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[raven2]

Oh raven I am so sorry to hear that. I think you have made the right choice in soothing the ills with a glass of wine. Red or White?

Thanks. CA cabernet. Yes, it is doing the trick.

 

[FurryFury]

Thank-you went well enough until I tried making dinner. Slipped on the floor, re-hurt my bad knee and then cut myself with a knife. Now sitting here with a nice glass of wine.

Kisses boo boos and offers some sugar to help with the pain.

Fury

 

[kayte]

Thanks. CA cabernet. Yes, it is doing the trick.

Sounds like a marvelous selection!

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Instead of highjacking another thread I will post this here, Fury you said something about a BDSM Academy care to share with the less knowledgeable to you what that it?

 

[FurryFury]

The academy is here:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/

I wrote all about it in this thread

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631&page=5&pp=25

See post 113.

Sorry I have to run and fuck or be fucked possibly both!

*flashes big smile*

Fury

 

[leeroy jenkins]

The academy is here:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/

I wrote all about it in this thread

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631&page=5&pp=25

See post 113.

Sorry I have to run and fuck or be fucked possibly both!

*flashes big smile*

Fury

Thanks for post Fury. Too bad got to kill some undead scourge or would read it now. I think my parents aptly named me as my intials spell cat so that must be where I get this large streak of curiosity from.

 

[raven2]

The academy is here:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/

I wrote all about it in this thread

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631&page=5&pp=25

See post 113.

Sorry I have to run and fuck or be fucked possibly both!

*flashes big smile*

Fury

Well I hope you have a very good time and it clears up your sinuses.

 

[FurryFury]

Well I hope you have a very good time and it clears up your sinuses.

Well, all I can say is I feel better than I have in some time. Every part of me is feeling streched and used. For the first time ever I felt like a squirted, which he's been telling me but I haven't been feeling for myself. If only he'd have spanked the hell out of me and fucked me like this sooner!

Woot!

Fury

 

[LadyAria]

Hi LadyAria,

I think it's very brave of you to say the above. I can totally understand that interest for the reasons you say and for the ones I've stated. I've been a very sick little girl myself, (in the past?) *L* Well, I think I'm better now.



Fury

Thank you for your understanding.

I may be a Bitch Goddess in scene, but I think I'll always be just a sick little girl at heart.

Glad to see your sinus infection is better. Much more pleased to hear you have been stretched and used As always, I love to hear details

Oh, and how was lunch with your girlfriends?

 

[LadyAria]

Good afternoon {{{{Lady Aria}}}} I passed your greetings on to my Sir and He sends His respects to you.

I also have a new AV, hope you like it. I know He does. And do I; remembering that time together.

I have heard that from other writers I know. Just a tad too much of them in the stories... I think you are being realistic knowing that there are some downright 'nasty' people on Lit. Not many, but like R/L they do exist.

Hope you had a good night last night and had a Happy Hump Day.

Oh sweet Jesus! Now that is an avatar. Excellent selection.

Thank the good Sir. I hope you are well.

Yes, people can be very 'nasty'. My M/f series have provoked some "I hate you. You sick misogynist pig. I hope you die" emails. Fuck...it is my fantasy. If they don't like bondage, dominance and sadism...don't read BDSM stories.

I really do need to pick one F/m story and post it. Maybe I'll let my alpha pick it for me. Eventually...

 

[LadyAria]

I think in today's world you need to be a little screwed up just to keep your sanity intact. Be it this lifestyle or some funny eccentric behaviors. Fast question though for anyone what does PYL mean?? Lastly nice to you your back Lady Aria.

Yes, well, I am in love with my insanity.

Thank you. Nice to see you posting in my thread.

 

[LadyAria]

Thanks. CA cabernet. Yes, it is doing the trick.

Nothing beats a good cabernet.

 

[FurryFury]

Thank you for your understanding.

I may be a Bitch Goddess in scene, but I think I'll always be just a sick little girl at heart.

Glad to see your sinus infection is better. Much more pleased to hear you have been stretched and used As always, I love to hear details

Oh, and how was lunch with your girlfriends?

