Sites like this attract people into alternative sexuality of all kinds or sexual expression and also attracts people who get a kick out of being trolls or of telling others 'that's sick' or 'that shouldn't be allowed' or 'die scum' and the like. I am not sure whether these people are into anything on here, or if they are like the audiences for Rush Limbaugh and the rest of right wing loony villa that need a place to vent and otherwise make a fool of themselves *shrug* On the general board there are right wing trolls saying how gays shouldn't be allowed to marry, how marriage is sacred and between a man and a woman and extol Romney because he would ban same sex marriage, yet they I would assume are oblivious to the fact that he represents the religious right who would intrude on the right of places like this to exist or people to have sex in anything but the missionary position to make babies.....pathetic, but it is what it is. Ask authors, especially on the LW portion of the site, but even in other areas, about the comments they get from this kind of troll, telling them they should die, be put to death, etc, because they don't like a story...I can understand reacting strongly to a story, even commenting that it made you feel ill, that it wasn't erotic or loving, whatever, but death threats?
There are some seriously demented people out there in Limbaugh land, I mean seriously childish and loony tunes, who can't distinguish fact from reality, fiction from truth. But I guess that is part of having an internet and having anonymous sites like this, it gives room for people to share and so forth on almost anything, but it also gives voice to the stupid as well......
It is funny, I sort of understand the emotional reaction when people bring up swinging, or allowing a spouse to have sex with others, or the cuck voyeur kind of thing, some of those stories, especially the ones dealing where spouse turns into this cold, humiliating, uncaring person and so forth, or devastates a spouse by cheating and demeaning them in the process, and I am like some of the other posters I don't think I could easily do it in my own relationships (among which, as tempting as it can be as a fantasy, it is the fear of losing out to 'someone better', it is that I would end up losing someone I loved and the like; not saying that is reality, but emotions/fears are quite strong and real in their own right), but I don't understand attacking others. If people want to swing, do threesomes, whatever, if they are happy and not hurting themselves or others, I am glad for them. If I get upset at the cuck stories and some of the pseudo bd/sm tales that involve it, it is because it comes off as abuse,, and that is my thing, get a bad reaction to it, but I own that. When people start going on about wedding vows and the like, they seem to think that those vows mean something to anyone but the people involved and their God or deity (if that was even invoked),they like the anti same sex marriage crowd somehow feel what others do in their marriage somehow affects them or cheapens their marriage, which is weird. Vows are between the two people, the words are between them, and if they choose to modify the terms, do things their own way, if God is gonna get angry (which I doubt, giving God is supposed to be loving), it would be with the people, not anyone else, and he isn't going to throw a team of locusts at the neighborhood evangelicals if a same sex couple gets married that lives on their street....
There are some seriously demented people out there in Limbaugh land, I mean seriously childish and loony tunes, who can't distinguish fact from reality, fiction from truth. But I guess that is part of having an internet and having anonymous sites like this, it gives room for people to share and so forth on almost anything, but it also gives voice to the stupid as well......
It is funny, I sort of understand the emotional reaction when people bring up swinging, or allowing a spouse to have sex with others, or the cuck voyeur kind of thing, some of those stories, especially the ones dealing where spouse turns into this cold, humiliating, uncaring person and so forth, or devastates a spouse by cheating and demeaning them in the process, and I am like some of the other posters I don't think I could easily do it in my own relationships (among which, as tempting as it can be as a fantasy, it is the fear of losing out to 'someone better', it is that I would end up losing someone I loved and the like; not saying that is reality, but emotions/fears are quite strong and real in their own right), but I don't understand attacking others. If people want to swing, do threesomes, whatever, if they are happy and not hurting themselves or others, I am glad for them. If I get upset at the cuck stories and some of the pseudo bd/sm tales that involve it, it is because it comes off as abuse,, and that is my thing, get a bad reaction to it, but I own that. When people start going on about wedding vows and the like, they seem to think that those vows mean something to anyone but the people involved and their God or deity (if that was even invoked),they like the anti same sex marriage crowd somehow feel what others do in their marriage somehow affects them or cheapens their marriage, which is weird. Vows are between the two people, the words are between them, and if they choose to modify the terms, do things their own way, if God is gonna get angry (which I doubt, giving God is supposed to be loving), it would be with the people, not anyone else, and he isn't going to throw a team of locusts at the neighborhood evangelicals if a same sex couple gets married that lives on their street....