Aroused by my girlfriend's past

[Tyler_D]

I started dating a new girl a few months ago and as time has gone on I've started to learn more and more about how promiscuous she was prior to dating me. When she confessed the number of men she had been with it was a bit overwhelming but now it's turning into a bit of an obsession. I find myself constantly aroused by the fact that she was so hot and horny for so many men which is fueled in no small part by the old text messages from past hook ups and XXX rated pics that she has saved on her phone.

Any other guys here found themselves in similar situations and if so how did you handle it?

 

[wantingit2222]

I love hearing about a woman's past sexual experiences. It turns me on especially if she was really bad and dirty.

 

[Tyler_D]

I love hearing about a woman's past sexual experiences. It turns me on especially if she was really bad and dirty.

I always have as well but man, she has quite the past lol. Have you ever taken it from fantasy into encouraging her to act on it again or do you let it stay in fantasy land?

 

[wantingit2222]

I always have as well but man, she has quite the past lol. Have you ever taken it from fantasy into encouraging her to act on it again or do you let it stay in fantasy land?

So far just fantasy land...hearing her talk about things she has done.

 

[Erodicus]

My gf had only 6 former lovers, but she told me all the spicy details. I would always get extremely horny - and so would she!

 

[wantingit2222]

My gf had only 6 former lovers, but she told me all the spicy details. I would always get extremely horny - and so would she!

What was the hottest thing that she told you about?

 

[cryingalien]

Not similar but my knowledge, but very hot

 

[freakynova]

I was in a serious relationship with a woman for about a year and a half. It ended when work took us to different states. She had an extremely sexual past. She is now in her mid 40's and has been sexually active since she was in her teens. She wasn't sure of how many men she had slept with but she calculated by adding the number of years she has been sexually and using a rough estimate of 3-4 guys a month. She was married for a few years once and has had several relationships where her number of men is much lower. However she lives an active swinger lifestyle and has enjoyed multiple new men in one night so she has had periods where her number of men is much higher. She and I both got off often while talking about her past. I loved it.

 

[Tyler_D]

I was in a serious relationship with a woman for about a year and a half. It ended when work took us to different states. She had an extremely sexual past. She is now in her mid 40's and has been sexually active since she was in her teens. She wasn't sure of how many men she had slept with but she calculated by adding the number of years she has been sexually and using a rough estimate of 3-4 guys a month. She was married for a few years once and has had several relationships where her number of men is much lower. However she lives an active swinger lifestyle and has enjoyed multiple new men in one night so she has had periods where her number of men is much higher. She and I both got off often while talking about her past. I loved it.

Very sexy! Nice to know I'm not alone.

 

[cryingalien]

I was in a serious relationship with a woman for about a year and a half. It ended when work took us to different states. She had an extremely sexual past. She is now in her mid 40's and has been sexually active since she was in her teens. She wasn't sure of how many men she had slept with but she calculated by adding the number of years she has been sexually and using a rough estimate of 3-4 guys a month. She was married for a few years once and has had several relationships where her number of men is much lower. However she lives an active swinger lifestyle and has enjoyed multiple new men in one night so she has had periods where her number of men is much higher. She and I both got off often while talking about her past. I loved it.

So what do you want moving forward?

 

[freakynova]

Very sexy! Nice to know I'm not alone.

You're definitely not alone. We would regularly run into men she had slept with and she would recap details of what she did to him. We still speak from time to time and I'll have her tell me about what she has done since our last conversation while I get myself off.

 

[freakynova]

So what do you want moving forward?

Man I doubt I'll ever find another woman like her. I'm pretty open minded so it would be nice to be in a very open and trusting relationship.

 

[cryingalien]

Man I doubt I'll ever find another woman like her. I'm pretty open minded so it would be nice to be in a very open and trusting relationship.

You found out something new about yourself.....you will find a person that fills that now. She burnt you but that shouldnt define you

 

[Tyler_D]

You're definitely not alone. We would regularly run into men she had slept with and she would recap details of what she did to him. We still speak from time to time and I'll have her tell me about what she has done since our last conversation while I get myself off.

