Are you dominant or submissive

Q: are you dominant or submissive?
A: yes.

I like being submissive more and better, but there are times I need to be in and take control, sexually.
 
For many the dominant or submissive side is so shallow that it doesn't count in any bdsm context.
 
But is there a level at which something counts?
Of course. I referred Lady2020's post about most people having D/s sides. For many they are just some small or smallish variation around the median. It doesn't mean they'd even get excited about taking that role in the bedroom.
 
I'm in control of my daily work life. I am responsible for people and assets. In my home life I like to be more laid back.
I'm really into CFNM and have had some wonderful experiences. In this arena, it's more about what she wants or needs from me. It isn't about domination or humiliation, it's more about love and trust.
I get to let go and she gets to play to her desires and/or fantasies. I love to be her fantasy and fulfill her every desire!
 
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