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[FurryFury]

Thanks FurryFury, but I have tried the library and more. My hubby has his Ph.D. and I just managed to get through high school! But after 20 plus years of marriage to my man, I have been blessed to increase in knowledge day by day and can converse with the best of them, I think. ! (Whatever that is supposed to mean!) I still want to find some really sexy kinky movies that have real BDSM and sex in them!!

Hi Lust4us!

There are all kinds of learning and types intelligence, not to mention wisdom and creativity. I didn't finish college because my major (in vodka) was killing me! *L*

Have you tried this site?

http://www.janesguide.com/

They have reviews of all kinds of sex material and several my gf's have recommended this site to me, one for movies.

I hope you find what you are looking for.

Fury

 

[ThorkelGriersen]

Combination

Hi Thorkel, I just came to this thread. I have a question that my hubby and I have not found the answer to, for years. Is there any place where we can buy FemDom movies that have real canings/whippings and all the other fun, plus sex? We have bought movies form Nu-West Leda that have some really severe caning and whipping movies but no sex. What is the deal? Is there some law that prevents making a movie where the Dom whips her man and then makes him eat her to orgasm or eat her ass like it's his last supper? How about her dressing him up as a sissy slut slave and then whipping his ass before she fucks him with her strap-on? I have never been able to find anything like it. I have googled it forever and never found it. What is up with that? Please help!

WELL, Damn. I started an answer but had internet problems. Rebooted and all that. Seems to be working OK.

Sugar Land? Huh? Still say: Ah a gonna send yer ass to Sugar Land?

I don't think you will find what you are looking for, not in the USA anyway. I know there are such movies in other parts of the world. Even if you found them getting them through customs could be a problem. If they were only seized you might be lucky. You could even be arested. The reason you don't see the two things combined, is for legal reasons mostly. If not for that I'm sure someone would do it. The same reason that Pro-Doms or "Rent-a-Dom" (I like that) as the gracious Lady Aria calls them have strict rule against any sexual touching. BTW even if you got them into the country either as tapes or dvds they would be in PAL or regional code -unplayable on US equipment.

I have never really looked for such items as they don't have any appeal for me. I own probably 400 or more DVDs. Of that maybe 6 could be classified as porno. The reason I own rather than rent is that most of what I watch is not to be found in rental stores. For example: The Night Porter, Maitresse,
That Obscure Object of Desire -all European films are only avaliable on the Criterion label. They cost $40-70 each and are state of the art transfers with each frame indivually corrected. [If someone should loan you such a disc, they should be treated with total respect i.e. NO fingerprints, only have the disc in the player or in the case, etc.]

BTW Maitresse was the first starring role for Gerard Depardieu, and yes he does whip a young lady in the flic. Directed by Barbet Schroeder (Reveral of Fortune).

The Japanese films I refer to are part of the Kim Stim collection and are distributed through Kino in NY. Both labels are avaliable at Amazon and a few titles at Barnes & Noble(list) or Borders (discount: 5-8%) Kino (German for cinema) puts about a dozen titles a month on sale @ 25% off.

I want a real story, with real insight, into real (believable) characters. I want the film to tell me something that I didn't know. The same as all great literature.

Also: in Wife to be Sacrificed The wife, sub, speaks the last line of the movie----it will blow your mind.

 

[lust4us]

WELL, Damn. I started an answer but had internet problems. Rebooted and all that. Seems to be working OK.

Sugar Land? Huh? Still say: Ah a gonna send yer ass to Sugar Land?

I don't think you will find what you are looking for, not in the USA anyway. I know there are such movies in other parts of the world. Even if you found them getting them through customs could be a problem. If they were only seized you might be lucky. You could even be arested. The reason you don't see the two things combined, is for legal reasons mostly. If not for that I'm sure someone would do it. The same reason that Pro-Doms or "Rent-a-Dom" (I like that) as the gracious Lady Aria calls them have strict rule against any sexual touching. BTW even if you got them into the country either as tapes or dvds they would be in PAL or regional code -unplayable on US equipment.

I have never really looked for such items as they really don't have any appeal for me. I own probably 400 or more DVDs. Of that maybe 6 could be classified as porno. The reason I own rather than rent is that most of what I watch is not to be found in rental stores. For example: The Night Porter, Maitresse,
That Obscure Object of Desire -all European films are only avaliable on the Criterion label. They cost $40-70 each and are state of the art transfers with each frame indivually corrected. [If someone should loan you such a disc, they should be treated with total respect i.e. NO fingerprints, only have the disc in the player or in the case, etc.]

