dragon_gurl
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cremebrulee said:Sounds to me as though you need to find a good therapist. The drugs only treat the symptoms, but won't make the triggers or causes go away (or the memories or the past...). My best luck was with a fantastic therapist who was open to listening listening listening and pulling things out of me I rarely shared and then calling me when I was perpetuating my own issues. Therapists like this are hard to find, but worth looking for. Instead of seeing the psychiatrist, maybe try a combo with a psychologist for a while before going back? Just a thought, it sure made a HUGE difference here.
My best to you
~Creme
I agree.... However..Most people mention trying a drug for three weeks... In three weeks you will not feel the "real" effects of a drug, with any of meds that play with the chemicals in the brain. the results after 3 weeks will be much different then the effects in 2-3 months. all of these drugs are set up for long term use. Popping on and off them is dangerous, to both physical and mental health. At 3 weeks you are barely starting to adjust to the drugs, Whether it is lexapro, wellibutran, zoloft, et cetera..
Now on to the next issue, If a person has issues, then they need to deal with them. Not dealing with them only leads to perpetualting the cycle. Meds will help, but without good phsyco-therapy they are only masking the issues.
Third, i can see you really love and care for your wife, but you should not tell her "i don't want you on meds" partiacularly if she needs them. Let her make her own choices about her therapy, support encourage, But let her decide. it is afterall her path to recovery.