Anyone else?

Anyone else mostly happily married? Like your life is good- have good jobs, don’t fight, all appears well, but there’s just nothing there. No spark. No passion. Literally like living with a roommate that you share a bed with? You try and try to initiate things, go on dates, do special things for them hoping they’ll return it or there will be a spark or passion, yet nothing happens. What do you do? Stay? Leave? Stay and just find someone on the side to fulfill those needs?

I can’t be the only one?!?
Yes, that’s true for me too! PM me sometime.
 
Anyone else mostly happily married? Like your life is good- have good jobs, don’t fight, all appears well, but there’s just nothing there. No spark. No passion. Literally like living with a roommate that you share a bed with? You try and try to initiate things, go on dates, do special things for them hoping they’ll return it or there will be a spark or passion, yet nothing happens. What do you do? Stay? Leave? Stay and just find someone on the side to fulfill those needs?

I can’t be the only one?!?
You’re definitely not the only one.
 
I am sure the problem wasnt you being unattractive. Probably more so some underlying issue he had. But I am sorry you had to go through the divorce, I can imagine that wasnt fun
Change is never fun but I’m happy, free to be myself, and have the opportunity to find someone who will happily give me what I need.
 
Didn’t get anything other than to not let people in 🤣🤣🤣 but you live and you learn.
I think there's a balance between letting people in and managing your own expectations. If you figure out that balance, please let me know. :)
 
Only tears I like are the ones caused by a good throat fucking. Makeup running down my face while I’m being a good girl.
Well then... I think you need to write more. 😁 Awkwardly waiting for the "excitement" to fade before standing up from my desk at work. 🤣
 
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If you're into a little bit of non-consent / loss of control, I've got two stories linked in my signature that may prove inspirational. I have some audio links to me narrating them as well. If anyone is interested, I can pm links.
 
I need inspiration to write and last time I had that I let myself feel things I should so it’s just a bad bad thing lol
Can definitely understand that. But you can write and never share it. I had blog for some low points in my life. Or even use other media as forms of inspiration
 
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