Ass fucking

I only had anal sex once, and since then, every woman I have been with has made it clear that her anus was off limits. No touching, not even in the shower. So, if I was with a woman, I would just stay away from the suggestion of anal sex.

I really like pussy. Skin on skin in her pussy is so fucking great. I have not had that many blow jobs where I came. I have had women go down on me and my cock is thinking, "yeah, this is the appetizer, I'll save my appetite for the good stuff."

I like putting my finger in a woman's anus and feeling my cock through the little bit of skin while I am fucking her. That is so hot, like I have her completely in my hands.
 
counting myself lucky

My literal first anal experience was accidental - I kid you not. I was behind her, I slid in, it seemed tighter and just different...but I start going at it and she's all "yes, fuck my ass, oh god yes!!" And I don't break stride, but I'm thinking "Did she just say ass? I think she did. Hmm. <checks> Yep. I appear to be in the ass. Wonder how that happened." It was alright in the end, but not so stimulating that we tried it any more. (Short relationship, too.)

The second time (different girl) was accidental again. Serious. This was a bit more expected, though - she'd revealed to me (in an extremely hot moment) that anal play was her dirty secret, and I'd fingered her ass before this point. We were standing outside, me behind her with her hands against a tree trunk. I was moving my dick over her wet lips and back between her cheeks, making her really hot and wet, when we both pushed towards each other and I slid right into her tight ass. I couldn't believe it happened so easily (ah, what I didn't know then...) and I stopped for a second, unsure if this was what she wanted....only to have her grind back against me and tell me to give it to her as deep as I could. WOW! I about came right then. I braced her against the tree and gave it to her in long, gentle thrusts, before speeding up and eventually cumming all over her beautiful ass cheeks.

That was all it took. We had anal sex several times a week for a long time. (This material has been percolating as a potential "based on a true story" submission for Lit, can you tell?) So, thanks to her, I'm a bona-fide ass man now. I don't go looking for it all the time, but if the woman is interested or curious, I always like to help her explore something new. I'm very generous that way. Ha! ;)
 
Great to see so many positive experiences with anal as it is both pleasurable & not the dirty thing some seem to see it as (it all washes off anyway).I've been extreemly lucky with introducing many ladies to the joy of anal & the loverly lady I'm with now had only tried it with one guy but when we got to it we found that she got so hot we didn't even need lube as her natural lube was enough.
 
ass fan

I for one am a grand fan of a good ass fucking - I like variety too - but a good pounding from behind puts the world to rights every time . ..
 
Here's to anal sex, getting more popular every day! :)

I had always wanted to try it with past girlfriends, but the timing was never right. I did finally get to it with the woman I eventually married in 2002. There was no discussion, it was after orgasms for both of us and I moved into that special place while in doggie. No complaints from her, but she was quiet overall. Afterwards, I asked how it was and she said it was kinda strange.

I wanted to to try again later, but sex with my wife has made me very inhibited about asking for what I want, just with her not really being as into sex as I am. There was a time when she asked if I wanted to try "the other one" and I jumped at the chance. This time she did seem to enjoy as I also stimulated her clit while fucking her ass in missionary, her legs up. There have been a few other instances since then, she has never asked since, but I can somehow just manuever in there after tonguing and fingering the hole (and after she has orgasmed thru vaginal). I really wish it happened more often, the last time was a year ago and she has said no since then. I miss it, it's a great thing, I wish I could convince her to play with my ass, but she just does not have much of a sex drive or curiousity about sex overall... :(
 
Re: counting myself lucky

Nomad420 said:
My literal first anal experience was accidental - I kid you not. I was behind her, I slid in, it seemed tighter and just different...but I start going at it and she's all "yes, fuck my ass, oh god yes!!" And I don't break stride, but I'm thinking "Did she just say ass? I think she did. Hmm. <checks> Yep. I appear to be in the ass. Wonder how that happened." It was alright in the end, but not so stimulating that we tried it any more. (Short relationship, too.)

The second time (different girl) was accidental again. Serious. This was a bit more expected, though - she'd revealed to me (in an extremely hot moment) that anal play was her dirty secret, and I'd fingered her ass before this point. We were standing outside, me behind her with her hands against a tree trunk. I was moving my dick over her wet lips and back between her cheeks, making her really hot and wet, when we both pushed towards each other and I slid right into her tight ass. I couldn't believe it happened so easily (ah, what I didn't know then...) and I stopped for a second, unsure if this was what she wanted....only to have her grind back against me and tell me to give it to her as deep as I could. WOW! I about came right then. I braced her against the tree and gave it to her in long, gentle thrusts, before speeding up and eventually cumming all over her beautiful ass cheeks.

That was all it took. We had anal sex several times a week for a long time. (This material has been percolating as a potential "based on a true story" submission for Lit, can you tell?) So, thanks to her, I'm a bona-fide ass man now. I don't go looking for it all the time, but if the woman is interested or curious, I always like to help her explore something new. I'm very generous that way. Ha! ;)

Dear Lord...

I'm ALL hot and bothered right about now. Whew. :D

S.
 
