Anybody else's spouse check up on them here?

[Rubyfruit]

I'm fucking pissed as hell right now.

I am sick of the fucking censorship.

 

[Mellon Collie]

I have no idea what you're talking about Ruby but feel free to vent, I'll listen.

 

[Wiggles]

No, but he tries to look over my shoulder when I'm typing. That's when I do the sneaky behind the chair butt grab.

That sucks that he doesn't trust you.

 

[Wizard]

Never........................Couldn't care less what I am doing........

 

[Azwed]

my gf knows that I post on a board but she never asks which one. I talk about you all to her sometimes so she does kind of know what goes on her. As far as I know she does not come here.

 

[MissTaken]

Is your spouse checking up or full of curiousity? Perhaps, he would want to come on board?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I tell mine about the conversations on the boards so he knows what's going on. I don't know if he has been in any way????

*Hi Snukums, what's for dinner*

 

[Guest]

 

[KillerMuffin]

Ouch. Sounds like a painful trust issue.

Is he checking up or is he just interested in what you're doing? From the sounds of things you two had this sort of thing nicely worked out and a communication thing going on that I'm pea green with jealousy over.

The Stud comes here and reads things over once in a while. To him it's checking up, not because he thinks I'm deliberately trying to cheat but because he thinks everyone here is a whackjob trying to hunt me down to rape me. He's heard about how unsafe the 'Net is and he's afraid that someone will hurt me. I just request that he not post under my nickname if he ever feels the need to post something.

So far he hasn't been very complimentary beyond a respect for PC re: WriterDom's gun thread. I heard a four hour rant regarding STG's opinions on the issue. It was painful. The phrase "bowling pins" still makes me cringe.

 

[Vinny]

Same here

Everytime I get on this thing all I hear is who am I talking about and do you stroke your dick on the computer. I quickly remind her that if I stroke my dick ON the computer it would break because it is a laptop and I weigh 240 pounds.

 

[bombast]

Fortunately, I'm new enough that I haven't yet gotten caught up in anything here yet ... which means my spouse has not yet had the cause to question the amount of time I am at my computer. Plus, I work at home. Plus, I am not subscribed to many threads, etc. However, the more I dig into the threads and conversations, the more people PM me, the more, in short, I get into this, the more I can see myself starting to spend more and more time here. And hell, I live in the best place in the world, with plenty to do away from the computer. So why am I here? What am I missing in my life that I want to come here to fulfill it? What indeed. So far, so much fun. Even though I've come across some ragingly bitter threads (what's up with Blushing Rose and Modest Mouse?) I know when I want to be a voyeur, and when I want to be noticed.

So, in answer to that question way up there, no, she does not check up on me...yet. And she may never.

 

[Rubyfruit]

It's not about the flirting thing. Frankly, I didn't even know he did it until he got mad at the post I made last night about our sex life being in a lull right now.

I don't see anything wrong with what I posted. Every married couple I know goes through ups and downs regarding sex. We have before and I'm sure we will again. I also don't think anything wrong about posting it here. Maybe if he were a regular poster it could have embarassed him, but nobody here knows him.

I'm just fucking fuming that he's spying on me.

 

[lovetoread]

*Raises hand*

My soon to be ex spouse,who believes I am warped, does.

 

[Cath!]

Mine used to...

Now he realizes that there is really nothing going on, and he is ok with me being here...he even checks out the posts that I am laughing at...

But usually, he doesn't care cause he has his own harem on yahoo chat

 

[lillend]

My boyfriend is a member here, but he has never posted. He found this place for me. We had both been looking for erotic stories. A couple weeks later I found the Bulletin Boards. As soon as I told him about it he knew I'd get into it. He is the one that made my AV for me. Anyhow....I'm rambling. When ever he gets bored he comes and reads my posts. Sometimes I tell him to go read certain threads that I think may interest him. I do not see it as him spying on me though. I tell him everything, I have no secrets from him. He comes and reads my posts out of curiousity, nothing more. He even asked me if it bothered me, but it doesn't.

 

[carrie-on]

No,When I post something,I usually show it to him anyway. We have a lot of trust between us.

 

[Guest]

Ok, so let me get this straight. Your husband lets you fuck other people but he gets pissed when you make a post about your sex life? Yeah, messages on a porn board are the least of your marital problems.

 

[thumbs2_ca]

raises hand also

I too suffer the woes of having an internet cop keeping tabs on me.

 

[estevie]

If he could spell Literotica, I would be in a world of shit!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

If he could spell Literotica, I would be in a world of shit!

He dosn't have to know how to spell it, just have to check your computor for the history folders, cache files, cookie content or maybe you emaill

 

[Siren]

I think what it is Rubies, is this..........

 

[estevie]

He dosn't have to know how to spell it, just have to check your computor for the history folders, cache files, cookie content or maybe you emaill

Sweetie, I cover my tracks...I have no history, no cache, no cookies and nothing of importance goes to my aol mail. He knows I come here to the board, he has no idea about Southern...thats the way I'd like to keep it.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Thanks Siren. You're probably right. I tend to say what's on my mind. I guess I need to work on that.

 

[Purple Haze]

The Lit board use to be a secret little thing for me, a fun little hide out to ogle and grope the fine sexually-liberated women that dwell here, and after a while I started filling her in on the goings-on at this bulletin board I've been frequently. I got a lot rolling of the eyes, and looks of confused empathy. She'd rather I not fuck around on the internet while I'm at work (I own my own business and post from the office) and could care less about these cyber people I bring up now and then. I've even told her about Literotica and the dirty stories, and the goofy people, and she should check it out, and on and on, but she really has no interest whatsoever in the whole thing. I don't think she minds that I've made friends here, as a matter of fact I was playing music by Sparky Kronkite one afternoon and when she asked who it was, I told her. She said, "What the fuck is a Sparky Kronkite?" LMAO!

 

[MidnightAngel]

Sweetie, I cover my tracks...I have no history, no cache, no cookies and nothing of importance goes to my aol mail.

I do the same thing, estevie. There are even programs that will do a "military" wipe of your free space after deleting so that nothing can be "un-deleted".

Oops, Sorry......the 'computer geek' is rambling again......