Are Tops More Likely to Be Bi?

[whiteasianlvr]

I've often wondered if Tops are more likely to have been with women. As a bottom, I like women but sexually they do absolutely nothing for me. I know some guys start out thinking or wishing they're straight (what kid wakes up wanting to be gay with all the extra challenges our orientation brings) but go on to realize they're not. But for those who are strictly or total tops....did you start out that way? I'm always interested in understanding where other guys come from.

 

[magic_rat]

In my experience, married 'straight' men are way more likely to be bottoms. If the tops I've played with, they're likely to have had little or no experience with women.

 

[Swuq]

I am bi married. I have always been a bottom with men.

Most of the tops I have been with, and there are many, are married to women that don’t give them what they need.

 

[Escierto]

I have always been a straight man but I am a pure bottom for my trans girlfriend. She is a pure top and has always been a top. She is not bi but is only interested in fucking men, ideally straight men.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I've found most bi guys tend to be bottoms, or versatile. They fuck women and get fucked by men. Most of the tops I've been with are gay, or guys that identify as straight guys who just like to fuck.

 

[BiDrew42]

I'm bi, and have always preferred to bottom.

 

[Swuq]

I'm bi, and have always preferred to bottom.

The same. I have never topped a guy.

 

[Britva415]

I switch with men and I switch with women too - whenever I can find a woman who will top or switch.

If she doesn’t, that works for me too. I don’t think I’d be that into an all-bottom-all-the-time guy.

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

I dont care, I want to do both top and bottom!

 

[Swuq]

I dont care, I want to do both top and bottom!

For me my pleasure is being the bottom and submitting to my top for his pleasure. Best tops are selfish lovers.

 

[Escierto]

For me my pleasure is being the bottom and submitting to my top for his pleasure. Best tops are selfish lovers.

YES! My girlfriend thinks of nothing else except her own pleasure. Our sex begins with her erection and ends with her orgasm. Which is exactly how I want it to be! As her bottom, it is my duty (a duty I love!) to be absolutely focused on giving her a satisfying sexual experience.

When she lies there spent from her orgasm with a smile on her face as she goes to sleep, I know that I have succeeded.

 

[Swuq]

YES! My girlfriend thinks of nothing else except her own pleasure. Our sex begins with her erection and ends with her orgasm. Which is exactly how I want it to be! As her bottom, it is my duty (a duty I love!) to be absolutely focused on giving her a satisfying sexual experience.

When she lies there spent from her orgasm with a smile on her face as she goes to sleep, I know that I have succeeded.

Yes. Feeling my too cum in me and hearing him moan. Laying in after sex while he leaks from me. Watching him dress and as he leaves he says something like…I will call you when I need you again.

 

[Astroman72]

I'm bi, and although I'd describe myself as versatile, I'm probably 60-40 bottom.

 

[bobb64]

i'm married and bi and have always been a bottom when with men.

 

[Bisnjguy]

When I’m with men, I am very oral and enjoy kissing. But when it comes to anal. I am a bottom. I guess that is my fem side in me.

 

[HawkeyeA1]

I'm bi, and have always preferred to bottom.

Yep, same here.

 

[Britva415]

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Maybe let other people use the terms they want to use, instead of imposing yours on complete strangers to their face.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Topic: Are Tops More Likely to Be Bi?​

As opposed to gay?

 

[Escierto]

My big little top is only interested in men which apparently is not the norm for trans women. She has women friends but zero interest in fucking them.

 

[HawkeyeA1]

I used to be bi, I am now just gay. I like to top and bottom.

Prefer to be the submissive bottom.

 

[Britva415]

Topic: Are Tops More Likely to Be Bi?​

As opposed to gay?

He's asking whether gay tops are more likely than gay bottoms to have had sex with women, and, to be bi.

The interesting result seems to be that most bi men who have answered here say they bottom for men and don't top men.

 

[Sunnyade]

I'm Bi versatile but mainly Top. I took a while for me to try being bottom.

 

[Swuchrow]

I am a bi bottom. Fem acting bottom with tops but love fucking women.

 

[Swuchrow]

Seems like most of us are in the same boat. Bottom with men, top with women.

For me at least it's about experiencing what I can't experience with a woman

I am an alpha during daily life. Being a submissive fem with dominant men brings a needed balance.

I don’t have an emotional attachment to my tops like I do with a female. My attachment is with being a submissive fem to a hard cock and being used for someone’s pleasure.

 

[Tessinwales]

In my admittedly limited experience I would say yes. The few bi men I have slept with were all Tops.