Anyone else having sex with a married person...?

[Massive_Ass69]

I don’t have anyone in my life to talk to about this predicament I have found myself in. Over the past 2 years I have developed a friendship with a guy at my former job. He was married and we always kept it professional, talked about my son, my (now) ex, his kids, our families, work, food, other random things, etc.... neither of us crossed any lines nor did I get a feeling he had any ulterior motives. When he confided in me about the issues that he had with his wife, I offered limited but friendly advice, there were even times that I took her position and stood up for her in some cases. As he began to tell me more about their issues, I was neutral in any advice I would offer upon request but as it got worse, I kind of backed off because I didn’t think that he should be taking advice from me because I didn’t have both sides of the story and I have never been married so anything I said really was hypothetical. He ended up moving out and prepared to separate for a divorce.

A few months ago I left the job we both worked at but we maintained a friendship. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Not just any sex, mind blowing amazing sex. He can eat me out forever, pussy and ass. He enjoys anal sex as much as I do (a lot). I came with him every time except once which is a stark difference from my ex who I was with for 5 years and still had sex with for 2 years after and only came maybe twice (I know that is horrible but I loved him and tried to work with him).

I knew his separation was new and he could reconcile with his wife and I told him this and made it clear that I want the best for him and his family and do what he needed to do. He was adamant that wouldn’t happen but I didn’t have my heart set on anything but amazing sex.

Sure enough, she cries to him about not really wanting a divorce and I encourage him to try for his family. I expected this and the only thing that was really upsetting was that we would have to stop hooking up. The problem is that neither of us want to or made any attempt to try to stop. Initially we both felt kinda bad but now, no guilt whatsoever. We actually actively find ways to meet. The sex is like no sex I’ve ever had. He makes me cum from penetration, oral, fingers, anal.... he makes me squirt constantly, which up until him I’ve only done once. I get wet just sucking his dick.

I am not looking for judgement or advise really, I guess I am trying to see if there is anyone else in my situation....

 

[screwher]

My wife’s first sexual tryst with another man was married. This was years ago, before entering our hotwife lifestyle. She was working a coffee shop. He was a regular. She soon started becoming sexually attracted to him. He ended up taking her to a hotel and he fucked her! I found out right away. It destroyed me and it almost ruined us. There wasn’t a second meet up. He disappear from our lives. Soon after though her tryst started to arouse me. I secretly wanted her to do it again. When she did years later, it opened up up our relationship to include other men. She doesn’t speak of her infidelity. Even though I now wish she would. Though it arouses me she knows it originally hurt me.

Now the ones having sex with a married person in our lives are my hotwife’s lovers.

 

[twister947]

She told me 8 years ago she was going to get a divorce. We became lovers, and still are. At 63, she's all woman; the rest were just girls. She's still married, and I'm okay with that.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I've had sex with at least 5 married women. Some were separated, some
were in open relationships, but all were frustrated at home and very horny.
I've had women take me to lunch and tell me their husband hasn't touched her ass
in years, and she needs my help.
Having sex with someone new after years of frustration can be excellent sex.
There's just so much pent up frustration, a lot of catching up to do.

It can get complicated, and old relationships will either change or
breakup altogether. But if the old relationship was unsatisfying anyway,
it needs to change or end.
One affair went on for years before she finally decided to leave her husband forever.

 

[Islander55]

I have had sex with 3 married men. One was a one time hookup, One was a 3 month fling but he had a sailboat and took me sailing so that was excusable. The last was a 10 year affair but not primarily sexual. The guy in the long term affair was older and the marriage was in name only. She was seldom around. It is possible that there may have been a hookup in my younger days where the guy lied to me. Hard to imagine but I hear it does happen sometimes.

 

[Nyquietman]

I think Married with married is best. Both understand you're going home

 

[Loveitdady]

I don’t have anyone in my life to talk to about this predicament I have found myself in. Over the past 2 years I have developed a friendship with a guy at my former job. He was married and we always kept it professional, talked about my son, my (now) ex, his kids, our families, work, food, other random things, etc.... neither of us crossed any lines nor did I get a feeling he had any ulterior motives. When he confided in me about the issues that he had with his wife, I offered limited but friendly advice, there were even times that I took her position and stood up for her in some cases. As he began to tell me more about their issues, I was neutral in any advice I would offer upon request but as it got worse, I kind of backed off because I didn’t think that he should be taking advice from me because I didn’t have both sides of the story and I have never been married so anything I said really was hypothetical. He ended up moving out and prepared to separate for a divorce.

