Are There Any Sane Chicks Left In The World...

[LukkyKnight]

In a thread started like this you want me to answer THAT?

Now you have opened your can of worms, LukkyKnight. What is your well defined idea of the ideal mate? And btw, I hate being called a chick. I only wear feathers for special occasions.

Well, I've avoided this in other threads so by way of procrastinating, first two notes:
1) I think you'd look quite fetching in feathers, PowerOfCanOpener, and
2) The answer is surely different for everybody.
3) I don't think "ideal" is anything but a target.

Yeah, yeah, I know, three. I'm like that. So sue me.
Besides, three is felicitous.

Right.
In my case, an ideal mate is a strong-willed, self-confident, communicative, and intelligent female, with an appreciation for music, nature, and diversity. I need somebody who can - and does - stand up to me when they disagree, else I will never learn anything from them.

Balance is necessary to an ongoing relationship, if there is too much power in one person then the give-and-take which I thrive on will not be present. I am sure there are those who prefer to be worshipped and looked up to, I would prefer to be inspired, supported, and told when I am being an idiot or an ass.

Ideally, further:
my mate should be playful, sexual, and social, interested in listening to children, capable of enduring my most opinionated friends and peers, and it wouldn't hurt if she had a flair in the kitchen and/or with interior design, where my talents are adequate but lackluster.

 

[Moridin187]

I can see with that attitude, you won't last long around here. You may want to reconsider your opinion until you have a better understanding of the ladies that post here. Most of them are perfectly sane, and very very kind. Why don't you just hang around awhile, and get to know them. I am sure you will change your mind.

If you're talking to me, Stond, understand that to me "insane" is not an insult. I've got a few problems myself, I'm just pointing out the fact that Everyone does. There is not one person over the age of about 12 on this planet who doesn't have issues and problems. It's part of life. Bad shit happens to us and our mind alters to protect us from the reprocussions of the bad shit. Thus we become "insane". Cymbidia has the right of it when she says

Originally posted by cymbidia
Sanity is an illusion.
At best, it's a matter of opinion.

And as to the ladies out there offended by the word "chick", I have to give you the same explanation I gave LadyDarkFlame. To me "chick" is just the feminine form of "guy". No disrespect is meant by the term, in fact, as a whole I tend to respect women a lot more than men. If the word offends you, well, sorry. I have a lot of trouble changing my vocabulary on short notice, especially when it's only to please other people.

 

[PowerOfOne]

Re: In a thread started like this you want me to answer THAT?

Well, I've avoided this in other threads so by way of procrastinating, first two notes:
1) I think you'd look quite fetching in feathers, PowerOfCanOpener, and
2) The answer is surely different for everybody.
3) I don't think "ideal" is anything but a target.

Yeah, yeah, I know, three. I'm like that. So sue me.
Besides, three is felicitous.

Right.
In my case, an ideal mate is a strong-willed, self-confident, communicative, and intelligent female, with an appreciation for music, nature, and diversity. I need somebody who can - and does - stand up to me when they disagree, else I will never learn anything from them.

Balance is necessary to an ongoing relationship, if there is too much power in one person then the give-and-take which I thrive on will not be present. I am sure there are those who prefer to be worshipped and looked up to, I would prefer to be inspired, supported, and told when I am being an idiot or an ass.

Ideally, further:
my mate should be playful, sexual, and social, interested in listening to children, capable of enduring my most opinionated friends and peers, and it wouldn't hurt if she had a flair in the kitchen and/or with interior design, where my talents are adequate but lackluster.

Very nice, LukkyKnight. Now please tell me, is it just me or is your AV losing something on a daily basis? ~Laughing~

 

[Sugar Bear]

Proof that women are headcases...

I sign Angels guestbook with a silly message about her having purple pubes to match her hair and all of a sudden i'm having an on-line fling with Angel...

~i~

 

[PowerOfOne]

And as to the ladies out there offended by the word "chick", I have to give you the same explanation I gave LadyDarkFlame. To me "chick" is just the feminine form of "guy". No disrespect is meant by the term, in fact, as a whole I tend to respect women a lot more than men. If the word offends you, well, sorry. I have a lot of trouble changing my vocabulary on short notice, especially when it's only to please other people.

To please other people? Isn't your goal to impress "chicks"? I do not think of it any different as calling you a "horndog". If you are trying to reach a certain audience then you do have to be able to attract them instead of offend, otherwise, it appears you are not really wanting an equal, you are wanting a blow up doll. Is this enough notice for you?

 

[Angel]

That entire issue was already dealt with. Read my post above, and then go back and talk to her again with what I said in mind. Do you need it spelled out for you? Typical male.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Proof that women are headcases...

I sign Angels guestbook with a silly message about her having purple pubes to match her hair and all of a sudden i'm having an on-line fling with Angel...

~i~

Huh?

As a proof there's rather a gaping hole between your first premise and your conclusion, dude. It may be indicative to you, but from out here where we have nothing to work with but your post there is a striking lack of anything approaching logic in spite of some provocative notions.

 

[LukkyKnight]

in response to PowerOfSuggestion's post

I just can't resist. Typical male, eh? http://www.riddleware.com/funny/surpise.jpg Well, you did mention a blow-up doll.

 

[Sugar Bear]

Lets examine this spin on the issue...

How many of you headcase chicks out there are guilty of e-mail bombing your man...

Guys, how many times has this happened to you whether it be e-mails or phone calls by your headcase girlfriend...

