As onward we walk..

[~Dream~]

I am starting this thread as a way of personal apology to those who do not like or understand the way I express myself about my BDSM relationship with Artful.
I have meant no harm to anyone ..I came here to both educate and be educated...I have received alot,,of sound,good advice from my peers and people I now call my friends..
of course I am not stupid enough to think that EVERYONE support
mine and Artful's relationship and that's o.k.

I just want everyone to kow that I am STILL learning and so sometimes,since I AM HUMAN (last time I checked anyways)I can and will make mistakes..
I do NOT mean to post in a flowery ,chatty-style at all.I only post my true,heart-felt feelings for a man I care deeply for.
meeting skin-to skin intensified those feelings so please try your best to 'bear with me'as I am still way up on cloud#9 if you will
my purpose,my aim,is to offend noone..I respect alot of you in this forum ,and just as well alot of you I do NOT..

As in r/l not everybody just gets along but Artful and I are trying our very best struggling daily with different issues..and we WILL succeed ..It's a matter of "purpose".We chose this lifestyle and we choose to walk it together..our relationship is growing ,changing,getting ever stronger everyday..

Most will just shake their heads in dismay or disbelief,but "WE ' know it's the truth and WE after all are what we really matters here.I appreciate comments both good and bad,please Do not judge me too harshly,rememberback to when You ,Yourself became a "sub' or got started into your own little area of BDSM
please be kind,that's all I ask..helpful comments or "CONSTRUCTIVE' criticism will be appreciated..
MY Master is no better than any other Master,not really
but in MY heart (Dream's heart),He is..

I choose to follow,take His guiding Hand as we walk this path together,I hope to encourage others by "showing them that a LDR is hard work,but it CAN work Artful and I are both strong,committed,and focused on keeping it that way..in any way at all we can help others,we Will....

I make my personal promise to each and everyone of you ,that Iwill try really hard not to "shove my love' for my Master ARTFUL
down your throats or "sugarcoat it like flowers and spice",we have problemls like anyone else..in return I ask humbly to be treated with respect as an active contributor to this forum,and as a 'submissive'in training' which after all ,is what I am

 

[willfulbrat]

Personally, I enjoy the "sugar-coated" posts, dream. Life is what you make it. Of course we all have problems, but if we can still focus on the good and the romantic, what could be better? Just because we're into BDSM doesn't mean our need for romance went out the window. Maybe some here don't need it, but I wouldn't find life very appealing without it.

 

[Goddess Helena]

Artful's dream, I have been reading here for a few days now.
Although, this is my second post.
Personally, I find it delightful to hear how you speak of your Master.
Having a devoted and adoring sub is something that I think a lot of Dom/mes seek.
I certainly enjoy hearing of my boy's devotion.




Helena

 

[~Dream~]

willfullbrat..

Personally, I enjoy the "sugar-coated" posts, dream. Life is what you make it. Of course we all have problems, but if we can still focus on the good and the romantic, what could be better? Just because we're into BDSM doesn't mean our need for romance went out the window. Maybe some here don't need it, but I wouldn't find life very appealing without it.

Thank-you soo very much sweety....that IS what I try to do is accentuate the positive side ..but not saying that there are no negatives ,for that would be lying of course..Honesty is of utmost importance to me AND to my Master also...

You are such a kind,gentle soul and for both of us,may romance live on!!

 

[~Dream~]

Goddess Helena..

Artful's dream, I have been reading here for a few days now.
Although, this is my second post.
Personally, I find it delightful to hear how you speak of your Master.
Having a devoted and adoring sub is something that I think a lot of Dom/mes seek.
I certainly enjoy hearing of my boy's devotion.




Helena

as I am assuming ,I hope correctly,that You are a Domme,1st ..I'd like to say welcome to the forum Goddess,and secondly you honor me alot by noticing my true feelings for my Master ..tyvm...

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Dream, I see nothing that you should apologize for. I don't believe you have broken any rules here, and I find it refreshing to see two people so obviously in love. If you should apologize then so should I, sweetheart, as I've posted lots and lots of times about my love for my Master. And don't tell me its different in any way shape or form, because Love is Love.

Dream, in my opinion you should post what is in your heart and from your heart. You have just as much right as anyone else to post here....A right that we all should hold dear. I know I do!!


dixi

 

[navarre]

Dream,
Your apology is totally unnecessary.
However, there are people on this board who feel that one should only post in a certain manner and about certain topics and I’m sure they expect you to conform to THEIR ideals.
You don’t have to.
You are a part of this forum as is anyone else.
If anyone doesn’t like your posts, they can simply skip over them.
I believe the majority of us support you and Art’s newfound relationship.
Post away girl!

