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Good afternoon/evening everyone!

Hope it was a Happy Hump Day for all! :)
 
leeroy jenkins said:
Happy days are here again, Kayte what is that in front of your breast an ice cube?
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Yup! A frozen pop! See the stick that is being used to hold it... :devil:
 
CTGalPal said:
HI everyone. :)

Hope everyone had a great hump day!!!
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Good evening {{{{{GalPal}}}}} :kiss: I had a pretty good one! Hope you did as well.
 
kayte said:
Good evening {{{{{GalPal}}}}} :kiss: I had a pretty good one! Hope you did as well.
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Hi (((( KAYTE ))))

You have a wonderful Thursday and weekend...won't be on much but
you know where to find me. :)

:kiss:
 
CTGalPal said:
Hi (((( KAYTE ))))

You have a wonderful Thursday and weekend...won't be on much but
you know where to find me. :)

:kiss:
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Hi {{{{{{{{GalPal}}}}}}}}} Hope your days and weekend are great ones. We are getting the snow storm now, but it should be over by tonight.

I may not be around much, but that seems common for me on weekends. Still we can find each other if we need to. :kiss:
 
papilllon said:
Thanks for the answer, it's really appreciated. :)

My main concern was the speed at which we became involved. That being said, I have to admit He has told me that without a sub, there's no Dom and that it's a gift I can take back anytime. I was concerned about letting Him dominate me after that short a time, wondering if it's the way things are supposed to be or if, as someone new in D/S, it was a mistake to not take more time. And to have someone tell me I'm His was strange for me. It probably seems like a little detail for any experienced sub but it did provoke all kind of feelings in me! :)

I did talk with Him about this since I posted this message and I'm feeling really better now. I've always been someone to overthink everything and worry to no end... That being said, my gut feeling about Him is positive. And well, there's the fact that I don't want to run away... :cathappy:

You are very right when you say that there is no real fixed frame. :) I should remember that it's the case for any relationship. :)

papillon
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The D/s relationship is a complex one requiring a serious commitment. The practice of learned responsibilities for the care and protection of each person's psychological, physical, sexual, social, and emotional health. There is alot to learn, to develop and to discover in the BDSM lifestyle. The traditions, customs, vocabulary, etiquette and sexual practices. It is recommended that each person learns as much as they can about each other before making such serious commitment to another.

Begin slowly and build trust of each other's responsibilities, knowledge and skills. Spend time communicating before you commit yourself to a Dom. Take the time to experience trial periods of commitment: a day, a weekend, a week, a month, a few months. Always have time when you speak as equals to discuss your relationship experiences and goals.

I can't give you a timeframe in which you will make the decision to give the gift of submission. However, it is yours to give and not the Dom(me)s to assume. When the time comes, let him/her know you are ready to be collared. Your collaring ceremony can be simple (the two of you) or lavious (everyone you know in the BDSM community) depending on personal perferences.

Personally, I believe to give yourself completely to another is one of the most serious commitments you can make in life. It is not a decision to be rushed or taken lightly.
 
LadyAria said:
The D/s relationship is a complex one requiring a serious commitment. The practice of learned responsibilities for the care and protection of each person's psychological, physical, sexual, social, and emotional health. There is alot to learn, to develop and to discover in the BDSM lifestyle. The traditions, customs, vocabulary, etiquette and sexual practices. It is recommended that each person learns as much as they can about each other before making such serious commitment to another.

Begin slowly and build trust of each other's responsibilities, knowledge and skills. Spend time communicating before you commit yourself to a Dom. Take the time to experience trial periods of commitment: a day, a weekend, a week, a month, a few months. Always have time when you speak as equals to discuss your relationship experiences and goals.

I can't give you a timeframe in which you will make the decision to give the gift of submission. However, it is yours to give and not the Dom(me)s to assume. When the time comes, let him/her know you are ready to be collared. Your collaring ceremony can be simple (the two of you) or lavious (everyone you know in the BDSM community) depending on personal perferences.

Personally, I believe to give yourself completely to another is one of the most serious commitments you can make in life. It is not a decision to be rushed or taken lightly.
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You said that so very well!

And my what a HOT av!!!

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
You said that so very well!

And my what a HOT av!!!

Fury :rose:
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{{{Fury}}}

Thank you. I've been gone so long. I'm surprised I still know how to type :D

Yes, I love the avatar too. How is the naughty :heart: Furry Fury :heart: ?
 
kayte said:
Hi {{{{{{{{GalPal}}}}}}}}} Hope your days and weekend are great ones. We are getting the snow storm now, but it should be over by tonight.

I may not be around much, but that seems common for me on weekends. Still we can find each other if we need to. :kiss:
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{{{Kayte}}}
Looks like you've been up to no good again :)

I miss you, frosty nipples. Hope to see you around soon.

My regards to the Good Sir.
 
LadyAria said:
{{{Fury}}}

Thank you. I've been gone so long. I'm surprised I still know how to type :D

Yes, I love the avatar too. How is the naughty :heart: Furry Fury :heart: ?
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Me naughty? Surely not. *giggles* I'm great! I went to my first munch. Learned a bit about tiying up my husband and started two pic threads. Lord knows what else. Life is looking exciting right now. :kiss: :heart:

Ya never forget how to type once you know how, it's like fucking or riding a bike.

LOL.

Fury :rose:
 
CTGalPal said:
Hi (((( KAYTE ))))

You have a wonderful Thursday and weekend...won't be on much but
you know where to find me. :)

:kiss:
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Hey CT, good to see you around the thread :)
 
FurryFury said:
Me naughty? Surely not. *giggles* I'm great! I went to my first munch. Learned a bit about tiying up my husband and started two pic threads. Lord knows what else. Life is looking exciting right now. :kiss: :heart:

Ya never forget how to type once you know how, it's like fucking or riding a bike.

LOL.

Fury :rose:
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*perks up*

Tying up husband? Did that make the pic threads yet? I'd love to see that. I am a sucker for a good knot on a hard man.
 
LadyAria said:
You've been a very busy girl! * wonders off to look at pics and read stories*
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*grins*

I try to keep busy and even carve out some ME time. It's not easy lately. Today is a better day than some have been this week!

Fury :rose:
 
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