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I've know Sticky for awhile now and this is what she wants... Good gritty conversation. I LOVED your last statement.

You do have lovely breasts btw. :)

Thank you:rose:

And thank you;)

You've admired my intellect and my breasts now... Be careful or you'll have me falling in love with you:cool:
 
No wonder I didn't sleep too well last night - I was missing the party in here! :) Wow, thanks for the convos Euro & AJ - I still have so much to learn about being cis and those little details and background knowledge are diamond. Come to think of it, I guess a lot of cis women don't often get to talk about their bits so frankly - there's another bonus to being on Lit!

As for 'the question' , it was more to do with chasers being a nuisance or even a threat by fetishizing trans women. They do tend to focus on the dick, dick, dick ("but I'm not gay") and honestly, I don't mind what other people do or think about anything, except when it impinges on my life and being the object of fetish isn't very nice. As things stand now, people can love me for the woman I am, not because I have a dick as well.

Update: I'm having some stitches out today - Hurray!!:)
 
Paris!!, Warlock, 4your, beardedmariner, Brad

:heart: TY :kiss:

ain't there some lovely peeps on this thread? :)
 
Ha - well that was fun today ( if queuing in a room full of sick people is fun :-\ ). I had to see a nurse to get some stitches out and she was the first person outside of my family and surgery team to see, so I wasn't sure quite sure how it would go down.

Anyway - I got the 'pop up on the couch routine' and then she came over with one of those scarey looking metal trays, with cellophaned instruments. Did you ever think they look like in-flight meals for BDSM people?

She obviously hadn't seen a post-op girl before, because there was a certain amount of "oh!" and then, "would you mind if I had one of my colleagues come and have a look, because this is a first for us here?" So, I'm like 'what the hell, why not?' I had lie there and wait while, whoever it was finished doing whatever it was in the next room. So I thought 'maybe I could start charging for a peek?' :)
Anyway, the other lady came in as well and they asked me some medical questions plus, 'how are you coping' 'any problems' and then 'thanks very much', which I thought was nice. Kerching - more medics educated! :)
Apart from being a wee bit nervous watching plastic tweezers and scissors heading to my badger, it only tweaked a bit. Great to have them out too! :)
 
Ha - well that was fun today ( if queuing in a room full of sick people is fun :-\ ). I had to see a nurse to get some stitches out and she was the first person outside of my family and surgery team to see, so I wasn't sure quite sure how it would go down.

Anyway - I got the 'pop up on the couch routine' and then she came over with one of those scarey looking metal trays, with cellophaned instruments. Did you ever think they look like in-flight meals for BDSM people?

She obviously hadn't seen a post-op girl before, because there was a certain amount of "oh!" and then, "would you mind if I had one of my colleagues come and have a look, because this is a first for us here?" So, I'm like 'what the hell, why not?' I had lie there and wait while, whoever it was finished doing whatever it was in the next room. So I thought 'maybe I could start charging for a peek?' :)
Anyway, the other lady came in as well and they asked me some medical questions plus, 'how are you coping' 'any problems' and then 'thanks very much', which I thought was nice. Kerching - more medics educated! :)
Apart from being a wee bit nervous watching plastic tweezers and scissors heading to my badger, it only tweaked a bit. Great to have them out too! :)

Good for you girl... I always say come on in to any med students a doc wants to bring in... Teach, teach, teach.

Love ya!!
 
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This thread is so interesting to me. Before my post, so excited everything went well yesterday!
It's so weird for me to read this because like aj, I'm also pansexual. I love men, women and whatever in between you can be. It is the brain and personality. So it's weird to me because I'm bisexual. I like cock
And pussy. So, I also like trans women with a cock
Or pussy. I can't say women with cocks aren't hot because I love breasts and cocks, but that a trans woman isn't hot if she removes her cock(not sure anyone has said that here, but definitely what I would think most trans fans would think) well that baffles me. That means you were never attracted to the person in the first place. Ugh I'm rambling. Congrats!
 
