think!), I have very strong feminine feelings and desires. So much so I am now ready to experience sex with a man.
Sally
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The first time I had sex with another man he told me I would experience something I had never experienced before. I had the big "O"! Every muscle in my body spasms including the one between legs. I love a man's cock.
The first time I had sex with another man he told me I would experience something I had never experienced before. I had the big "O"! Every muscle in my body spasms including the one between legs. I love a man's cock.
I've been debating getting an aneros.. Mainly can't decide which one..
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Orgasm with something in my ass and orgasm without are totally different. Orgasm with anal has muscle contractions that you just don't feel when going fully frontal. Orgasms with anal penetration are definitely different and very strong. They probably seem better because they happen less frequently.
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