Ass fucking

[watergirl]

sheesh!

I don't really know why. He does that if I bring up anything that he hasn't really tried. He's slipped it in once, but that was all. He knows it is a big turn on for me. Hell, the other night he told me if I would buy myself a toy, all I would see is him walking out the door.

Oh my god, insecure asshole much?!!??! Does he mean any toys at all, or specifically for your ass? How would he know where you want to put them on your own time? What a controlling jerk - I would NEVER stick with someone who tried to guilt or manipulate me into giving up part of my sexuality.

Redeeming other qualities - I certainly hope so - good luck to you! There's more fish in the sea!

 

[Shadow Thief]

n/m...

 

[Baskin Robbins]

I WISH my wife would bring home a toy! Anal or otherwise! I wish she would "touch me there". If you aren't married to him, look elsewhere. I wouldn't be up this late if my wife was more into it! We would have some wine etc. and have great sex and go to sleep in each others arms. Instead, I'm up typing away...

 

[ohmyyeah]

He meant any toy. And no, he wouldn't know if I would just go buy one, he doesn't go through my dressers or anything, so if I would get one and hide it, how would he know.

 

[Gil_T2]

He meant any toy. And no, he wouldn't know if I would just go buy one, he doesn't go through my dressers or anything, so if I would get one and hide it, how would he know.

I sence problems in this relationship if you have to hide anything from your partner.

Everone should explore their own bodies to seek out the best places to light your fire & he if he loves you ahould accept anything you like as gold, my lady has many desires she likes or wants to try & we TALK about all involved in our relationship, I even accept that she is BI & know this is something me or any male can fill so she has free hand to follow her desire this is how a true relationship should be OPEN & HONEST.

 

[krazyracer400]

My husband refuses to fuck my ass too! He won't even finger me or anything. Then again he barely fucks me at all.

if thats your backend in your avatar ur husband must be blind or something. i could not see turning that fine ass down, i would do it all night long

 

[showme06]

RE: Anal

I love to give it to a girl anal i love to make her feel good make that great before i get off you must have found weirdos LOL

 

[GRIFFBABY]

Anal

You need to play the role of no I don't want it there. That turns a guy on more. The first time I performed anal sex my partner had to tease me into it but then I realized how much I enjoy fucking a girls ass. It is more pleasurable and it is sooooo kinky. So just toy with the guy because we always want what we can't have and want to do what we're told not to. Unless the guy is an anal fiend like me.

 

[BeautifulBoy]

Damn

He meant any toy. And no, he wouldn't know if I would just go buy one, he doesn't go through my dressers or anything, so if I would get one and hide it, how would he know.

Damn Girl you don't need that sorta thing. I cannot see doing that to another person or staying with someone who did. That just screams 'Future Abusive Relationship' to me. Like a big ol' red flag there girl. Damn, please be careful.

 

[Pleasureboy2]

Damn Girl you don't need that sorta thing. I cannot see doing that to another person or staying with someone who did. That just screams 'Future Abusive Relationship' to me. Like a big ol' red flag there girl. Damn, please be careful.

I second that thought.

 

[Ezzy]

So....my question is this, what is the " right way"? I've had guys who were so damn gentle I fell asleep! Guys who used enough lube to grease a pig! I've had guys with thick cocks try, guys with skinny cocks try, you name it!

The right way... is the one that works for you and your partner.

I have never had ONE positive anal experience. Generally speaking the pain upon initial entry is enough to make me scream and then even if I get passed that the skin around my anus tears and then bleeds once he begins to thrust no matter how well lubed I am.

There must have been something you liked, as most people would refuse to try again if it had "all" been bad.

The question is not one of "lube" but more a question of anal play including "lube" and slow stretching and relaxing, from the things you have posted, I would try and put some anal play into the situation prior to the next guy getting closer to your ass than your pussy.

I have gone the route of anal play with a couple of lovers who had previously only had bad experiences with anal. It has taken several hours over several days, to educate their asses to relax, but also grip at the same time. Up to a week in one cose.

Slowly working with butt plugs, to stretch and relax the ass is the only way to go, any ripping and bleeding has to be stopped. The method of slowly increasing the size of the objects from a slim vibe, to a 3 ½ inch diameter butt plug through 5 other sizes has lead to great mutual enjoyment.

In addittion to the unpleasantness of blood coming from my ass, I almost always have very sharp pain in my hips and back regardless of positioning.

This could be down to a more serious medical complaint, perhaps you should talk it over with your doctor, to avoid possible embarrassment you could phrase it as if the pain occurs sometimes with defecation of hard stool or "doggie style" vaginal sex.

Maybe I'm just a freak, and maybe EVERY single guy who's tried has really done it wrong, but given what I've gone through with anal I have to say I'm one of the woman who won't let a man within a mile of her backdoor.

Follow the ideas above and print out the good anal threads for your lovers to read before you invite them to fuck your ass.

 

[taolanes]

After reading this thread I had to get some anal. Its been awhile..... I dropped a little 'hint' in an email to my lover Thurs. He immediately made plans for Friday afternoon. He comes over, we're both so horny but decide to just jump in the shower to freshen up first. So I'm in the bathroom, bent over the tub, getting the water temp just right and, well, he just couldn't resist. I was so wet we didn't even need extra lube..... But that was a great position - I was bent all the way over hands on the side of the tub. Great access and a great view for him. Plus when we were finished we just jumped right into the shower!

Looking at your ass in the avatar I could see why he couldn't resist you

 

[HockeyShark]

I love the ass. But not too often. Just when the mood is right.

 

[M's girl]

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[Hail27]

feels good

I have to be in the mood to let hubby in that door. But he's there when I need him.
I also love to have my pucker tickled during sex or oral. It makes me cum even harder.
For me personally there is sometimes too much lube and too gentle, but I shouldnt complain compared to some here at least I am getting what I need.

Thinking of you and hope you find someone or someway to get what you need.