A few months ago I left the job we both worked at but we maintained a friendship. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Not just any sex, mind blowing amazing sex. He can eat me out forever, pussy and ass. He enjoys anal sex as much as I do (a lot). I came with him every time except once which is a stark difference from my ex who I was with for 5 years and still had sex with for 2 years after and only came maybe twice (I know that is horrible but I loved him and tried to work with him).

I knew his separation was new and he could reconcile with his wife and I told him this and made it clear that I want the best for him and his family and do what he needed to do. He was adamant that wouldn’t happen but I didn’t have my heart set on anything but amazing sex.

Sure enough, she cries to him about not really wanting a divorce and I encourage him to try for his family. I expected this and the only thing that was really upsetting was that we would have to stop hooking up. The problem is that neither of us want to or made any attempt to try to stop. Initially we both felt kinda bad but now, no guilt whatsoever. We actually actively find ways to meet. The sex is like no sex I’ve ever had. He makes me cum from penetration, oral, fingers, anal.... he makes me squirt constantly, which up until him I’ve only done once. I get wet just sucking his dick.

I am not looking for judgement or advise really, I guess I am trying to see if there is anyone else in my situation....

Baby I have been there....and continued for over twenty years with the Lady..only reason we stopped was I moved from Louisiana to Georgia...have had phone sex with her since but not the same....Good Luck

 

[Cindy69love]

I've been with at least 6 married men. I love it. But then again I'm married also.....lol.

 

[Sassyunicorn]

I've been with a lot of married women, both while single and married myself; at least 7. Some were one time flings, others were lasting affairs of different lengths. The husbands knew with two of them. To be honest, I'm kinda hooked on married women. It's a kink that turns me on so much that being with a single woman doesn't really do much for me, anymore.

 

[archiegerard]

In my mid 20s, I was sleeping with a married woman, and it was hands down the best sex I've ever had. She hadn't had sex with her husband in months, and they were separated and one their way to a divorce. I assumed we were just having fun and that even after their divorce was finalized that she wouldn't want to jump right into a relationship, but I was wrong. Less than two weeks after she signed the papers, she asked me why I never take her out and we only hang out and have sex. I flat out told her I wasn't looking to date anyone, and that was the end of it.

Ten years late, and I still jerk off to the memories from a few of our nights together.

 

[Giveitaday]

I've been with several married women, enough that I have gotten a bit of a reputation, although those days are long in the past.

 

[IsItBad]

good for you

I don’t have anyone in my life to talk to about this predicament I have found myself in. Over the past 2 years I have developed a friendship with a guy at my former job. He was married and we always kept it professional, talked about my son, my (now) ex, his kids, our families, work, food, other random things, etc.... neither of us crossed any lines nor did I get a feeling he had any ulterior motives. When he confided in me about the issues that he had with his wife, I offered limited but friendly advice, there were even times that I took her position and stood up for her in some cases. As he began to tell me more about their issues, I was neutral in any advice I would offer upon request but as it got worse, I kind of backed off because I didn’t think that he should be taking advice from me because I didn’t have both sides of the story and I have never been married so anything I said really was hypothetical. He ended up moving out and prepared to separate for a divorce.

A few months ago I left the job we both worked at but we maintained a friendship. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Not just any sex, mind blowing amazing sex. He can eat me out forever, pussy and ass. He enjoys anal sex as much as I do (a lot). I came with him every time except once which is a stark difference from my ex who I was with for 5 years and still had sex with for 2 years after and only came maybe twice (I know that is horrible but I loved him and tried to work with him).

I knew his separation was new and he could reconcile with his wife and I told him this and made it clear that I want the best for him and his family and do what he needed to do. He was adamant that wouldn’t happen but I didn’t have my heart set on anything but amazing sex.

Sure enough, she cries to him about not really wanting a divorce and I encourage him to try for his family. I expected this and the only thing that was really upsetting was that we would have to stop hooking up. The problem is that neither of us want to or made any attempt to try to stop. Initially we both felt kinda bad but now, no guilt whatsoever. We actually actively find ways to meet. The sex is like no sex I’ve ever had. He makes me cum from penetration, oral, fingers, anal.... he makes me squirt constantly, which up until him I’ve only done once. I get wet just sucking his dick.

I am not looking for judgement or advise really, I guess I am trying to see if there is anyone else in my situation....

i say don't overthink it.......let it be what it is....and enjoy it however long it lasts......in my entire (fairly old) life....i have been with 2 lovers with whom we shared an intense, inexplainable, orgasmic sense of chemistry.....one of them i was really not even that physically attracted to.....but....she could kiss like no one ever before....and she just rocked my whole world in every way sexually.....the other ....well, she should have been the love of my life.....i was enthralled with her from the first second ......

so....enjoy it.....languish in it.....revel in it.....and let it be what it can be

xoxoo

 

[HoneyBrunette]

I'm having sex with my married colleague. He is married and I have a long term partner. Our colleagues dont know. Neither do our partners. It is working at the moment... but we arent kidding ourselves- this is going to end at some point. We have already agreed how we will behave when it does.