BTW Maitresse was the first starring role for Gerard Depardieu, and yes he does whip a young lady in the flic. Directed by Barbet Schroeder (Reveral of Fortune).

The Japanese films I refer to are part of the Kim Stim collection and are distributed through Kino in NY. Both labels are avaliable at Amazon and a few titles at Barnes & Noble(list) or Borders (discount: 5-8%) Kino (German for cinema) puts about a dozen titles a month on sale @ 25% off.

I want a real story, with real insight, into real (believable) characters. I want the film to tell me something that I didn't know. The same as all great literature.

Also: in Wife to be Sacrificed The wife, sub, speaks the last line of the movie----it will blow your mind.

Thanks Thorkel! My husband and I have been blessed to travel the world and we wouldn't stop for a second if we thought we could go and find what we want! We have been thoughout Europe and also have a VCR which plays PAL. We bought it for the explicit reason to be able to veiw what we hoped we could. Of course to no avail! I love my country to no end! But I dislike my government!! I want to be able to express my constitutional rights but know that I have to be politically correct!!!!!!!!!!!1

But with that said I know how to play the game. I will try to help the people, that I know are sincere and true. Especialy the ones that go through the political process! So once again I am sorry for the pontificating and hope that someone will direct me to where I have to goto get the movies that I want! Any government agent that might be trying to read this or our President that might want his agency's to do this and for him to know about it, I say this! They all want a beautifull woman to whip there ass or a handsome guy to whip their butts.

 

[ThorkelGriersen]

Sauce For The Goose........

Thanks Thorkel! My husband and I have been blessed to travel the world and we wouldn't stop for a second if we thought we could go and find what we want! We have been thoughout Europe and also have a VCR which plays PAL. We bought it for the explicit reason to be able to veiw what we hoped we could. Of course to no avail! I love my country to no end! But I dislike my government!! I want to be able to express my constitutional rights but know that I have to be politically correct!!!!!!!!!!!1

But with that said I know how to play the game. I will try to help the people, that I know are sincere and true. Especialy the ones that go through the political process! So once again I am sorry for the pontificating and hope that someone will direct me to where I have to goto get the movies that I want! Any government agent that might be trying to read this or our President that might want his agency's to do this and for him to know about it, I say this! They all want a beautifull woman to whip there ass or a handsome guy to whip their butts.

You might like this.

 

[LadyAria]

I guess I'm mentally ill, but tell me something I don't know...

*smiles and nods happily*

I think I have a cutter down in my soul. It's come out in some of my role play from somewhere deep and dark within me.

Fury

To the horror of a lot of people, I will admit to having had enjoyed the occassional slice earlier in life. It wasn't about depression or control for me. I was just a very sick little girl who was aroused by the pain and the sight of blood. It was my form of masochistic masterbation...I don't suggest it for anyone. However, it satisfied a need I had. I'm lucky my scars are very pale and virtually unnoticable now. It's been 10 years since I've touch a razor to myself.

 

[kayte]

To the horror of a lot of people, I will admit to having had enjoyed the occassional slice earlier in life. It wasn't about depression or control for me. I was just a very sick little girl who was aroused by the pain and the sight of blood. It was my form of masochistic masterbation...I don't suggest it for anyone. However, it satisfied a need I had. I'm lucky my scars are very pale and virtually unnoticable now. It's been 10 years since I've touch a razor to myself.

Good evening {{{{{{{Lady Aria}}}}}} I have missed you. Hope all is going well with you.

And gee tomorrow is hump day.

Have a happy one everyone!!

 

[LadyAria]

So what kind of toys should I have in my collection?

Hrm, I'd put you in a puppy cage with a shock training collar until you learned to behave

No, seriously, what are you into, Shagly? Maybe, I can make some specific suggestion.

A good starter kit for the curious who don't want to venture into the fetish/sex shops is a mineral oil enema, waterbased lubricate, vick vapor rub and/or muscle rub, duct tape, a kitchen set with wood utensils, 3/8" polypropylene rope, a couple of fists of ginger root, a butterknife, a carving knife, a box of ziplock bags, electrician's scissors, two taper candles (natural beeswax is best), two 2x4's and a painter's drop cloth.

 

[LadyAria]

Good evening {{{{{{{Lady Aria}}}}}} I have missed you. Hope all is going well with you.

And gee tomorrow is hump day.

Have a happy one everyone!!

Hey {{{Kayte}}}, and here I thought I was talking to myself. How are you and your fine Sir?

