Are you happy with how you look?

how happy are you?

  • Very happy

    Votes: 5 8.9%
  • mostly happy

    Votes: 30 53.6%
  • neutral

    Votes: 9 16.1%
  • mostly unhappy

    Votes: 9 16.1%
  • very unhappy

    Votes: 2 3.6%
  • other

    Votes: 1 1.8%

  • Total voters
    56
Male pattern baldness and could stand to lose a few pounds but otherwise, I'm pretty okay with the way I look.
 
I'm pretty damn thrilled with how I look, though I need to diet to improve and maintain how I feel.

Had this question been asked a little over a year ago the answer would have come back differently. Sick and feeling sexy are pretty rough to co-ordinate.
 
I am fine with my shape but would prefer more toned stomach, thighs and upper arms. I have stretch marks on my tummy which I am quite self conscious about. Feature wise I like my eyes but hate my nose and chin. I wish my breasts were smaller and my hair not so curly cos its an arse having to straighten it all the time. Otherwise I'm fine...lol.

Seriously though its strange why those things bother me cos I think its the not so perfect things that make people more attractive and what is inside counts for much, much more, I have always just expected other people to be disappointed in me. Actually through lit I'm becoming a lot more confident in just being me and being ok with the fact that I'm not perfect, don't look like a model and never will be perfect or look like a model. :)

:rose:
 
I hate how I look. I avoid mirrors, and try not to look at my body as much as possible.
 
i've lost a ton of weight since November and overall i am fairly happy with the way i look. i would love bigger boobs though.
 
HottieMama said:
i've lost a ton of weight since November and overall i am fairly happy with the way i look. i would love bigger boobs though.

I'll share mine.
 
I said mostly unhappy, because I've gained all the weight back that I lost last year, and feel big as a house :( Also, my boobs sit alot lower than I'd like, and one is bigger than the other. Apart from that, I'm ok with how my body is on the outside :)
 
xxCrystal4314xx said:
I'll share mine, but I want them back at the end of the day ;)

LOL. Mine are huge. I hate them - they make my back hurt. If I could figure out how to give everyone one larger size, and me one less, I WOULD.
 
mine are pretty big, though fortunately I don't get pain with them. I love having big boobs though, gets alot of attention. :p
 
xxCrystal4314xx said:
mine are pretty big, though fortunately I don't get pain with them. I love having big boobs though, gets alot of attention. :p

I'm 5' tall and I wear a 38J.
 
xxCrystal4314xx said:
mine are pretty big, though fortunately I don't get pain with them. I love having big boobs though, gets alot of attention. :p

I went up to an F cup when I was breastfeeding and I just looked so odd and totally out of proportion and people were so mesmerised by them they would talk to my tits not my face - I have to admit to finding it more than a little uncomfortable!! Even now at a DD I think they're too big.

:rose:
 
graceanne said:
I'm 5' tall and I wear a 38J.

*goes to look for an online bra size converter*

Oh my.... *hugs* no wonder your back hurts! I'm a 38 DDD in US sizes
 
xxCrystal4314xx said:
*goes to look for an online bra size converter*

Oh my.... *hugs* no wonder your back hurts! I'm a 38 DDD in US sizes

*hugs* And now you know why I hate them.
 
NotForSale said:
I went up to an F cup when I was breastfeeding and I just looked so odd and totally out of proportion and people were so mesmerised by them they would talk to my tits not my face - I have to admit to finding it more than a little uncomfortable!! Even now at a DD I think they're too big.

:rose:

I'm an F cup in UK sizes, and I know what ya mean about them being talked to! It tends to be an attention grabber. A few weeks ago on a girls night out, I had a guy shout rather loudly at me accross the pub 'Oi love, what ya gonna do with THOSE?!'
 
xxCrystal4314xx said:
I'm an F cup in UK sizes, and I know what ya mean about them being talked to! It tends to be an attention grabber. A few weeks ago on a girls night out, I had a guy shout rather loudly at me accross the pub 'Oi love, what ya gonna do with THOSE?!'