The trick is keeping it going without being found out...

 

[Marriedvet]

I'm having sex with my married colleague. He is married and I have a long term partner. Our colleagues dont know. Neither do our partners. It is working at the moment... but we arent kidding ourselves- this is going to end at some point. We have already agreed how we will behave when it does.

The trick is keeping it going without being found out...

Enjoy it as much and as long as you can

 

[KareemWong]

I've been with several married women, enough that I have gotten a bit of a reputation, although those days are long in the past.

Yes, I know that!
I understand you perfectly, there was also a similar story.

 

[Rockymtnman]

Much preferred married. Happily married if I can find it. I know having an affair and being happily married seems oxymoronic but it is quite possible. Keeps any real drama from fucking up your life as you both have a lot to lose.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

I don’t have anyone in my life to talk to about this predicament I have found myself in. Over the past 2 years I have developed a friendship with a guy at my former job. He was married and we always kept it professional, talked about my son, my (now) ex, his kids, our families, work, food, other random things, etc.... neither of us crossed any lines nor did I get a feeling he had any ulterior motives. When he confided in me about the issues that he had with his wife, I offered limited but friendly advice, there were even times that I took her position and stood up for her in some cases. As he began to tell me more about their issues, I was neutral in any advice I would offer upon request but as it got worse, I kind of backed off because I didn’t think that he should be taking advice from me because I didn’t have both sides of the story and I have never been married so anything I said really was hypothetical. He ended up moving out and prepared to separate for a divorce.

A few months ago I left the job we both worked at but we maintained a friendship. Long story short, we ended up having sex. Not just any sex, mind blowing amazing sex. He can eat me out forever, pussy and ass. He enjoys anal sex as much as I do (a lot). I came with him every time except once which is a stark difference from my ex who I was with for 5 years and still had sex with for 2 years after and only came maybe twice (I know that is horrible but I loved him and tried to work with him).

I knew his separation was new and he could reconcile with his wife and I told him this and made it clear that I want the best for him and his family and do what he needed to do. He was adamant that wouldn’t happen but I didn’t have my heart set on anything but amazing sex.

Sure enough, she cries to him about not really wanting a divorce and I encourage him to try for his family. I expected this and the only thing that was really upsetting was that we would have to stop hooking up. The problem is that neither of us want to or made any attempt to try to stop. Initially we both felt kinda bad but now, no guilt whatsoever. We actually actively find ways to meet. The sex is like no sex I’ve ever had. He makes me cum from penetration, oral, fingers, anal.... he makes me squirt constantly, which up until him I’ve only done once. I get wet just sucking his dick.

I am not looking for judgement or advise really, I guess I am trying to see if there is anyone else in my situation....

not in your situation NOW--, but I have been more than a couple times.

 

[PolyMale87]

I’ve had sex with 4 married women! All polyamorous people whose spouses were supportive. I’ve met two their spouses and we always had/have wonderful times hanging out together! It seems so normal and natural to me that I forget it’s *not* the norm at all. Monogamy seems stressful as hell And so does cheating. But who am I kidding, if I had found myself living a monogamous life there’s no way in hell I’d be able to resist the allure of an affair.

 

[Ashesh9]

adulterous straying thoughts....now corrected

my 86 yr old Ma in law's caregiver is a sweet lady with hot ,muscled glutes...she is very sweet to me [ she is 33, i am 63] and makes coffee and breakfast for me without being asked....but when i swatted and fondled her hard muscular bunz of steel she tearfully begged me to cease and desist and i immediately did so!!!!she's married with daughters but stays at our place becoz of travel restrictions during pandemic.

 

[LisaVegas]

I prefer the men clients photographers artist I pose for to be married. They know what they want and are ready at go to get it.

 

[LLCox]

yessss... some of the best sex evah. The ones working in retail are some horny honeys.

 

[cqiam]

I think Married with married is best. Both understand you're going home

Agree with this, mostly. If one side is expecting the other to leave, the chances are slim that is going to work out. I know of one couple for whom it did, but so very many for whom it did not.

There are lots of situations where having sex with a married person will work out well, but none of them I recall ever started with "We talked nicely then had mind-blowing sex so they left their spouse for me..."

Enjoy the sex.

 

[conquen]

Does my wife count?

 

[NCTruth]

Does my wife count?

I was going to ask the same question lol

 

[mijayoo]

Only if I have permission from the spouse and I mean in a face to face conversation