 

[kayte]

Hey {{{Kayte}}}, and here I thought I was talking to myself. How are you and your fine Sir?

Hi again {{{{{Lady Aria}}} I am doing well and so is He. Lots of new events and things where He is and so He is very busy.

I was looking at that list you put up for Shagly....ginger root as part of a starter kit? Oh well, just cuz I haven't had the joy of it yet...

 

[LadyAria]

Hi again {{{{{Lady Aria}}} I am doing well and so is He. Lots of new events and things where He is and so He is very busy.

I was looking at that list you put up for Shagly....ginger root as part of a starter kit? Oh well, just cuz I haven't had the joy of it yet...

That is good to hear. It always pleases me to see good people fairing well ...especially those in committed relationships. Give my respects to the good Sir. I do hope he slows his schedule for some time for you. I'm already making plan for my alpha's birthday. I am so very excited.

Yes, I am a big ginger fan. It is non-toxic, all natural and the effects are temporary. Also, it is simple to use on both men and women.

Here I thought I was being very mild. Shows what I know...

 

[kayte]

That is good to hear. It always pleases me to see good people fairing well ...especially those in committed relationships. Give my respects to the good Sir. I do hope he slows his schedule for some time for you. I'm already making plan for my alpha's birthday. I am so very excited.

Yes, I am a big ginger fan. It is non-toxic, all natural and the effects are temporary. Also, it is simple to use on both men and women.

Here I thought I was being very mild. Shows what I know...

Thank you Ma'am. I will pass your greetings on to Him. He does make time. We are hoping to get together in early April for a few days. Hoping I didn't jinx the planning. by saying something I understand that feeling of exitement that starts building though.

Hoping you and your alpha have a fanatstic celebration.

Well maybe ginger root is mild. I haven't experienced it yet and the most recent item I have read about it was the completion of DVS's story... I am sure it is, as with most items of play, how it is used.

 

[LadyAria]

Thank you Ma'am. I will pass your greetings on to Him. He does make time. We are hoping to get together in early April for a few days. Hoping I didn't jinx the planning. by saying something I understand that feeling of exitement that starts building though.

Hoping you and your alpha have a fanatstic celebration.

Well maybe ginger root is mild. I haven't experienced it yet and the most recent item I have read about it was the completion of DVS's story... I am sure it is, as with most items of play, how it is used.

Good. Yes, let us not speak of April and spoil our plans. Alpha's birthday is in April. Oh I so love our "special" time together. How lucky I am...

DVS is quite the naughty rascal. I can just imagine what he has done. I have only one story on lit that has figging in it. Though, I do have ginger as a reoccurring theme in a lot of my work I haven't posted. Mostly femdom stories... I have issues posting my F/m stories on lit. I think they are just too close to me to have people comment on them. There is a certain detachment I have to have to do that. Blah blah blah...yes, I am being a wimp.

Have a good night. I need to go to bed.

 

[FurryFury]

To the horror of a lot of people, I will admit to having had enjoyed the occassional slice earlier in life. It wasn't about depression or control for me. I was just a very sick little girl who was aroused by the pain and the sight of blood. It was my form of masochistic masterbation...I don't suggest it for anyone. However, it satisfied a need I had. I'm lucky my scars are very pale and virtually unnoticable now. It's been 10 years since I've touch a razor to myself.

Hi LadyAria,

I think it's very brave of you to say the above. I can totally understand that interest for the reasons you say and for the ones I've stated. I've been a very sick little girl myself, (in the past?) *L* Well, I think I'm better now.



Fury

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Hi LadyAria,

I think it's very brave of you to say the above. I can totally understand that interest for the reasons you say and for the ones I've stated. I've been a very sick little girl myself, (in the past?) *L* Well, I think I'm better now.



Fury

I think in today's world you need to be a little screwed up just to keep your sanity intact. Be it this lifestyle or some funny eccentric behaviors. Fast question though for anyone what does PYL mean?? Lastly nice to you your back Lady Aria.

 

[FurryFury]

I think in today's world you need to be a little screwed up just to keep your sanity intact. Be it this lifestyle or some funny eccentric behaviors. Fast question though for anyone what does PYL mean?? Lastly nice to you your back Lady Aria.

Pick your own label.

Fury

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Pick your own label.

Fury

Glad to know what it means now Fury, but completely lost as to why you might us that.

 

[kayte]

Good. Yes, let us not speak of April and spoil our plans. Alpha's birthday is in April. Oh I so love our "special" time together. How lucky I am...