*hugs*

Us sick little girls have to stick together and support one another, right?

Yes, the sinus infection is finally better! Thank goodness!

Details? You want details?

Hmm, well we finally made it to the bedroom. I have to admit that since our kinky/romantic night out before Valentines, I've had precious few scenarios in mind. He took charge on that trip and pretty much has continued to take charge ever since. I'm quite happy about that though I feel a bit guilty for not "doing him." A lot of the time that has meant pretty vanilla sex but I've been sick and tired so I've been fine with at quick release instead of an extended scene.

Since I've been sick, I haven't been pushing for sex at all. That's quite a change. It's been interesting to watch what he does with my lasasitude. I sometimes worry I push too much and for things that are too bizzare.

So we get in the bedroom and he asks if I have any ideas. I started to demure but then I said maybe if he was willing he could take some shots of my for my pic thread. Now just a short time ago, he HATED taking nude pictures of me and felt he was betraying me when he did. Now he's agreed I can have a pic thread with certain provisos and has loosened up about pictures in general.

So I had slipped on this 4 " high heels and was standing against the wall nude when he came in. He seemed to like what he saw. "Do you know where the camera is?" He asked. I happened to have it, so I just handled it to him with a devilish look.

Suddenly he was the photographer, telling me to push my "bubble ass" out and suck my tummy in. I have to say, having him in charge like that was fun for me. He ended up taking quite a few shots. Most of which I can't stand, though I won't tell him that because I want him to think on this at very positive. Some of which are so lewd I can't stand to look at them.

I did find that posing for pictures with everything sucked in and at the same time other things pushed out or arched was hard work particularly in what I like to call my bondage shoes. We played a bit with those sharp heels on his body. He sucked at them some. He told me to keep them on.

When the picture taking was done he asked me again what I had in mind for the night. This time he pressed for what would happen if I could have anything I wanted right then. I again started to deny I had any ideas but suddenly I knew just what I wanted.

I told him what I wanted right then more than anything was to be put over his lap and spanked with the mini flogger, by hand or both. So he pulled me to the edge of the bed and started to just give it to me. I always feel better no matter what is ailing me after a good spanking.

He alternated between the mini flogger and his hand. He started putting a huge dildo and a small butt plug inside my holes. Later he began applying a vibrator to my clit. He kept me on his lap on the edge of the bed. He's really strong but I was still kind of afraid I'd fall off the whole time!

After I came he finally let me up and I sucked his weeping cock.

Soon though he wanted to put it in my other holes. I just sort of kept coming. He kept changing positions and putting something in one of the other holes he wasn't in the whole time. It went on for a while. Sometimes he'd spank me some more or grab the flogger. Sometimes he'd just ram into me as hard as he could. Sometimes he'd add more lube or put the vibrator back on me. It was great. I never wanted it to end.

But now here is another thing that was really cool about that night. I may have already mentioned this because I'm very excited about it. We use a lot of toys. He keeps telling me I've squirted but I can't tell that I have or feel it. That night he was in my ass just going wild. I was working at squeezing him both as if I were shitting his dick out and as if I were trying to keep his dick in. I'm always trying to make it better.

Well, anyway, the toy he had in my puss slipped out as toys often do but we were way too in the moment to do anything about that. I'm just bearing down and squeezing while he is just fucking me hard. Then I felt it, for the first time, I felt myself squirt. It wasn't that much and he was still going WILD in my ass not noticing but it just felt so wrong and so great!

I've been feeling streched, sore and achy, in a good way ever sense and he's off again tomorrow so we have the potential for more fun Sat or Sun. *crosses fingers*

When we were completely done and had stopped panting, he and I talked. He said as he often has this past month or so, "I just did want I wanted really, that's kind of bad."

To which I replied, "I love it when you do that. You were incredible!"

Later I said to him how good I was feeling. I told him when ever I feel bad you should do that and it will perk me right up. He seemed to like that comment.

Those are the details.

Now my gf's, that day was fantastic! You know how your life can be good but so busy and so stressful? Sometimes we notice how stressful it is and sometimes we think everything is fine, but our little special ticks or tells keep adding up even if we don't notice. In my case it's tension in my neck and shoulders and a tendency to grind my teeth. I have to keep telling myself to relax my jaw.