That sounds like an amazing relationship. Kudos to you for being so open and supportive of her sexual appetite.

 

[srgreene]

She had an extremely sexual past. She is now in her mid 40's and has been sexually active since she was in her teens. She wasn't sure of how many men she had slept with but she calculated by adding the number of years she has been sexually and using a rough estimate of 3-4 guys a month .... She and I both got off often while talking about her past. I loved it.

I have a somewhat similar history, although it stopped after I got married. But most of the men in whom I confided even a portion of my history were rather weirded out, I would say. The others, though, were quite curious. I'm glad my promiscuous days were before cell phones!

 

[Tyler_D]

I have a somewhat similar history, although it stopped after I got married. But most of the men in whom I confided even a portion of my history were rather weirded out, I would say. The others, though, were quite curious. I'm glad my promiscuous days were before cell phones!

Ha, I bet! I'm glad my gf has some evidence though. I'm not sure she would like that Ive seen what I have but it is incredibly sexy to see her being so hot and naughty for all these other men. I do wonder how many other guys have pics and videos of her though and where they will end up one day!

I was a little overwhelmed by the number of men she'd been with in the beginning but it never "weirded" me out. She's kind of closed up a bit about her past now that we're serious but the stories she did share in the beginning are still giving me a lot of inspiration.

 

[roc23]

The past is the past.Can't do a damn thing about so you might as well enjoy it if a girl opens up about her sexual history.For me,sexual honesty is a turn on so it wouldn't bother me in the least. I was recently with a girl that told me the number of guys she went down on. That led to some hot sessions.

 

[freakynova]

I have a somewhat similar history, although it stopped after I got married. But most of the men in whom I confided even a portion of my history were rather weirded out, I would say. The others, though, were quite curious. I'm glad my promiscuous days were before cell phones!

It honestly never bothered me at all. It was a huge part of our sex life. It also helped me be completely open with my past and desires, which led to some fun nights.

 

[srgreene]

Ha, I bet! I'm glad my gf has some evidence though. I'm not sure she would like that Ive seen what I have but it is incredibly sexy to see her being so hot and naughty for all these other men. I do wonder how many other guys have pics and videos of her though and where they will end up one day!

I once saw a nude of myself, from when I was a teen, on the 'Net. I recalled the situation, but don't think I knew they had taken a nude photo. It had to have been digitized. I showed my husband, who said he wished he had known me then.

 

[freakynova]

The past is the past.Can't do a damn thing about so you might as well enjoy it if a girl opens up about her sexual history.For me,sexual honesty is a turn on so it wouldn't bother me in the least. I was recently with a girl that told me the number of guys she went down on. That led to some hot sessions.

That's awesome! I love women that enjoy their sexuality.

 

[Swgopro]

Jealous...Mrs. S has virtually no past to share with me.

 

[Tyler_D]

I once saw a nude of myself, from when I was a teen, on the 'Net. I recalled the situation, but don't think I knew they had taken a nude photo. It had to have been digitized. I showed my husband, who said he wished he had known me then.

Thats a nice compliment from your husband. I know the pics I have seen so far of my gf with other men have been incredibly arousing. I'm sure he enjoyed it as well.

 

[Tyler_D]

Jealous...Mrs. S has virtually no past to share with me.

Well my girlfriend has SO much history it can be a little overwhelming lol. Looks like you both are having a great time together though.

 

[Tyler_D]

The past is the past.Can't do a damn thing about so you might as well enjoy it if a girl opens up about her sexual history.For me,sexual honesty is a turn on so it wouldn't bother me in the least. I was recently with a girl that told me the number of guys she went down on. That led to some hot sessions.

Nice, I bet!

 

[roc23]

Nice, I bet!

You'd win that bet.

And it wouldn't even bother me if the girl did porn in her past.

Just as long as she did more girls than guys.
I do have some standards.