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HandFan said:We both however really do worry about the potetial health hazards of this act, so we just don't do it. At least I still have the memory.....sigh!
M's girl said:I think the reason your man does not want you to come near his ass maybe because he thinks this makes him look gay or something.
I was wondering... you say it felt as good as him licking your clit. Where do you feel it then? If done right (slowly with the long passionate strokes) it feels very good to me too but it's almost as if I feel it in my clit rather than in my ass. Same happens when my nipples are stimulated the right way. But I've read that they are connected through nerves to the vagina.
HandFan said:As to how it felt, I think that you are on to something there! When he was doing it...like you said, long and slow, it really felt like he was licking my clit too, like these rolling, sweet stabs at that it. What was strange was that the sensation even felt different then when he actually IS licking my clit, but it still felt like he was....make sense? My whole vagina just quivered...it was so wonderful! If he had kept going I'm sure I would have had an orgasm for sure!
Those nerve endings can be so weird how they are wired... if he kisses me just right, it's like there is this straight shot of piercing pleasure from my lips, to my nipples and right to my clit. God, I love that!

goodone11 said:I'm sure you can find some stats that there are more germs in your mouth than on your ass. Dig some out and show them to your fella m's girl. So long as you have just showered there really isn't as issue. If you chat to him about it then I'm sure you could get him interested. Tease him to get him really horny then ask him to do it because it will get you so wet ... He will be straight on it.
This kinda makes sense because from memory of what I was told at ante-natal classes the muscle for the vagina and the anus are the same - shaped like a figure eight - which is why if you haven't emptied your bowel before birth you may empty it during birth, apparently you can't push out of your vagina and clench your arse shut at the same time. So it make sense that some some of the nerves are probably connected as well. Just my 2 cents worth.HandFan said:As to how it felt, I think that you are on to something there! When he was doing it...like you said, long and slow, it really felt like he was licking my clit too, like these rolling, sweet stabs at that it. What was strange was that the sensation even felt different then when he actually IS licking my clit, but it still felt like he was....make sense? My whole vagina just quivered...it was so wonderful! If he had kept going I'm sure I would have had an orgasm for sure!
Those nerve endings can be so weird how they are wired... if he kisses me just right, it's like there is this straight shot of piercing pleasure from my lips, to my nipples and right to my clit. God, I love that!
bertrande said:This kinda makes sense because from memory of what I was told at ante-natal classes the muscle for the vagina and the anus are the same - shaped like a figure eight - which is why if you haven't emptied your bowel before birth you may empty it during birth, apparently you can't push out of your vagina and clench your arse shut at the same time. So it make sense that some some of the nerves are probably connected as well. Just my 2 cents worth.
M's girl said:Why would he (handfan's man) have a problem with licking her ass if he's not having a problem with eating her pussy out? That's where the pee is coming from.
TBKahuna123 said:On another similar note, what's with the current trend in porn with ass-to-mouth porn? I'm pretty laid back but this still turns my stomach.
M's girl said:It drives my BF crazy to lick my ass as well as if I lick his. Nothing wrong with that. Health hazard? Well, obviously I won't let him do it (or do it to him) if we're not fresh out of the shower. So let's say it's part of when we have "all-night sex" and we stay away from it during the quickies and the inbetweens.
It's a pity you feel like you have to stay away from something you really like. I'm not a health expert but I would say if (this is what I always do) you go to the toilet before you hit the shower and then clean yourself really well it should be clean enough for the both of you to enjoy. I think the reason your man does not want you to come near his ass maybe because he thinks this makes him look gay or something. I can assure you that this doesn't have to be the case. Men have their prostate which is supposed to give a really nice feeling when stimulated. And as long as it's done by you and not another male I would say he has nothing to worry about. You know what I mean? I was a bit hesitant too since my current BF is the first one really that pays so much attention to my ass. And wants it in return... But reading about it (a lot of information is to be found here on LIT) convinced me that it was on OK thing to do.
I was wondering... you say it felt as good as him licking your clit. Where do you feel it then? If done right (slowly with the long passionate strokes) it feels very good to me too but it's almost as if I feel it in my clit rather than in my ass. Same happens when my nipples are stimulated the right way. But I've read that they are connected through nerves to the vagina.