~i~

 

[PowerOfOne]

Re: in response to PowerOfSuggestion's post

I just can't resist. Typical male, eh? Well, you did mention a blow-up doll.

ROFL! I love it, LukkyKnight! Thank you! And SugarBear, you may want to look in the mirror to see if the problem isn't you.

 

[Angel]

You're completely hopeless.

 

[koalabear]

Lets examine this spin on the issue...

How many of you headcase chicks out there are guilty of e-mail bombing your man...

Guys, how many times has this happened to you whether it be e-mails or phone calls by your headcase girlfriend...

~i~

 

[StondTmplPilot]

If you're talking to me, Stond, understand that to me "insane" is not an insult. I've got a few problems myself, I'm just pointing out the fact that Everyone does. There is not one person over the age of about 12 on this planet who doesn't have issues and problems. It's part of life. Bad shit happens to us and our mind alters to protect us from the reprocussions of the bad shit. Thus we become "insane".


Moridin, my post was directed to Sugar Bear, my apologies if you misunderstood. I realize that all of us have some issues, I have issues of my own. That does not make me insane, it makes me human. Just like you, just like everyone else, no better, no worse, just different issues than the ones you may have.

 

[Moridin187]

To please other people? Isn't your goal to impress "chicks"? I do not think of it any different as calling you a "horndog". If you are trying to reach a certain audience then you do have to be able to attract them instead of offend, otherwise, it appears you are not really wanting an equal, you are wanting a blow up doll. Is this enough notice for you?

Yes, my goal is to impress "chicks", but not all of them. Honestly, if a woman is offended by something so minor as the word "chick", I doubt I want to be friends with her, let alone her lover. If she's so wrapped up in semantics and women's lib that she can't see through it enough to realize that I'm one of the strongest egalitarians in the world, that's pretty much her problem. I am looking for an equal, but I'm also looking for someone who accepts me as I am, and isn't trying to change me. If you've got a problem with that word, that stupid, little word, as I said before. "well, sorry"

 

[Moridin187]

Moridin, my post was directed to Sugar Bear, my apologies if you misunderstood.

Alright man, we're cool, it's all good

 

[PowerOfOne]

Yes, my goal is to impress "chicks", but not all of them. Honestly, if a woman is offended by something so minor as the word "chick", I doubt I want to be friends with her, let alone her lover. If she's so wrapped up in semantics and women's lib that she can't see through it enough to realize that I'm one of the strongest egalitarians in the world, that's pretty much her problem. I am looking for an equal, but I'm also looking for someone who accepts me as I am, and isn't trying to change me. As I said before, if you've got a problem with that word, that stupid, little word, as I said before. "well, sorry"

I am glad that you are not out to impress all of the "chicks". You would be sadly disappointed. What I am wrapped up in is respect and the word "chick" does not offer respect of any kind to a female. Do I want to change you? No, no. That is for you to change yourself. Just do not be surprised by a females reaction when you call her a "chick". Ok, horndog?

 

[StondTmplPilot]

Alright man, we're cool, it's all good

Bitchin!

 

[Moridin187]

I am glad that you are not out to impress all of the "chicks". You would be sadly disappointed. What I am wrapped up in is respect and the word "chick" does not offer respect of any kind to a female. Do I want to change you? No, no. That is for you to change yourself. Just do not be surprised by a females reaction when you call her a "chick". Ok, horndog?

Well, I find that most of the females of my age group don't really care, in fact a great majority refer to themselves and others as "chicks". However, if an intellligent lady who seems worth my while is offended (you for example), I'll do the same thing I did already, I will apologize. Much respect to you and all my sisters Power

 

[LukkyKnight]

Now that STP is clear on who is and isn't upset with him

am I safe in assuming that when Angel posted "you're hopeless" it wasn't for my posting the silly pic, but rather directed at the thread originator?

I'm going with that unless somebody credible tells me otherwise.

 

[PowerOfOne]

Well, I find that most of the females of my age group don't really care, in fact a great majority refer to themselves and others as "chicks". However, if an intellligent lady who seems worth my while is offended (you for example), I'll do the same thing I did already, I will apologize. Much respect to you and all my sisters Power

Thank you, Moridin and yes, I agree, most of this comes with age. I have no idea how old you are. I am 35 years old. Priorities change over the years and views of ourselves as well as how others see us change also. Respect becomes very important as you grow older. Thank you again for the apology. I accept. Happy Holidays to you.

 

[Cath!]

You give shit, you're going to have one angry ass bitch on your hands.

Think about it.

Exactement, mon cherie.

 

[Rick DeVille]

Ever notice the apologies go on for longer than the fights?

 

[Moridin187]

Thank you, Moridin and yes, I agree, most of this comes with age. I have no idea how old you are. I am 35 years old. Priorities change over the years and views of ourselves as well as how others see us change also. Respect becomes very important as you grow older. Thank you again for the apology. I accept. Happy Holidays to you.

Well Power, I'm 19 and honestly, if it keeps bothering people, I'll more than likely attempt to get that word out of my speech, but such a thing is Extremely hard for me to do. ( It took me four years to stop swearing once I started doing so frequently). Happy Holidays and many more to you.


And to the Peanut Gallery/Rick DeVille:
Dude, we weren't fighting, so chill.

 

[Angel]

Re: Now that STP is clear on who is and isn't upset with him

am I safe in assuming that when Angel posted "you're hopeless" it wasn't for my posting the silly pic, but rather directed at the thread originator?

I'm going with that unless somebody credible tells me otherwise.

Yes.

 

[cymbidia]

Are *all* the colleges out now?
For how long?



Man...