Appropriate punishments

[Titman69x]

I have an online slave who just decided to stop following rules and went radio silent for 5 days. We play online. She has daily rules and tasks. When she’s focused she’s fantastic when she’s no she’s worthless.

Two questions:
1) what punishments have you given/received in this situation?

2) suggestions on how to keep her focused?

Thanks for the assistance.

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I have made my submissive punish her inner thighs with a ruler. She can then take pictures of the marks. This way you can make sure the color is a good shade of pink to red.

 

[Pinkgleeful]

The worst punishment I ever received was two days long and changed my behavior for probably a month. It was life-altering.

The first night, I had to clamp my nipples while sitting on a remote vibrator, and he controlled it. He edged me until I was basically crying. I wasn't allowed to touch myself. Throughout, I had to do 30 seconds of no noises or movement (while he was buzzing the vibrator), and if I didn't make it, I had to start the time over.

The next morning, I had to put in ben wa balls. I was incapable of thinking about anything other than the ache in my pussy. The longer the balls were in, the harder I had to squeeze to hold them. The harder I squeezed, the more I ached. I had to walk with my nipples clamped again. Edge with a vibrator. It was TORTURE.

At one point, he had me put the clit sucker on my nipples, and I was so horny, I came from nipple play alone. It was... life-altering. My nipples have, for real, not been the same since.

 

[mow707070x]

Hard to believe you only got two replies to this. I assume you no longer are looking for input on this. Let me know if otherwise.

 

[Havanawang]

I have an online slave who just decided to stop following rules and went radio silent for 5 days. We play online. She has daily rules and tasks. When she’s focused she’s fantastic when she’s no she’s worthless.

Two questions:
1) what punishments have you given/received in this situation?

2) suggestions on how to keep her focused?

Thanks for the assistance.

I had to wear a frilly pink nighty under my coat and nothing else and take off my coat in front of the lady clerk at the adult bookstore before paying to go in the arcade I was being train by a man I met on here who had hypnotize me and I liked how he train me but I disappointed him

 

[Samantha47]

I had to wear a frilly pink nighty under my coat and nothing else and take off my coat in front of the lady clerk at the adult bookstore before paying to go in the arcade I was being train by a man I met on here who had hypnotize me and I liked how he train me but I disappointed him

Sounds good to me

 

[kinkychatonly]

Punishments should be punishments. A lot of ‘doms’ make the mistake of setting a so called punishment which is not. i.e nipple clamps or spanking tend to be used as punishments but most subs actually desire/enjoy this. A punishment task should be something they don’t enjoy as it is not designed to be a reward. Always start off by withholding something they want/desire.

 

[Samantha47]

Punishments should be punishments. A lot of ‘doms’ make the mistake of setting a so called punishment which is not. i.e nipple clamps or spanking tend to be used as punishments but most subs actually desire/enjoy this. A punishment task should be something they don’t enjoy as it is not designed to be a reward. Always start off by withholding something they want/desire.

Oh yes please

 

[Titman69x]

Punishments should be punishments. A lot of ‘doms’ make the mistake of setting a so called punishment which is not. i.e nipple clamps or spanking tend to be used as punishments but most subs actually desire/enjoy this. A punishment task should be something they don’t enjoy as it is not designed to be a reward. Always start off by withholding something they want/desire.

I completely agree. Nipple clamps and spankings usually are funishment

 

[kinkychatonly]

Don’t always have to be sexual either. Doing chores but dressed in a certain way, or writing lines I’ve found effective.

Another effective punishment I’ve found particularly with a shy submissive is to make them stand naked in a window for a set period of time.

 

[Samantha47]

Don’t always have to be sexual either. Doing chores but dressed in a certain way, or writing lines I’ve found effective.

Another effective punishment I’ve found particularly with a shy submissive is to make them stand naked in a window for a set period of time.

Oh yes

 

[Titman69x]

I’ve also had them kneel on rice or hold a quarter against the wall with there nose, if it falls time starts over.

 

[Samantha47]

I’ve also had them kneel on rice or hold a quarter against the wall with there nose, if it falls time starts over.

Oh my goodness