Then one day you have a moment of nearly perfect serenity and you can breathe, really breathe. Lunch and just hanging with my two gf's was like that last week.

I know they love me and need nothing from me. I feel the same way about them. Being with them is sheer bliss. We shared food. We talked and talked about everything under the sun. We hugged, smiled, just loved, accepted, and even liked one another. I should do that more often! I think we all should! Ahh! I'm sure it made me a much easier person to be around later for my family. Not that I'm ever hard to be around! *scoffs* Nope, not me, I'm a walk in the park!



Fury

 

[LadyAria]

*hugs*

Us sick little girls have to stick together and support one another, right?

Yes, the sinus infection is finally better! Thank goodness!

Details? You want details?

...

Those are the details.

Now my gf's, that day was fantastic! You know how your life can be good but so busy and so stressful? Sometimes we notice how stressful it is and sometimes we think everything is fine, but our little special ticks or tells keep adding up even if we don't notice. In my case it's tension in my neck and shoulders and a tendency to grind my teeth. I have to keep telling myself to relax my jaw.

Then one day you have a moment of nearly perfect serenity and you can breathe, really breathe. Lunch and just hanging with my two gf's was like that last week.

I know they love me and need nothing from me. I feel the same way about them. Being with them is sheer bliss. We shared food. We talked and talked about everything under the sun. We hugged, smiled, just loved, accepted, and even liked one another. I should do that more often! I think we all should! Ahh! I'm sure it made me a much easier person to be around later for my family. Not that I'm ever hard to be around! *scoffs* Nope, not me, I'm a walk in the park!



Fury

Fury, you indulge me so. Female ejaculation...the epitome of feminity. It has been so long since I did that. I am horribly jealous.

I actually have a chapter I wrote in a romance story that has photography as foreplay (not posted on lit.com). I love that I am not the only one that finds that appealing even if you toss the pictures afterward. I think the element of 'naughty' makes everything better.

I grind my teeth at night. I can relate to that 'tight' sensation.

So glad to hear you had a good lunch. Being with good friends does give us all a certain peace.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Yes, well, I am in love with my insanity.

Thank you. Nice to see you posting in my thread.

Of course I would post here, as your my teacher with others in the way of Kink. Besides one of the words in the English language I just love is dominatrix and low and behold you have a shorten it for name and I am more then positive you embody that in life be it here or out there somewhere. Now if I could just find a lady like you for my daily grind through life, then I too could have a life less ordinary like many of you guys.

 

[FurryFury]

Fury, you indulge me so. Female ejaculation...the epitome of feminity. It has been so long since I did that. I am horribly jealous.

I actually have a chapter I wrote in a romance story that has photography as foreplay (not posted on lit.com). I love that I am not the only one that finds that appealing even if you toss the pictures afterward. I think the element of 'naughty' makes everything better.

I grind my teeth at night. I can relate to that 'tight' sensation.

So glad to hear you had a good lunch. Being with good friends does give us all a certain peace.

I love to indulge you!

I don't want you jealous. Heck, I could even be wrong that it was squirting. This has been a long time goal of mine though. I've deliberately crafted my fantasies to facilitate it happening.

I'd love to see your story. Oh and I don't toss the pictures. I let him keep them. I simply only use the ones I can stand to look at. I have very high standards for that sort of thing. He has some rude shots that are quite shocking to me. He loves those shots. He's just nasty!

I tell all of my younger friends, many of whom are just now having babies and deciding to stay home with them, you MUST make time for you. It's hard to do but it's vital to your happiness and the people around you!

Also if they are married I tell them couple time alone without the kids is vital. Cause we ladies (and sick lil girls) have to spread the word and try to help one another.

Fury

 

[kayte]

Oh sweet Jesus! Now that is an avatar. Excellent selection.

Thank the good Sir. I hope you are well.

Yes, people can be very 'nasty'. My M/f series have provoked some "I hate you. You sick misogynist pig. I hope you die" emails. Fuck...it is my fantasy. If they don't like bondage, dominance and sadism...don't read BDSM stories.

