I am, but only because my take on it is rather simplistic: if we all were only bottoms what good would that do us?Are you versatile? I am.
How about you? Are you strictly top, or bottom, or versatile?
I remember a story once of a young woman who applied to an Ivy League University with a VERY LOW acceptance rate. One of the application questions asked if she was either a leader or follower. She wanted to say leader, that is what such a prestigious university was there to do... to groom new leaders. For the longest time she struggled over the question, then finally answered it truthfully... she was a follower by nature.
When she was accepted it was because of her answer. A hand written note said, we had 18,000 applications and with 17,999 being leaders we figured they at least needed one follower on campus.
It is the same in this situation: we cannot all be bottoms. Switch it up! Be versatile.