 

[Goddess Helena]

Re: Goddess Helena..

as I am assuming ,I hope correctly,that You are a Domme,1st ..I'd like to say welcome to the forum Goddess,and secondly you honor me alot by noticing my true feelings for my Master ..tyvm...

Yes, I am a Domme.
Thank you for your kind welcome.

I agree with dixiecritter that Love is Love.
There should be no shame placed on Love.
Your joy for your Master is a delight.
Please do not feel inhabited about sharing.


Helena

 

[tassie]

only thing that bothers me honey is that with the speed of my internet connection the size of your bloody sig line takes hours to come down!

 

[~Dream~]

sorry tassie...

only thing that bothers me honey is that with the speed of my internet connection the size of your bloody sig line takes hours to come down!

as per my MASTER'S recquest ,I chaged my sig,and truly hope that it helps you hun

I regards to Dixie(I just love you!) and Navarre (ty sweety soo much) and Goddess Helena.. thanks to one and allfor saying that NO shame should be placed on love..I so much agree with You all
I feel so much better about my posting now as I was seriously considering quitting the forum all to together..
However I do feel I have so much yet to learn,and even more to share ..again thank-you all

 

[A Desert Rose]

Last time I checked.......

everyone is entitled to opinions and to post those opinions, freely and without fear. Or they should be allowed that. No one should ever need to preface an opinion with "I am sorry but this is my opinion...." It's a given that these posts, ALL the posts in this forum, are the opinions of the poster (just as letters to the editor in your local newspaper are the opinion of the writer.) Many posters will provide reference materials that are factual and informative to the readers of this forum. And many here have a wealth of experiences that are valuable to those of us who are new to this particular lifestyle.

That does not mean that the opinions posted are always going to jibe with the readers reality. It also does not mean that we will all agree with the opinions posted here. There are many opinions that do not work for some of us and opinions that we simply do not agree with. So be it. The two options I rely on are either to reply in a polite manner, that you don't agree and why, or if it is not possible to be polite, I ignore that particular post and poster.

I freely admit that there are many topics posted here that I am not qualified, or educated enough to post to. Therefore, I do not. I do however, read most threads and I read at this forum for nearly a month before I posted my first time. I am not, however shy about asking questions if I do not understand what the topic is and no one else should be inhibited to do so, either.

I did not mean to hijack Dream's thread in this manner. I think it is lovely that 2 people have found, met and shared such a wonderful and romantic experience. And the fact of the matter is, it all began as an LDR. I have no reason to believe that it will not progress into a real time experience for them in the near future. Does this not make LDRs a valid topic here? I say it does.

I have grown to admire Art and Dream long before I was ever posting (as I said before, I read here for a month before I posted or officially met any individuals.) I look forward to what they choose to share with us about the new path they are walking together.

And just so there is no doubt, This post is an opinion piece, MINE.

Love,
Rose

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Last time I checked.......

everyone is entitled to opinions and to post those opinions, freely and without fear. Or they should be allowed that. No one should ever need to preface an opinion with "I am sorry but this is my opinion...." It's a given that these posts, ALL the posts in this forum, are the opinions of the poster (just as letters to the editor in your local newspaper are the opinion of the writer.) Many posters will provide reference materials that are factual and informative to the readers of this forum. And many here have a wealth of experiences that are valuable to those of us who are new to this particular lifestyle.

______________________________________________
I did not mean to hijack Dream's thread in this manner. I think it is lovely that 2 people have found, met and shared such a wonderful and romantic experience. And the fact of the matter is, it all began as an LDR. I have no reason to believe that it will not progress into a real time experience for them in the near future. Does this not make LDRs a valid topic here? I say it does.

I have grown to admire Art and Dream long before I was ever posting (as I said before, I read here for a month before I posted or officially met any individuals.) I look forward to what they choose to share with us about the new path they are walking together.
_______________________________

And just so there is no doubt, This post is an opinion piece, MINE.

Love,
Rose

I'll stand by your right to express yourself however you wish to also Rose,anywhere,anytime...for real..I am Very honored that you graced my thread with such a wonderful post and do NOT connsider it a 'hijacking' at all sweety..thank you for your opinion
You have quite a wonderful way of expressing yourself and are a very gifted listener also..

as I grow as a sub,and as a person,I will encounter all sorts of obvious ways to do things that perhaps i may be frightened of ,at first,but will hopefully learn to embrace all because I cared to trusted in and listened to someone else's opinion...

 

[cymbidia]

dream, i wish you and Artful continued joy in and with each other. I'm delighted that your relationship has had the great good fortune to move from being a LD thing to that which has the added richness and wonder of actual touch.