I really do need to pick one F/m story and post it. Maybe I'll let my alpha pick it for me. Eventually...

Good afternoon {{{{Lady Aria}}}}}

I will let Him know your response to the AV. And thank you. I'm doing well.

I too find it so amazing that people who don't care for a type of story are reading it and as you quoted some you got; responding with some downright nasty comments.

I really think it struck a chord in them and it frightened them.... Maybe that is because there are people on Lit who don't understand there is a difference between fantasy and what one may actually do in R/L. Now granted, for some of us there is more in R/L than there is for others.

But we all need to know and admit something can arouse us even if there is no way we'd ever want to do it.

Hope all is going well for you Ma'am!

 

[ThorkelGriersen]

Prejudice

Good afternoon {{{{Lady Aria}}}}}

I will let Him know your response to the AV. And thank you. I'm doing well.

I too find it so amazing that people who don't care for a type of story are reading it and as you quoted some you got; responding with some downright nasty comments.

I really think it struck a chord in them and it frightened them.... Maybe that is because there are people on Lit who don't understand there is a difference between fantasy and what one may actually do in R/L. Now granted, for some of us there is more in R/L than there is for others.

But we all need to know and admit something can arouse us even if there is no way we'd ever want to do it.

Hope all is going well for you Ma'am!

I have probably been into this for longer than most. As a youngster it always amazed me that the idea of a man taking a belt to his wife's ass was accepted as the proper way for a "real" man to deal with "Uppity wimmin."

On the other hand, the very idea of a man on his knees weeping from a thorough flogging from a strong woman was such a frightening idea that it could only be described as a dangerous pervision.

In fact, I suspect that we still have a long way to go. Somewhere on Lit someone asked the question: Why at fetish partys, when there is someone new, does everyone assume the male to be the D and the female to be the s.

Actually, the answer is as old as history itself. All societies began with the Supreme Female; call her Lilith, Astarte, Cybele, or even Pallas Athena. The male was frighten by such power and launched a civilizational spannig attempt to destroy the power of what Goethe called "the eternal femmine."

The truly sad part of this is the number of women who have bought into this absurdity.

 

[raven2]

*hugs*

Us sick little girls have to stick together and support one another, right?

Yes, the sinus infection is finally better! Thank goodness!

Details? You want details?

Hmm, well we finally made it to the bedroom. I have to admit that since our kinky/romantic night out before Valentines, I've had precious few scenarios in mind. He took charge on that trip and pretty much has continued to take charge ever since. I'm quite happy about that though I feel a bit guilty for not "doing him." A lot of the time that has meant pretty vanilla sex but I've been sick and tired so I've been fine with at quick release instead of an extended scene.

Since I've been sick, I haven't been pushing for sex at all. That's quite a change. It's been interesting to watch what he does with my lasasitude. I sometimes worry I push too much and for things that are too bizzare.

So we get in the bedroom and he asks if I have any ideas. I started to demure but then I said maybe if he was willing he could take some shots of my for my pic thread. Now just a short time ago, he HATED taking nude pictures of me and felt he was betraying me when he did. Now he's agreed I can have a pic thread with certain provisos and has loosened up about pictures in general.

So I had slipped on this 4 " high heels and was standing against the wall nude when he came in. He seemed to like what he saw. "Do you know where the camera is?" He asked. I happened to have it, so I just handled it to him with a devilish look.

Suddenly he was the photographer, telling me to push my "bubble ass" out and suck my tummy in. I have to say, having him in charge like that was fun for me. He ended up taking quite a few shots. Most of which I can't stand, though I won't tell him that because I want him to think on this at very positive. Some of which are so lewd I can't stand to look at them.

I did find that posing for pictures with everything sucked in and at the same time other things pushed out or arched was hard work particularly in what I like to call my bondage shoes. We played a bit with those sharp heels on his body. He sucked at them some. He told me to keep them on.

When the picture taking was done he asked me again what I had in mind for the night. This time he pressed for what would happen if I could have anything I wanted right then. I again started to deny I had any ideas but suddenly I knew just what I wanted.