Well that sounds lime you had fun. At least it was just one it could have been a training hospital about 12 student doctors :D
 
Speaking of not missing the party:D this must be what woke me up early just now.... My ears are burning (or is that something else;)? )

:rose:

Sapiosexual eh? ;)

Oh totally.
There is nothing sexier than intelligence, unless that's intelligence combined with wit.

She does look as gorgeous as y'self huh? Loving the abs too - I reckon she does Pilates :)

Why thank you:rose: Yes, it's from Pilates. I have let it slide a bit recently, but thats given me the push I need to get back into it.

I'm lucky in that I can put on muscle fairly easily .... As long as I stop being lazy, and don't eat too much chocolate. I also like Latin dancing and martial arts.

And...... Sorry about derailing the thread:D

AJ is gorgeous isn't she, as is your beautiful self:)
Sheesh - now I really feel like a stalker:eek:
Ive been on the boards doing my thing but had never posted on your thread before even though I found you and your thread very interesting - yes your intellect and wit were shining through.
I'm glad that I now had something to offer you and could help a little :rose:

Which reminds me - congratulations on getting your stitches out! Vitamn E oil for healing and elasticity remember!
 
Ha - well that was fun today ( if queuing in a room full of sick people is fun :-\ ). I had to see a nurse to get some stitches out and she was the first person outside of my family and surgery team to see, so I wasn't sure quite sure how it would go down.

Anyway - I got the 'pop up on the couch routine' and then she came over with one of those scarey looking metal trays, with cellophaned instruments. Did you ever think they look like in-flight meals for BDSM people?

She obviously hadn't seen a post-op girl before, because there was a certain amount of "oh!" and then, "would you mind if I had one of my colleagues come and have a look, because this is a first for us here?" So, I'm like 'what the hell, why not?' I had lie there and wait while, whoever it was finished doing whatever it was in the next room. So I thought 'maybe I could start charging for a peek?' :)
Anyway, the other lady came in as well and they asked me some medical questions plus, 'how are you coping' 'any problems' and then 'thanks very much', which I thought was nice. Kerching - more medics educated! :)
Apart from being a wee bit nervous watching plastic tweezers and scissors heading to my badger, it only tweaked a bit. Great to have them out too! :)

Wonderful!

So your badger is getting fit ...
 
Why thank you:rose: Yes, it's from Pilates. I have let it slide a bit recently, but thats given me the push I need to get back into it.
Ha! Good guess huh? :)
I'm glad that I now had something to offer you and could help a little :rose:

Which reminds me - congratulations on getting your stitches out! Vitamn E oil for healing and elasticity remember!
Oh yes, good point! You're a keeper - you can call anytime and thanks for the advice :rose:

Wonderful!

So your badger is getting fit ...
Fit? Oooer - you know, I tried some Pilates at home in the last couple of days, but some moves are too painful right now. It'll come...
 
Ha! Good guess huh? :)

Oh yes, good point! You're a keeper - you can call anytime and thanks for the advice :rose:


Fit? Oooer - you know, I tried some Pilates at home in the last couple of days, but some moves are too painful right now. It'll come...

Ooo... You've got stitches in your pussy (and I'm sure some fairly deep healing going on) and you tried Pilates?:eek:
Yeah, no. Not a good idea.

Let it all heal up well before you start to try and use the surrounding muscles. You don't want anything pulled or to interfere with the healing of your incisions in any way.
I'm not a nurse of course, but I've had friends who tried to do to much physically after surgery after having kids (cesarean and another with bad tearing) and they suffered pain for quite a while afterwards.
Me I was lazy and over cautious and I healed beautifully with not too much pain... And still have fab abs;)
 
Here I am concerned they are going to have do do surgery to fix my shoulder. Totaly selfish really I am worried all the gains I made in the last 3 years will be lost during recovery. And here you are on the other side of a liberating life changing surgery. I am just in aw of you sticky. I agree though do not go to fast let the healing happen. There is time enough for platies later
 
Ooo... You've got stitches in your pussy (and I'm sure some fairly deep healing going on) and you tried Pilates?:eek:
Yeah, no. Not a good idea.
Yea - if it hurts, your body is trying to tell you something huh?

