sexywifegail
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I'm 51 and married. My husband loves watching me with other men as well as 'hearing' about my dates. Just wondering if other women share this interest.
Are there any other women who cuck?
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irishblade
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I think you've come to the right place. 
Joankraig
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Exactly the same with me and it works out really well for the both of us.
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I would love this as well. Alas, I don't think my wife would ever go along with it.
Why is it that there seem to be more guys who like knowing about or watching their wives fuck other guys than women who get anything other than angry about their husbands fucking other women? Over my many years, I've had a couple of married lady friends whose husbands knew about me. According to the wives, their husbands seemed to either simply accept it or get off on it. The wives seemed to get off on knowing that their husbands knew. Yet the women said that if they found out their husbands were fucking other women they'd kill them. What ever happened to what's good for the goose and all that? What makes some men basically enjoy knowing their wives are fucking other men but women seem to be much more "territorial"? Anybody else ever wonder about this?
I have wondered about it, too, not so much that men can get off on their wife having sex with another guy, but rather about the double standard. I know of cases in a marriage where the wife had had affairs with guys where she worked (he wasn't into cucking, not at all) and he forgave her, yet he once had a dalliance, literally a one night stand on the road, which he told her about with remorse, and she divorced him, not forgiveness, nothing.
With cucking, from what little I know, the men aren't interested in going outside at all (if they were, it would be more an open relationship), part of the thrill is their wife is sleeping with other guys while they are monogamous to her I guess.
I don't know for sure why, but I think a lot of it has to do with the nature of how husbands and wives see each other. To the wife who is cucking her husband, it is about having sex with the guy, for sex sake (as she sees it) while her husband is her primary partner/protectors/supporter, whatever (I apologize if that sounds sexist, but from my limited exposure to cuck relationships, or with woman who have cheated, that seems to be the attitude of the women involved, albeit a limited sample) and they tell themselves it doesn't threaten the marriage (plus, obviously, the woman is in control of that, which is always comforting)
Whereas when a man goes outside I think a lot of women see it as a direct threat, that their husband is insulting them by going outside,they feel a direct threat in the comparison and more importantly, a threat to their status as a married woman (and I could be totally full of crap on this, or only seeing a small sample, I make no claims on this as 'fact' , only my assumptions/guesses). My wife tried to explain that to me, about the weight many women still put on being married, about the status of that, as non feminist as it may seem, she was telling me that in the context of our relationship and why transition was so difficult for her (ironically, it had little to do with being i n a 'lesbian' relationship and more to do with loss of status as she saw it,how being "Mrs John Smith" meant so much to a lot of women).....so a woman sees not just the threat of the affair, intimacy she might want, but also potentially someone usurping her status......
and because they don't control it, it is scary........some women who cuck their husbands also are doing this from a power/control thing, domination, and denyng their husband the same right they have is maintaining that unequal status, if she allowed her husband to fuck other women, then what makes what she is doing so special, or reinforce her role as a goddess or whatever? (Obviously, that is not all cuck relationships, this is more the D/s one, which often involves humiliation as well).
To be frankly honest, there are men like that, too, men who cheat on their wives, think nothing of it, but if she did, would be like burn the bitch, no forgiveness, etc (put it this way, the gaffones in the Mob go around with these big crufixes around their necks, proclaim themselves supporters of family values, yet every one of those morons have mistresses, cheat all the time.....but if their wife even looks at another guy a bit too much, hell to pay...), so it isn't exactly a woman only thing.
Just my guesses, take it for what it is worth.
Sundayschild
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I like the fantasy, but I think its because I like my sexual fantasies/literature to have an emotional component. I wouldn't want to do it for real, at least not from the cuck side...
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