WiLordCadus
Lone wolf
- Joined
- Sep 6, 2010
- Posts
- 142
Greetings,
I am 45 with 23 years real world BDSM experience, I am what is known as a pleasure Dominant, I enjoy giving pleasure that most relationships don’t involve. I enjoy to give, care, and control the pleasure. I am seeking someone to return the pleasure, without needing to always be ordered to do so. It’s because she enjoys my pleasure as much as her own.
The trick is getting there. It’s a rush into things too fast and find out not right for each other. So what I am seeking are women that have experience with either the lifestyle or their bodies. Meaning they know what they like and want to try. I don’t want to have to train how to take care of me and teach her what feels good. I’ve been down that road and doesn’t work.
To do this we must be able to have open and honest conversations with each other. It would start out with few messages back and forth. Then I want to have conversations daily. As in not simply written words. I like to hear the sounds of laugher and can tell when you’re smiling.
I want someone with outside interests. Someone that reads, keeps up with current events/history, has hobbies and doesn’t mind that I have my own.
I have my own opinions and my morals, I wouldn’t change them to make another person happy in the relationship. I will respect yours as well. I do ask that you have emotional depth as well. But it’s not my job to fix you or help you heal from past trauma of failed relationships. I want someone that is seeking with mental and emotional stability.
In saying all of that, I have a loving but stern Daddy side. Who enjoys giving attention and checking in with you. A lot more once I believe we have a connection together. That’s what matters, is forming a connection that can lead to a bond.
Cadus
I am 45 with 23 years real world BDSM experience, I am what is known as a pleasure Dominant, I enjoy giving pleasure that most relationships don’t involve. I enjoy to give, care, and control the pleasure. I am seeking someone to return the pleasure, without needing to always be ordered to do so. It’s because she enjoys my pleasure as much as her own.
The trick is getting there. It’s a rush into things too fast and find out not right for each other. So what I am seeking are women that have experience with either the lifestyle or their bodies. Meaning they know what they like and want to try. I don’t want to have to train how to take care of me and teach her what feels good. I’ve been down that road and doesn’t work.
To do this we must be able to have open and honest conversations with each other. It would start out with few messages back and forth. Then I want to have conversations daily. As in not simply written words. I like to hear the sounds of laugher and can tell when you’re smiling.
I want someone with outside interests. Someone that reads, keeps up with current events/history, has hobbies and doesn’t mind that I have my own.
I have my own opinions and my morals, I wouldn’t change them to make another person happy in the relationship. I will respect yours as well. I do ask that you have emotional depth as well. But it’s not my job to fix you or help you heal from past trauma of failed relationships. I want someone that is seeking with mental and emotional stability.
In saying all of that, I have a loving but stern Daddy side. Who enjoys giving attention and checking in with you. A lot more once I believe we have a connection together. That’s what matters, is forming a connection that can lead to a bond.
Cadus
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