Are you a "in control" type of person?

[T.H. Oughts]

Ishmael mentioned in another of my threads http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=2008150#post2008150
that I am a control freak because I like the idea very much of using a strapon on a man or a woman. Maybe, maybe not....


Do you like to be in control of your sensual play time???????

Do you follow or lead in life????

 

[Ezarc]

I mostly lead. Sometimes though it might be nice to let go of that and let someone else set the tone.
Take Care and Lust Always,
Ezarc

 

[WhiteRose]

I don't think I'm a control freak in bed at all. I prefer a guy who knows what he's doing, but at the same time I'm not afraid to tell him what I want, and I don't mind climbing all over him to get it Sometimes I like it when the guy takes charge and "does me", and sometimes I like to be the one making the moves and giving HIM the pleasure. Just depends on my mood.

 

[Siren]

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I don't think I'm a control freak in bed at all. I prefer a guy who knows what he's doing, but at the same time I'm not afraid to tell him what I want, and I don't mind climbing all over him to get it Sometimes I like it when the guy takes charge and "does me", and sometimes I like to be the one making the moves and giving HIM the pleasure. Just depends on my mood.

Yes, I couldn't agree any more. Taking turns in the power play is good, depends on the mood and the play.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

what do you think SIREN is?

Well by the way you bolt around the boards saying what you want. I would say you are the "in control" type.

 

[Siren]

 

[Wiggles]

I wouldn't say I'm controlling, at least not in the bedroom. But if he can't do things the way I like, I'm more than able to take over.

The same way in life. I'm not neccesarily a leader, but if I see things being done in a shabby manner I'll take initiative.

In other words, I'm a perfectionist. And I'm not shy about it either.

 

[superlittlegirl]

I'm a total switch.

I, too, relish the idea of fucking a man or woman with my strap-on, but I'm not sure it has everything to do with control or dominance. In fact, it's lovely to strap it on and then be somewhat passive or submissive as the person I'm fucking fucks the hell out of me in turn. Or tells me exactly how hard, how deep and how fast she wants to be fucked, and I'm the willing fuck-toy. Strapping it on doesn't automatically make a person dominant any more than being born with a dick does.

--Freya

 

[marksgirl]

We have a give and take relationship, some times I give and some times I take and vice versa.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: I'm a total switch.

I, too, relish the idea of fucking a man or woman with my strap-on,

Bet you look damn sexy doing it too.

 

[kiwiwolf]

I lead.

 

[Ice Cold]

I'd have to say the control type. I like to be in charge and am more relaxed that way. Not to say that I have to be, but it is preferred that way.

Sometimes I will step back let someone else have charge and be there if they need assistance.

 

[morninggirl5]

In my classroom, i am completely in control.

In most aspects of my life, i need to be in control. I am quite willing to give up control, but only if i feel completely safe and trust the person i'm giving control to completely.

Being out of control scares me, at the same time it exhilirates me in certain situations.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I lead.

Well go smack someone then, lol

 

[Guest]

I switch. It all depends on my mood.
I kinda like the flexibility.