Anyone interested in chatting about cuckold?

[Tommelon]

Looking for advices to start my own cuckold journey.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

My husband accidentally became a cuckold by setting me up with a very dominant black guy, to slut me up. I became extremely infatuated with the Dom and have done all sorts of perverted sex with him (at least in my mind), and hubby watches and masturbates. Of course I don't have sex with hubby anymore. You sure you want that?

 

[babygirl4u1966]

What my husband foolishly did is suggest that we meet at a bar, me dressed hot and he would charm and seduce me, and we'd go off to a hotel and have sex. But he invited the black guy (Jerome) to hit on me, and my husband didn't show up till much later.

You may want to try something like that. Where your wife meets this guy "by accident" after she's had a few drinks and hopefully things progress if that's what you really want.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

I just want her to be happy.

And you want to masturbate to her being used

 

[MichiganBiker27]

What my husband foolishly did is suggest that we meet at a bar, me dressed hot and he would charm and seduce me, and we'd go off to a hotel and have sex. But he invited the black guy (Jerome) to hit on me, and my husband didn't show up till much later.

You may want to try something like that. Where your wife meets this guy "by accident" after she's had a few drinks and hopefully things progress if that's what you really want.

Why do you say "foolishly"?

 

[babygirl4u1966]

Why do you say "foolishly"?

His intention was to slut me up so he could have kinky sex with me. But it backfired and I have kinky sex with others. He's a cuckold and watches. Although he does get some once in a while.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

My (43F) and husband (45M) have been discussing this idea and I am looking for some advice or perspectives from others who have been in the lifestyle. I don’t know where to start so excuse my ignorance, but would love to chat with anyone to gain a better perspective and thoughts on how best to approach something like this.

Thank you in advance!

What would you like to know?

 

[PapaRomantic]

So much. Like what are ground rules to put in place? How would I even approach another guy about the possibility? I’d almost be afraid of enjoying it too much.

I don’t know, I’m just starting to try to learn about it all

Why do it if you didn't enjoy it a lot?

If he truly wants you to do this, and you are certain he does, then I promise it will make him even more excited knowing that you are loving it. And if he's like many of the guys here that are cuckolds, when it's time for reclaiming sex with your husband, he's going to fuck you even more excitedly than before. And if you tell him you're thinking of your new lover while he's reclaiming you...you'd better hope his blood pressure can handle the excitement!

As far as who, that's one of the items that couples need to discuss. Many on here prefer their wives to be with friend or other people they know, so they know their wife will be safer. Others have a hard rule about the wife sleeping with anyone from his side of the relationship - especially his friends or other family members. You just have to discuss what works for you. As for finding other men, I don't think there are too many hotwives who have an issue finding men to fuck!

 

[PapaRomantic]

So I do have a guy in mind but how would I even approach that conversation with him?

i think that's up to you and your comfort zone. Again, more than likely if you approach a guy and start flirting with him, you'll know right away if he wants to pursue something or not. Then it has to progress on whatever level you think best. Some guys won't care that you are married, some guys will want guarantees that your husband is ok with this. You won't know until you approach him. It's not too hard for us guys to see things (often that aren't even there!) that let us start thinking you like us!

 

[PapaRomantic]

Thank you! Would you mind if I DM you to talk through this a bit more? Dont need to take over this whole thread

I have already sent you a message.

 

[Smallblockcock]

Nic advice

I have already sent you a message.

Nice

 

[Mike130]

So I do have a guy in mind but how would I even approach that conversation with him?

As a guy, I’m sometimes clueless when a woman is hitting on me. I was at a party after work, and the secretary for our department, who was in her early 20’s, and always very friendly was chatting with me. She was beautiful but married so I never considered a sexual encounter. Anyways, after a few drinks she said “Too bad you’re not married, we could have an affair”. I kinda laughed it off and about a week later she asked me to help her put some heavy fireplace items in her car, which I did, still clueless. Then, as a reward, she made some brownies and brought them to my condo. One thing led to another and led to some great fucking.

Long story short, she divorced her husband and we’ve been married over 30 years. Not really a swinging story, we haven’t done that IRL, but talk about having her fuck another guy all the time, gets us both hot. This is more to illustrate how clueless we men can be sometimes, so you may have to go hard when you approach that stranger.

 

[write_or_wrong]

A lot of the advice I would give has already been suggested above. I think the most important factor is communication. There can be many unintended consequences when you go down that road. Make sure both of you agree on hard limits, and keep the conversations open and honest as you proceed.