Are men who are heavy a turn off?

[Axeplayer]

I find that everyone talks about BBW, well what about a man who is heavy. Do people find us a turn off and do skinny women as well as overweight women like heavy men.
I am a 38 male and I am 5'11 @ 325 lbs, I am far from sloppy looking and I am very clean, I find that if I go on my webcam and a woman sees that im heavy she doesn't want to chat.
Just curious about this subject.
Axe

PLease send me emails if you want:
Axeplayer00@yahoo.com

 

[Elizabeth]

My husband is 6"7 and 330. I love the way he looks.

 

[estevie]

I happen to like cuddly men!

Keep looking, Axe! I can't be the only one

Good luck!

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[iann666]

I have been both

I was exceptionally fit up to age 33,then put on weightup to age 40 and am now back to 12.5 Stone at age 45 and found different attractions in all three scenarios
Advertise what you are then only genuine replies should be forthcoming
All the Best
Ian

 

[Mistress]

I hate to admit it, but I like skinner if not in shape guys. Yet I have been known to fall for guys who aren't in that catagory, it just depends on how much they warm my heart....

 

[Mensa]

Re: I have been both

12.5 Stone at age 45

Yep! That's the British for you, still in the "stone" age!!

 

[SexyChele]

No offense to any who may be on here, but I am just not attracted to men who are skinny. In shape guys are cool, but I actually prefer my men to probably be what would considered overweight. Gives me more to hang on to.

However, just as in women, there are people who are overweight and look like they don't take care of themselves/don't like themselves. That's unattractive no matter what weight you are. But men (or women) who are overweight but healthy and feel good about who they are, are VERY attractive and sexy!

Keep looking Axeplayer - there's a girl out there just for you.

 

[iann666]

Re: Re: I have been both

Yep! That's the British for you, still in the "stone" age!!

Good one Mensa

 

[Bubblegum *sugarless*]

I agree w/ SexyChele...a heavyset man can be very attractive. It all boils down to how you take care of yourself. Anyone who is sloppy and unclean is very unattractive. Personality and self-confidence goes a long way in attracting the opposite sex.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Re: Re: I have been both

Yep! That's the British for you, still in the "stone" age!!

14 stone (196lbs) and 5'7" so I'm a little on the heavy side now but it's all dormant muscle waiting to leap into action

 

[Willing and Unsure]

its not the fat, or the muscle for me... its the brain and the heart that's behind it... if someone decides they dont want to chat because they find that you are overweight, then they (in my opinon) are rather shallow.. how do they know that you arent a great guy and all taht good stuff? and since they arent taking the time to find out, then they obviously arent worth it


as for pure physical looks... i prefer to see some meat on a man's bones.. the only time i'll say its too much is when its a huge amount of excess fat that could be done without (i.e. huge rolls over the top of the pants, 4 chins, etc)..

 

[Axeplayer]

Thank you all for replying,

Let me clarify one thing, I am not on here looking for somone cause Im heavy I was just trying to get a general idea how people feel, being they always talk about the BBW's and not the men overweight.
I am married to a beautiful woman whom I care about deeply we do like our fun though and enjoy doing things like chatting.
You all wee very kind with your responses and its nice to see there are people who don't judge the way people are shaped.
Thanks and keep em Coming,
Axe

P.S: Whee didyou all get the icons from ?

 

[OUTSIDER]

Once you hit a 100 post's you get to have an Avatar or AV as we call them, if you have something you want to use then you can get someone to shrink it for you and use that.

 

[Rambling Rose]

would you mind elaborating?

14 stone (196lbs) and 5'7" so I'm a little on the heavy side now but it's all dormant muscle waiting to leap into action

perhaps a demonstration is in order, yes? I am very curious about that 'dormant muscle' that is just waiting for action

 

[naudiz]

It's all about hygiene

I've found all sorts of shapes and sizes attractive. Rather, I've found the person within to be attractive, and even if they weren't outwardly attractive at first, they start to be after I associate their looks with their personality, if that makes any sense.

The one big thing that turns me off is lack of proper hygiene. I've got a sensitive nose, and let's just say if someone isn't bathing properly, I may be able to appreciate them, but it'll be at a distance.

Big guys can be pretty cuddly. If he's a nice guy and isn't slovenly, then being big just means there's more of him to love.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Re: would you mind elaborating?

perhaps a demonstration is in order, yes? I am very curious about that 'dormant muscle' that is just waiting for action

Ooooo I can feel something leaping about in my trouser's right now

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Big

I like my men big all around

I have to confess I don't like short men ... I perfer my men to be big all around... Ooooo Lalalalala

I like my man now , he is just right ... he is in good shape and can't help but love the feel of him.

 

[Mistress]

Re: It's all about hygiene

I've found all sorts of shapes and sizes attractive. Rather, I've found the person within to be attractive, and even if they weren't outwardly attractive at first, they start to be after I associate their looks with their personality, if that makes any sense.

Big guys can be pretty cuddly. If he's a nice guy and isn't slovenly, then being big just means there's more of him to love.

DITTO on that thought.

 

[Gilly Bean]

I am not attrached to a guy who weighs less then me. At 180 right now (come on guys, it's all baby, I tell ya!) that gives a fairly decent size. Any smaller then that, and I feel like I might break em!

On the other hand, I am not physically attrached to guys who can be classified as overweight.

I would say being within 20 pounds of a persons ideal weight would be about what I like best for guys.


As to BBW, I don't really see the attraction there, either. I like to see people who are in good health, and physically fit. Hell, I can't even stand looking at myself in the mirror naked, cause I am to big after baby 2. (no, not while preggy, before this one)

 

[Axeplayer]

Hi All,
I am really surprised, I thought that I would get alot of bashing on here, all you people seem to be genuine.
I am very new to this and I have been on other boards where people were just down right nasty. I commend all of you.
Thank you for all the replies.
Axe

Axeplayer00@yahoo.com

 

[ChaoticLil]

i've never looked at weight per se as a sex gauge though i have never been attracted to skinny men (well, up until now that is). My Master is 5'6" and maybe 130lbs soaking wet. i'm 5'7" and 230lbs. i met Him in cyberspace so at the time i didn't even know what He looked like. He rocks my world.

i've been meaning to lose weight for awhile and now i have an incentive. He wants to take me to a sex club and i don't want to embarrass him (though i know i wouldn't anyway). i'm going to kill 2 birds with one stone anyway......i'm going to learn bellydancing and lose it that way.

What a sexy way to lose weight ~*grin*~

 

[LedAstray]

I've always thought weight was far more of an issue for women than it was for men, hence the need for the BBW term. I could be wrong though.

I was always attracted to thin men (even though I was a bit overweight, and moreso now). However, the man I eventually fell deeply in love with and married was heavy -- 6' tall and around 240. It's all in the heart

 

[Paradyce]

Re: It's all about hygiene

I've found all sorts of shapes and sizes attractive. Rather, I've found the person within to be attractive, and even if they weren't outwardly attractive at first, they start to be after I associate their looks with their personality, if that makes any sense.

I couldn't agree with you more!! There's much more to a person than how they appear on the outside. You could be the most gorgeous/handsome person on the planet, and yet within your personality, be the ugliest as well...

 

[Kypartsman]

I am probably 30 pounds over weight <no idea how many rocks that is> LOL
But My present lady friend loves my "Furry Budda Belly"
Shes No twiggy either 40DDs Hey they are real so they have to be made up of something. I Love her extra weight and where it is located
I Figure like me or not thats up to those who tend to judge me without knowing me.
Their Loss cause I am a Hell of a guy extra pounds or not