Any tips for a bi-curious guy about sex with a gay guy?

[stillcurious2]

For your consideration:

A middle-aged, married, bi-curious guy has finally stumbled into a situation where he can put aside his concerns and play with a gay guy whom he finds fascinating and exciting.

What advice would those of you with M2M experience have on being a good lover?

Things will start out slowly: hands touching hands and later caressing other parts, lots of kissing and cuddling, building to more overtly sexual behavior.

What does a guy who hasn't given a blow job, etc. need to know? How could he give really wonderful physical pleasure to someone who's versatile, oral and more?

 

[BobbyClark]

All I can say is go for it. As far as oral is concerned watch the teeth and just do what you like done to you. Don't forget to pay attention to the balls. Usually a lot of caressing of body parts is good. If he likes it pay attention to his nipples. I say do whatever feels good and right at the time.

 

[stillcurious2]

Thanks for the advice. And the encouragement.

All -- PMs are also welcome, if a public post is too public.

 

[BobbyClark]

PM sent

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

Please let us no how it goes. I'm still a bi-virgin myself.

 

[woman_inside]

-Don't worry too much about being inexperienced. Chances are your partner is turned on by the idea of showing you the ropes.

-Use plenty of lube.

-Depending on the exact shape of his penis (in which direction it's bent) some positions may give you better prostate stimulation than others when he fucks you. You might want to read up a little on it.

 

[Stella_Omega]

It doesn't have to be buttsex.

Lots and lots of gay men don't care about it-- they like getting both cocks into one hand or one hand from each guy, and fucking up against each other. Lube is good for that, too!

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

....when he fucks you.

*whew*

 

[woman_inside]

It doesn't have to be buttsex.

Lots and lots of gay men don't care about it-- they like getting both cocks into one hand or one hand from each guy, and fucking up against each other. Lube is good for that, too!

Yeah, but it's natural to be curious about it if you're interested in men. I don't know about the OP, but for me it was anal sex what felt like losing my gay virginity.

 

[TJcurious]

"Do unto others what you want others to do unto you"!! Don't rush anything, have fun, and enjoy!! Only do what you're comfortable doing....there will be other opportunities.
I'm curious 2...... as to what's in those nice nylon panties!!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yeah, but it's natural to be curious about it if you're interested in men. I don't know about the OP, but for me it was anal sex what felt like losing my gay virginity.

Oh, I totally understand that.

I think everyone deserves to know that there are other ways to have sex, don't you? Then they can choose what they like.

 

[Bbb13]

Oh, I totally understand that.

I think everyone deserves to know that there are other ways to have sex, don't you? Then they can choose what they like.

Now I'm hard

 

[stillcurious2]

@all -- Thanks for the all the kind suggestions. I truly value them.
Any more? Our meeting isn't until late tonight, and I wouldn't be surprised to find out that others are interested in the topic.
I'm really most interested in avoiding newbie mistakes and doing well in our playing. I'd really like to curl his toes, so to speak, but it's uncharted territory for me.

@MrSneakyinPA -- If you're wanting details, I'm afraid you'll be disappointed, but I will report back on a high level.

@TJcurious -- I'm flattered, but can nothing be left to the imagination?

 

[C2W]

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take the time to know your own body first,
then take and use those things you found pleasurable on you
and use them on him...

 

[Stella_Omega]

Don't worry about curling anyone's toes, big guy-- it's your first time!

Be experimental, keep your sense of humor, stay at ease, if something cocks up-- pun intended-- let it be, giggle over it and try again. Your performance is not the issue you're not applying for a job anyways.

If anything, maybe HE wants to rock YOUR world-- not a bad point to start. You're the virgin, he gets to be the Big Bad Wolf.