I told him what I wanted right then more than anything was to be put over his lap and spanked with the mini flogger, by hand or both. So he pulled me to the edge of the bed and started to just give it to me. I always feel better no matter what is ailing me after a good spanking.

He alternated between the mini flogger and his hand. He started putting a huge dildo and a small butt plug inside my holes. Later he began applying a vibrator to my clit. He kept me on his lap on the edge of the bed. He's really strong but I was still kind of afraid I'd fall off the whole time!

After I came he finally let me up and I sucked his weeping cock.

Soon though he wanted to put it in my other holes. I just sort of kept coming. He kept changing positions and putting something in one of the other holes he wasn't in the whole time. It went on for a while. Sometimes he'd spank me some more or grab the flogger. Sometimes he'd just ram into me as hard as he could. Sometimes he'd add more lube or put the vibrator back on me. It was great. I never wanted it to end.

But now here is another thing that was really cool about that night. I may have already mentioned this because I'm very excited about it. We use a lot of toys. He keeps telling me I've squirted but I can't tell that I have or feel it. That night he was in my ass just going wild. I was working at squeezing him both as if I were shitting his dick out and as if I were trying to keep his dick in. I'm always trying to make it better.

Well, anyway, the toy he had in my puss slipped out as toys often do but we were way too in the moment to do anything about that. I'm just bearing down and squeezing while he is just fucking me hard. Then I felt it, for the first time, I felt myself squirt. It wasn't that much and he was still going WILD in my ass not noticing but it just felt so wrong and so great!

I've been feeling streched, sore and achy, in a good way ever sense and he's off again tomorrow so we have the potential for more fun Sat or Sun. *crosses fingers*

When we were completely done and had stopped panting, he and I talked. He said as he often has this past month or so, "I just did want I wanted really, that's kind of bad."

To which I replied, "I love it when you do that. You were incredible!"

Later I said to him how good I was feeling. I told him when ever I feel bad you should do that and it will perk me right up. He seemed to like that comment.

Those are the details.

Now my gf's, that day was fantastic! You know how your life can be good but so busy and so stressful? Sometimes we notice how stressful it is and sometimes we think everything is fine, but our little special ticks or tells keep adding up even if we don't notice. In my case it's tension in my neck and shoulders and a tendency to grind my teeth. I have to keep telling myself to relax my jaw.

Then one day you have a moment of nearly perfect serenity and you can breathe, really breathe. Lunch and just hanging with my two gf's was like that last week.

I know they love me and need nothing from me. I feel the same way about them. Being with them is sheer bliss. We shared food. We talked and talked about everything under the sun. We hugged, smiled, just loved, accepted, and even liked one another. I should do that more often! I think we all should! Ahh! I'm sure it made me a much easier person to be around later for my family. Not that I'm ever hard to be around! *scoffs* Nope, not me, I'm a walk in the park!



Fury

Ok, Fury, now that was fucking hot. I got hard thinking about how I would like to be the next in your ass. Squirting is even better. Opps need to go take care of something that has come up.

 

[DVS]

...That night he was in my ass just going wild. I was working at squeezing him both as if I were shitting his dick out and as if I were trying to keep his dick in. I'm always trying to make it better.,,

Well, I must say I enjoyed the whole post, but this part was the icing on the cake. Talk about going wild...God, woman, I want some of that ass.

I've known I enjoy BDSM for nearly all of my life. I've probably said this more times than some want to hear, but I spanked my first naked female ass at the age of 12. I'd thought about it long before that. Spanking and fucking female asses and domination has been in my head for as long as I can remember.

I always think of what I enjoy, and search out the woman who enjoys the same thing. That insures the total satisfaction for both of us. But, it has never dawned on me that the woman would ever go to the trouble of doing what you mention in this post. I've always thought they just lay there and experience the moment (give or take the ever present squirms, twitches and shivers...and screams).

Or, if they have clenched their ass, I've thought they were "testing" the power of my cock and then feeling the helplessness of their position wash over them as the hard cock continues punishing their tiny hole.