I had someone ask me how much they cost and where I had them done :eek:, I wasn't a happy bunny! Although she is a known bitch and was just having a go - I wish I was the type of person who could just slap someone sometimes lol.

xx
 
My favorite comment about my boobs was in an italian restaurant. "Those are...mmm. Are those natural?"

Are they natural?

I'm maybe a scant B cup. They're lovely, but if they're enlarged one can only imagine what I started with.
 
I'm actually quite happy with the way I look ^^

especially since I've dropped the extra pounds I gained when I was so depressed. After my waxing, and my piercing, I realized the other day that I actually think my pussy is pretty! Whee! And the couple I've been playing with has done wonders for my self esteem.

There are, of course, things i could still improve - more muscle, for instance, instead of some of the fat, but overall I feel very attractive and VERY happy with my appearance.

OMG, I MIGHT BE CONTENT... *fear*
 
Netzach said:
My favorite comment about my boobs was in an italian restaurant. "Those are...mmm. Are those natural?"

Are they natural?

I'm maybe a scant B cup. They're lovely, but if they're enlarged one can only imagine what I started with.

LMAO!

I've had the same question asked of me before. I force myself into a 42DD because you can't buy bigger sizes than that off the rack, but I'd probably fit better in a 42F. I can understand for a moment why someone would ask, just based on the size of the things. On the other hand, if you look for more than just a second or two, it's pretty obvious that my left one is probably a whole cup size bigger than my right one. Uh, hell yes, they're real. I damn sure wouldn't PAY for them to be messed up like that.

Edited to answer the original question: No, I'm not happy with the way I look. I'm overweight by far, and my hair is always a mess, no matter what I try to do with it. Nonetheless, I can live with it because there's not much else I can do at the moment. (Yes, I realize that I can lose weight, but I still have to live with myself because it won't all come off at once. And I'm so broke, I can't even afford to get my hair cut right now. Grrrrrr.)
 
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I'm mostly happy with how I look.

I like my face more than my body, inparticular my eyes and my lips. I put weight on after my divorce and I think I could still do with dropping some pounds...though I am on the way to doing that.

As I lose them I love watching how my shape develops and my shoulders and waist become more pronounced. I've always had ample breasts lol....I'd like them more pert, but then I think its human nature to hanker after what you haven't got.

I like the laughter lines around my eyes. My skin isn't too bad, but I thought at almost 38 I should invest in some facials and went to enquire about the different types the other day. The woman suggested botox lol.
I'd prefer to have a few lines and an expression, than none at all.
 
BiBunny said:
LMAO!

I've had the same question asked of me before. I force myself into a 42DD because you can't buy bigger sizes than that off the rack, but I'd probably fit better in a 42F.

I don't know if you have a Macey's in Alabama, but they have 'em up to DDD. Also, their are usually specialty shops that carry larger sizes, off the rack. You might want to check your yellow pages and see what you can find.
 
graceanne said:
I don't know if you have a Macey's in Alabama, but they have 'em up to DDD. Also, their are usually specialty shops that carry larger sizes, off the rack. You might want to check your yellow pages and see what you can find.

Cool. Thanks, gracie! Now to find something in my price range. ;)
 
Other than my Roman nose and weight I'm pretty happy with how I look especially when I'm done up. I'm always self conscious about the weight but working on weight loss. It's coming off slowly but in a healthy way. I'd like to lose at least 50 more pounds.

Like many I'm too hard on myself when I look in the mirror. I'm gaining confidence though as I work on being healthy and let go from my mind the "perfect" images we are bombarded with every day.

Ivy :rose:
 
xxCrystal, I like your avatar. You look beautiful, big hug.

Graceanne, lay down on your tummy, I'll get some almond massage oil and rub your sore back.

I'm mostly happy to very happy with how I look (depending on the day and the planets) :).

I liked what NotForSale said about being attracted to what some may consider imperfections. Dappled things like a crooked smile, a scar, callused hands, or smile lines add character and charm- and can be a definite turn-on.
 
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