westwalesman
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well?
are most people posting on glbt sad lonely and frustrated?
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curiouslez84
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No. I've got a g/f that I'm totally in love with...and she's totally in love with me. We're actually very happy together. Personally, I don't think that's a very fair statement. I think it's too broad...I mean, that's like asking if all blacks play jazz...
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westwalesman said:
?????well?
westwalesman
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well not sad not lonely but frustrated! -and it was an honest question -a lot of unfulfilled yearning on this board
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westwalesman said:
Soo go out and do it
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Only some of the time. However, there is a tendency for people to run to Lit when they feel this way, as it tends to be an excellent source of validation and provides a kind of community that one doesn't usually find elsewhere.
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You've a good point there. Because of the kind of people found in a forum like this, there's a lot of understanding. It's basically an 'all equals' place where people can come to and talk about aspects of their lives that would only earn them prejudicial actions and statements elsewhere.
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etoile -youre probably right -i am projecting -outside of cyberspace approaching gay or bi inclined people is very danerous -on this board youre more likely to gey a sympathetic response
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westwalesman-outside of cyberspace approaching gay or bi inclined people is very danerous [/QUOTE said:
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Touche
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I think I get what he's saying...
Some people can be very touchy indeed about sensitive subjects, especially those that are the focus of said subjects - like homosexuality and bisexuality, for example. You say the wrong thing without meaning to, it's misinterpreted, and POW! You end up in a dumpster somewhere with no toes or fingers or eyeballs or tongue.
If you're lucky...
Some people can be very touchy indeed about sensitive subjects, especially those that are the focus of said subjects - like homosexuality and bisexuality, for example. You say the wrong thing without meaning to, it's misinterpreted, and POW! You end up in a dumpster somewhere with no toes or fingers or eyeballs or tongue.
If you're lucky...
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No
I'm not sad, lonely or frustrated (today anyway). I come here to meet and chat with other people with similar interests.
I'm sure there are some that fit that profile, but they could be found anywhere. Our society can be pretty brutal and many good people get kicked to the curb. I think Lit gives us all a place to relax and let our hair down. In general, it seems to me that most of the folks here are educated and well balanced.
I'm not sad, lonely or frustrated (today anyway). I come here to meet and chat with other people with similar interests.
I'm sure there are some that fit that profile, but they could be found anywhere. Our society can be pretty brutal and many good people get kicked to the curb. I think Lit gives us all a place to relax and let our hair down. In general, it seems to me that most of the folks here are educated and well balanced.
sometimes
Like I really do like my friend's 19 year old daughter. But alas, since I am about twice her age, a LTR relationship with her is not likely at all. Plus her mom is very hot too, but..alas, she is married. And every coworker here I want is married too.
As for my bi feelings. It's tough to go to my friend and say, "I would love to have your wife's most recently worn bra and panties and jeans so I can go out on the town and feel like a woman and maybe have sex with some guy tonight." Actually dicussing my bi feelings with any friend of mine is a bit weird and I don't think I could do it. As well as having sex with any of my male friends. Though if one did come onto me, and tried to seduce me I honestly don't know what I'd do or say (especially if dressed in female attire...)...
But this is a place where I can come out and express my bi curious fantasies without being punched in the mouth or worse. I enjoy discussing these fantasies with anyone and love to hear others thoughts and actually gay/bi experiences.
Guess I like these forums because they are "safe" and people here are definitely more tolerant than I'm sure most in my small rural community.
Joe/Mena
Like I really do like my friend's 19 year old daughter. But alas, since I am about twice her age, a LTR relationship with her is not likely at all. Plus her mom is very hot too, but..alas, she is married. And every coworker here I want is married too.
As for my bi feelings. It's tough to go to my friend and say, "I would love to have your wife's most recently worn bra and panties and jeans so I can go out on the town and feel like a woman and maybe have sex with some guy tonight." Actually dicussing my bi feelings with any friend of mine is a bit weird and I don't think I could do it. As well as having sex with any of my male friends. Though if one did come onto me, and tried to seduce me I honestly don't know what I'd do or say (especially if dressed in female attire...)...
But this is a place where I can come out and express my bi curious fantasies without being punched in the mouth or worse. I enjoy discussing these fantasies with anyone and love to hear others thoughts and actually gay/bi experiences.
Guess I like these forums because they are "safe" and people here are definitely more tolerant than I'm sure most in my small rural community.
Joe/Mena
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can I vote for bored
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Chicklet said:
I think that's normal for every woman. 0_0 I don't really get sad or lonely at that point, but I do get frustrated and bored with everything. I'm not in mood for anything, I'm quiet and sulky, and I'm in a bad mood. I tend to snap at people - even Brianna, and then I'm really depressed and can't even get up the nerve to apologize. She knows I don't mean it, though, so she forgives me. She's so good to me.
LOL That image in my sig changes the words every 30 seconds based on what name I've put in there. I put Lezzie Sandwich, and it just said: "Feel It = Lezzie Sandwich." ROFL
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zekealicious said:
That is very interesting that you said that. When I was single I used to get on chats -- not necessarily for sex, but just any kind of chat. You could always tell the guys who were young (18-early 30's). They would say "hi" in the room just like anybody else. However, if there wasn't an active chat going on with a topic that interested them. Then typically one of their next statements would be "I'm bored".
People of all ages get bored, but I have observed that the older one gets it just isn't mentioned.
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I am happier in a heterosexual relationship right now than I have ever been. Like the above evi1monkey said, I'm just more mature and at ease with my sexuality. Have enjoyed various experiences in the past wih women and men(mostlly women), but have been blessed enough to finally find the perfect partner.
I was attracted to literotica, and especially glbt because of the written, verbal aspect of it. What I can read here is so much sexier than looking at "dirty pictures." And the posts here encourage me to keep exploring my sexuality, and feel free to express things here I am not able to in any other social setting.
I was attracted to literotica, and especially glbt because of the written, verbal aspect of it. What I can read here is so much sexier than looking at "dirty pictures." And the posts here encourage me to keep exploring my sexuality, and feel free to express things here I am not able to in any other social setting.
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....reads title of thread and raises hand
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yeah I'm lonely & frustrated. Sad? No not really.
Like an earlier post I too am attracted to the younger female. But they only want to be friends. A couple have even referred to me as dad.
So out of sexual frustration and loneliness I wandered to the other side. One day I read a gay story on here and surprisingly I got hard. From there my curiosity grew, to the point where I have actually met a couple guys to stroke and suck them.
At this point I'll probably never connect up with another guy, but I'm glad I've experienced it.
I'd take a woman over a guy any day, its just I can't seem to find a woman who likes me more than just a friend.
As for being sad, actually no I'm not. Been keeping pretty busy the last 8 or 9 months, so no time to be sad.
Like an earlier post I too am attracted to the younger female. But they only want to be friends. A couple have even referred to me as dad.
So out of sexual frustration and loneliness I wandered to the other side. One day I read a gay story on here and surprisingly I got hard. From there my curiosity grew, to the point where I have actually met a couple guys to stroke and suck them.
At this point I'll probably never connect up with another guy, but I'm glad I've experienced it.
I'd take a woman over a guy any day, its just I can't seem to find a woman who likes me more than just a friend.
As for being sad, actually no I'm not. Been keeping pretty busy the last 8 or 9 months, so no time to be sad.