PinkOrchid said:
Ok, I need to know if this is just me, or is this relatively common. I don't think it's any great secret that I love anal sex, but most of the guys I've been involved with prefer vaginal sex, to the point where it's a big deal to get a good ass-fucking.

What's up with that??? Is that the case for most guys, or am I just finding the weirdos?


thats a good question, I would love to give you an ass fucking anytime you need it PINK. and if you want you can return the favor!

I'm working on my wife to do it, but she squimmish about it, but I have had a finger in a couple of times and she loves that, so just need to have patience!!!

sorry for a no answer post, but I dont know why your guys dont like it, I would try anything once, maybe twice just to make sure!

good luck
 
thats selfish

PinkOrchid said:
What they tell me is they like what I do with my mouth or my vagina better, and it's just not as good to fuck me in the ass.

my mantra " I'm not satisfied till your satisfied", so what you want you get my dear pink!!

long time no chat , hope all is well with you!!

PHIL
 
tsk tsk

It'sasecret said:
My husband refuses to fuck my ass too! He won't even finger me or anything. Then again he barely fucks me at all. :mad:

Tsk tsk, shame on him not to want to fuck such a beautiful ass as yours secert!!!

PHIL
 
Working on it

I've been working on my wife for the last 6 months. First time i could barely get a finger in. The first time i rimmed her she almost freaked out ("that feels so weird"). I didn't push the subject and slowly we went further and further. Now she LOVES it when i get her going by licking her puss and start moving to her ass. Now she wants me to finger her ass and we are almost to the point of having full anal. My best advice is if you really want it don't ever push her faster than she is ready because if you hurt her that ass will be closed forever..
 
Maybe the turn around time is way longer for anal. I mean if one uses birth control other than condoms moving from foreplay to head or vaginal sex takes no time at all. Maybe the waitingg/getting things going time is what he dislikes.

Do you all use condoms for every sex act? I have a pretty mild latex alegery, not so much that it does damage or causes pain, but enough to make me hate latex condoms. Plus condoms feel uncomfortable. One can have sex sex without condoms almost anywhere else but anally pretty much requires it.

All that said he is still one weird dude.
 
Not sure if this was messge as this thread has become oh so long, but I thought I'd offer a tid bit of advice on how to get him interested in anal, or at least what worked for me.

My guy was hesitant at first, so i first initiated him into the realm of anal through phone sex. Initially he was like "uhh...." but it was just words and it found it was stimulating conversation. Empahsizing what a slut I was to want to be fucked in the ass really helped.

Men like the power and by easing him in with conversation he eventually gave in and currently enjoys very much, ass fucking.

Hope it helps someone. Pm me with any further q's
 
I as an anal sex lover can't understand why some guys don't like it & was wondering if it is because of HOMOPHOBIA because gay guys do it or if it is where the shit exits from ?:confused:
 
Whenever I bring up the subject of anal sex , my guy just laughs at me. He knows that I like it, but he isn't willing to do it that way.
 
cryptictravler said:
Do you all use condoms for every sex act? I have a pretty mild latex alegery, not so much that it does damage or causes pain, but enough to make me hate latex condoms. Plus condoms feel uncomfortable. One can have sex sex without condoms almost anywhere else but anally pretty much requires it.

Condoms are a very good idea for every sex act, particularly if you are not in a monogomous relationship. They are ESPECIALLY important during anal sex.

Whether your latex allergy is mild or severe, seriously consider using a polyurethane condom. They are a bit more expensive but they provide equal or better protection and won't cause a skin reaction.
 
ohmyyeah said:
Whenever I bring up the subject of anal sex , my guy just laughs at me. He knows that I like it, but he isn't willing to do it that way.

Why??????????????:confused:

It is a valued gift a lady give to someone she trusts & the feeling is fantastic.:rolleyes:
 
I don't really know why. He does that if I bring up anything that he hasn't really tried. He's slipped it in once, but that was all. He knows it is a big turn on for me. Hell, the other night he told me if I would buy myself a toy, all I would see is him walking out the door.
 
ohmyyeah said:
I don't really know why. He does that if I bring up anything that he hasn't really tried. He's slipped it in once, but that was all. He knows it is a big turn on for me. Hell, the other night he told me if I would buy myself a toy, all I would see is him walking out the door.

That sounds like an awfully selfish and close-minded attitude. I sure hope he has a LOT of redeeming qualities...

and if not, I'm sure I'm not the only one around here who would be happy to replace him and fulfill your fantasies! :D
 
Alot of people would rather see me break up with him, but he is a sweetie in his own way, but there are times where I think I would be better off finding someone that is more open to trying things. I don't know, I guess being married spoiled me somewhat. My ex was willing, and the first guy I start dating since the divorce isn't.
 
ohmyyeah said:
I don't really know why. He does that if I bring up anything that he hasn't really tried. He's slipped it in once, but that was all. He knows it is a big turn on for me. Hell, the other night he told me if I would buy myself a toy, all I would see is him walking out the door.

This guy needs some serious help...scheeeeeze!!!!!:eek:
 
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