I've never thought that they could be trrying to make it feel even better. Or, are you the only one that does this for that reason?

 

[kayte]

Well, I must say I enjoyed the whole post, but this part was the icing on the cake. Talk about going wild...God, woman, I want some of that ass.

I've known I enjoy BDSM for nearly all of my life. I've probably said this more times than some want to hear, but I spanked my first naked female ass at the age of 12. I'd thought about it long before that. Spanking and fucking female asses and domination has been in my head for as long as I can remember.

I always think of what I enjoy, and search out the woman who enjoys the same thing. That insures the total satisfaction for both of us. But, it has never dawned on me that the woman would ever go to the trouble of doing what you mention in this post. I've always thought they just lay there and experience the moment (give or take the ever present squirms, twitches and shivers...and screams).

Or, if they have clenched their ass, I've thought they were "testing" the power of my cock and then feeling the helplessness of their position wash over them as the hard cock continues punishing their tiny hole.

I've never thought that they could be trrying to make it feel even better. Or, are you the only one that does this for that reason?

You mean trying to make it feel good for the cock impaling my ass isn't part of the normal routine?

I always thought it was. As when engaged in anal sex I am trying to do that too.

Besides the better I make it feel for him, the better he has made things feel for me. Now isn't that the goal of it all?

 

[FurryFury]

Well, I must say I enjoyed the whole post, but this part was the icing on the cake. Talk about going wild...God, woman, I want some of that ass.

I've known I enjoy BDSM for nearly all of my life. I've probably said this more times than some want to hear, but I spanked my first naked female ass at the age of 12. I'd thought about it long before that. Spanking and fucking female asses and domination has been in my head for as long as I can remember.

I always think of what I enjoy, and search out the woman who enjoys the same thing. That insures the total satisfaction for both of us. But, it has never dawned on me that the woman would ever go to the trouble of doing what you mention in this post. I've always thought they just lay there and experience the moment (give or take the ever present squirms, twitches and shivers...and screams).

Or, if they have clenched their ass, I've thought they were "testing" the power of my cock and then feeling the helplessness of their position wash over them as the hard cock continues punishing their tiny hole.

I've never thought that they could be trrying to make it feel even better. Or, are you the only one that does this for that reason?

*winks and wiggles while gesturing a "come here"*

I don't normally think of myself as an overachiever. However the things I'm passionate about I do them as well as I can figure out how to do.

I am a student of sensation too. I spend some time one night with him in my ass but not moving. I would try to shit him out and ask him how it felt. Then I'd relax and ask him how that felt. I would clench and ask him how that felt. You see I like to study things. With such aquired knowledge I can hopefully increase his pleasure.

Oh and I forgot about something he did to me that night. He lubed my boobs. It felt pretty incredible as he played with them hard while they were lubed up. He tells me that's very popular in online free porn now. What a dirty boy he is!

Fury

You mean trying to make it feel good for the cock impaling my ass isn't part of the normal routine?

I always thought it was. As when engaged in anal sex I am trying to do that too.

Besides the better I make it feel for him, the better he has made things feel for me. Now isn't that the goal of it all?

I agree with you Kayte!

Good for you and your Man!

Fury

 

[DVS]

You mean trying to make it feel good for the cock impaling my ass isn't part of the normal routine?

I always thought it was. As when engaged in anal sex I am trying to do that too.

Besides the better I make it feel for him, the better he has made things feel for me. Now isn't that the goal of it all?

You do it, too? See, I'm always in the control feeling and I don't guess I notice that the woman I'm fucking might be doing things so I'll enjoy it more, too. I'm always thinking of things to make her enjoy it.

Now, I'm so damn horny for a tight submissive ass so I can experiment a little.

 

[FurryFury]

Ok, Fury, now that was fucking hot. I got hard thinking about how I would like to be the next in your ass. Squirting is even better. Opps need to go take care of something that has come up.

*raises brows trying to be straight faced but gives it up and giggles*

Fury

 

[CTGalPal]

Great thread...with all the usual suspects that I have come to adore.

Thanks for bringing some great knowledge on the subject to someone who is exploring the possibilites of being a submissive.