DVS is quite the naughty rascal. I can just imagine what he has done. I have only one story on lit that has figging in it. Though, I do have ginger as a reoccurring theme in a lot of my work I haven't posted. Mostly femdom stories... I have issues posting my F/m stories on lit. I think they are just too close to me to have people comment on them. There is a certain detachment I have to have to do that. Blah blah blah...yes, I am being a wimp.

Have a good night. I need to go to bed.

Good afternoon {{{{Lady Aria}}}} I passed your greetings on to my Sir and He sends His respects to you.

I also have a new AV, hope you like it. I know He does. And do I; remembering that time together.

I have heard that from other writers I know. Just a tad too much of them in the stories... I think you are being realistic knowing that there are some downright 'nasty' people on Lit. Not many, but like R/L they do exist.

Hope you had a good night last night and had a Happy Hump Day.

 

[kayte]

Glad to know what it means now Fury, but completely lost as to why you might us that.

I can answer that leeroy, Good afternoon too.

PYL in caps refers to Dom/mes, Tops etc. pyl in small letters refers to subs, bottoms etc.

That way it means whatever name you use for them. I believe that was coined quite some time ago by Angelic Assassin.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

I can answer that leeroy, Good afternoon too.

PYL in caps refers to Dom/mes, Tops etc. pyl in small letters refers to subs, bottoms etc.

That way it means whatever name you use for them. I believe that was coined quite some time ago by Angelic Assassin.

Ok Kayte after reading it like five times I think I think I got it, damn the noobness. Love the new AV the clamp looks delicous pleasureable. Are you tied down in the AV or is that some breast bondage for lack of better term on my part?? One question for you though on the last AV you said that Master made you the chocker outta a leather belt, so does he make leather goods or was that just something special for you?? Yes its a good afternoon but damn its warm in the SW.

 

[kayte]

Ok Kayte after reading it like five times I think I think I got it, damn the noobness. Love the new AV the clamp looks delicous pleasureable. Are you tied down in the AV or is that some breast bondage for lack of better term on my part?? One question for you though on the last AV you said that Master made you the chocker outta a leather belt, so does he make leather goods or was that just something special for you?? Yes its a good afternoon but damn its warm in the SW.

Good evening leeroy ~ I know newbies are liked here. I am sure that is why Lady A started the thread.

Yes that clamp is delightful, and then when He tugged on the chain...

Looking at the AV and thinking back I was tied down, there was no real breast bondage done. In fact it was a bit 'light' as there was someone there getting the pictures and we didn't want to scare her off.

That leather collar seen on an earlier AV was made by Him, yes. He has made some other leather toys, a flogger, a slapper, things like that. He made them to use on me and doesn't make them on a regular basis.

Well it is a bit nippy in the center of the country and I believe the east is in for some snow. We may no longer be in Meterological winter now that we are in to March, but where I am it is still winter. Looking at the white outside the window.

 

[raven2]

Hi Kayte, I realy like the new AV.

 

[kayte]

Hi Kayte, I realy like the new AV.

Good evening raven ~ Thank you. Hope you had a Happy Hump Day.

 

[raven2]

Good evening raven ~ Thank you. Hope you had a Happy Hump Day.

Thank-you went well enough until I tried making dinner. Slipped on the floor, re-hurt my bad knee and then cut myself with a knife. Now sitting here with a nice glass of wine.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Good evening leeroy ~ I know newbies are liked here. I am sure that is why Lady A started the thread.

Yes that clamp is delightful, and then when He tugged on the chain...

Looking at the AV and thinking back I was tied down, there was no real breast bondage done. In fact it was a bit 'light' as there was someone there getting the pictures and we didn't want to scare her off.

That leather collar seen on an earlier AV was made by Him, yes. He has made some other leather toys, a flogger, a slapper, things like that. He made them to use on me and doesn't make them on a regular basis.

Well it is a bit nippy in the center of the country and I believe the east is in for some snow. We may no longer be in Meterological winter now that we are in to March, but where I am it is still winter. Looking at the white outside the window.

Well boo on the leather stuff I can't seem to find a leather choker I would like you know with just a one ring in front. I remember this one gal from HS she had a dog choker but the two I have for my wallet are WAY to big so that is why I asked. Snow and cold weather sucks but when I'm baking in 100+ degrees you might feel a bit better depending on the humity of the day.

 

[kayte]

Thank-you went well enough until I tried making dinner. Slipped on the floor, re-hurt my bad knee and then cut myself with a knife. Now sitting here with a nice glass of wine.

Oh raven I am so sorry to hear that. I think you have made the right choice in soothing the ills with a glass of wine. Red or White?