I can't imagine anyone not being glad that you've found happiness with each other. The manner in which you choose to express it is uniquely yours, but that's true of us all, is it not? If i've learned anything in this place, it's that one should pass on the threads and sentiments that are bothersome on some level. Let those who are bothered by your ways pass on reading your words. After all, you're not cramming it in thier faces, are you? You sure don't seem like the type to do that.

Be well.
Be happy.
Live, learn, love, grow.

 

[A Desert Rose]

well thanks but.....

are you ever gonna make a comment about my AV? I have been waiting patiently, Dream.....

LMAO and love,
Rose

 

[MzChrista]

Hey dream
I figure you and me maybe the 2 most oppositest people on the whole board, so if I think you cool then cant nobody else have much to say.

I dig your posts dont let nobody turn you round.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

No apology required..............

As far as I am concerned Dream. I also enjoy reading your posts. Your situation is similar to mine. Possibly even some of your life's experiences, from what you've posted in the past. You have a profound way of expressing your thoughts that are very close to my feelings. I like learning and growing together. So PLEASE; Keep those wonderful posts coming!



-k-

 

[tassie]

ah, that's better! thank you!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: No apology required..............

As far as I am concerned Dream. I also enjoy reading your posts. Your situation is similar to mine. Possibly even some of your life's experiences, from what you've posted in the past. You have a profound way of expressing your thoughts that are very close to my feelings. I like learning and growing together. So PLEASE; Keep those wonderful posts coming!



-k-

-k-, did I not read in one of your previous posts, in fact I believe it was on my thread about the internet and relationships there, that you are in an LDR with your Dom? He is in Britain, is he not?
And you have met face to face on at leat one occassion? Do I have all those facts straight?

I remember that I enjoyed that post a great deal.

Rose

 

[~Dream~]

Cymbidia...

dream, i wish you and Artful continued joy in and with each other. I'm delighted that your relationship has had the great good fortune to move from being a LD thing to that which has the added richness and wonder of actual touch.

I can't imagine anyone not being glad that you've found happiness with each other. The manner in which you choose to express it is uniquely yours, but that's true of us all, is it not? If i've learned anything in this place, it's that one should pass on the threads and sentiments that are bothersome on some level. Let those who are bothered by your ways pass on reading your words. After all, you're not cramming it in thier faces, are you? You sure don't seem like the type to do that.



well well..I love surprises and a happy one this is..having Cym honor ME with a post..
Thank-you soomuch for your thought-provoking words ad I am happy that You are happy for us...that truly means alot to us both
I like being "unique' and someday I only hope to have just half of the wisdom and love for giving that YOU HAVE

 

[~Dream~]

Re: ROSES'S FEET

are you ever gonna make a comment about my AV? I have been waiting patiently, Dream.....

LMAO and love,
Rose

AWWW now aren't those some of the "cutest" lil toesie wosies I ever saw hun!! lmao
i love em can you wiggle them for me?? just a lil???

 

[~Dream~]

MzC...

Hey dream
I figure you and me maybe the 2 most oppositest people on the whole board, so if I think you cool then cant nobody else have much to say.

I dig your posts dont let nobody turn you round.

IF YOU"THINK" ???.. Well is the Verdict in yet sweety? hmmm
why do you feel we are opposites MzC....?? Please elaborate..

 

[~Dream~]

Re: No apology required..............

As far as I am concerned Dream. I also enjoy reading your posts. Your situation is similar to mine. Possibly even some of your life's experiences, from what you've posted in the past. You have a profound way of expressing your thoughts that are very close to my feelings. I like learning and growing together. So PLEASE; Keep those wonderful posts coming!



-k-

Ty soo very much for the kindess MY-sIR'S-k
lets all learn and grow together..

 

[~Dream~]

tassie..

ah, that's better! thank you!

no problem at all . hope it will help you sweety..

 

[MzChrista]

Re: MzC...

IF YOU"THINK" ???.. Well is the Verdict in yet sweety? hmmm
why do you feel we are opposites MzC....?? Please elaborate..

verdict is in, sorry you read it that way. You are just fine in my book, baby.

Why opposite?
You straight, Im gay.
You sub, Im Domme.
You are interested in the DS relationship stuff, I am all about the SM action.
But see, none of that matters. We still got more in common than we got different, that was my point.

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Re: MzC...

verdict is in, sorry you read it that way. You are just fine in my book, baby.

Why opposite?
You straight, Im gay.
You sub, Im Domme.
You are interested in the DS relationship stuff, I am all about the SM action.
But see, none of that matters. We still got more in common than we got different, that was my point.

if I ever even come Close to being only half the woman you are ,I will be very happy ideed
thank you so much for clarifying that and soo sorry I 'took it wrong"