Here I am concerned they are going to have do do surgery to fix my shoulder. Totaly selfish really I am worried all the gains I made in the last 3 years will be lost during recovery.
Did you see this thread?http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1073891 There might be some useful info there.
Mrs Warlock will just have to be more careful with the ropes and shackles ;)
 
For your edification

I follow Grishno on YouTube and I'm a lot like her in outlook. She nails it again here, with the problem of 'being a trans-activist' versus 'wanting to just blend in'.
It's an impossible choice and, in part, I feel spurred on to be active by a mix of guilt and sense of responsibility and ... not being able to keep my mouth shut :rolleyes:

You'll like her too
Grishno
 
I've been lurking, and keeping up on your progress. I wish you the best in your continuing recovery. I just have to say it doesn't matter what is, or isn't between your legs, you will be always be loved, by many, for the great, and fascinating person you are! :heart:
 
Yea - if it hurts, your body is trying to tell you something huh?


Did you see this thread?http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1073891 There might be some useful info there.
Mrs Warlock will just have to be more careful with the ropes and shackles ;)

Thanks good read. I will start my process next week.

The Mrs is not big on restraints she is more a smacker and hitter. It has taken her all summer to stop hitting my left shoulder.
 
Thanks good read. I will start my process next week.

The Mrs is not big on restraints she is more a smacker and hitter. It has taken her all summer to stop hitting my left shoulder.
Keep us updated and do what the physios tell you! Good luck fella xx

PS anyone keen on Shakespeare?
 
Keep us updated and do what the physios tell you! Good luck fella xx

PS anyone keen on Shakespeare?

I will sticky I will. As to Shakespeare I like him I can't quote his work or anything its a memory thing or lack there off.
 
I will sticky I will. As to Shakespeare I like him I can't quote his work or anything its a memory thing or lack there off.
Oh well - I was watching Shakespeare in Love this evening, with Gwyneth Paltrow... all that gender swapping and love. I reckon the Elizabethans dismissed the gender binary centuries ago: girls were boys, boys turned into girls, Dukes weren't bothered what was between the legs - they just spouted a few rhyming couplets and Bang! :D They even show chest-binding in the film . I mean, how forward thinking was that?!
'Shall I compare thee to a summers day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate.' then it's off with the doublet and down to business. Way to go.
Ah, poetry and passion *sigh*
 
Oh well - I was watching Shakespeare in Love this evening, with Gwyneth Paltrow... all that gender swapping and love. I reckon the Elizabethans dismissed the gender binary centuries ago: girls were boys, boys turned into girls, Dukes weren't bothered what was between the legs - they just spouted a few rhyming couplets and Bang! :D They even show chest-binding in the film . I mean, how forward thinking was that?!
'Shall I compare thee to a summers day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate.' then it's off with the doublet and down to business. Way to go.
Ah, poetry and passion *sigh*

It was the damn puritans that messed everything up.
 
I've been lurking, and keeping up on your progress. I wish you the best in your continuing recovery. I just have to say it doesn't matter what is, or isn't between your legs, you will be always be loved, by many, for the great, and fascinating person you are! :heart:

Where's the like button???
 
Hi Stickygirl,
I've read some of this thread, not all I admit. I suppose I have something to say rather than something to ask. I don't know any Transgender people, so, apart from what I have read or watched, I don't know what their struggles are like. The issue that I have trouble reconciling is why it is an issue for the world at large. I'm not anti-activist, that isn't what I am hinting at. Discrimination needs to be addressed. I don't think a person being Transgender, gay, lesbian or straight is my business unless I am in a relationship with that person. I'm happy for people transitioning. I could be wrong, but, I think it's great that just maybe they are on the path to being more content with themselves and their lives. I'm troubled by an apparent lack of compassion, empathy and understanding.
I have one personal thought I hope isn't crude or otherwise unacceptable. I don't think the plumbing matters, just the person.
You will notice I don't post very often. I am mostly afraid of it. I've learned people can be quite cruel on the internet at times. If I have said anything that you find offensive, please say so. It certainly wasn't my intent.
 
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