ask a co-worker out?

[Hadar]

well first of all it is an appropriate thing to do?

second would this be the right place for that question?

third if they just started how long should you give them before asking

 

[Eilan]

Most HT-ers tend to give the "don't shit where you eat" response when this question is asked here.

 

[Paxter]

Most HT-ers tend to give the "don't shit where you eat" response when this question is asked here.

I couldn't have put it so eloquently but that would be my advice. It will only lead to unnecessary complications at work.

 

[Hadar]

wooooo complications .... im just crazy enough to do it now

 

[tammytoodles]

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[NotNowHunny]

Im with them, nothing good will come of this.

 

[ero_dream]

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[Hadar]

haha i have only been in 3 relationships .... and i still talk to 2 out of the 3 girls i have been in a relationship with

 

[ero_dream]

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[PertPerth]

I'm a little torn with this question. My gut instinct is to agree with everyone else - and I do. I've not dated anyone from my work place and try to avoid that sort of thing - just in case it doesn't work out. Having said that, I know SO many couples, now married with kids, who have all met through work. Why? Same workplace = similar interests and the added bonus of getting to know someone slower over time before jumping into bed with them.
So, if they have only just started working there...you don't really know them very well and should wait a long while. The last thing you want to do is be seen as the office slut - It's not so great for your career.

 

[Mr.G]

FRAUGHT with all kinds of dangers ...

so GO AHEAD. It'll be exciting. One piece of advice tho. Never bother with just a fellow employee. Go for the boss's daughter. That way the adrenal level is way higher and the fallout if anything goes wrong (and it WILL) could even make the news.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

If she just started you can't know her that well, so you want to ask her out purely because she's hot right? Bad idea.

Asking a coworker out because you think she's great and you'd be perfect for each other is worth the risk.

Shitting on your doorstep because you fancy the ass offa the new chick is not.