Any swingers out there?

[mansome]

Who enjoy bisexual experiences? I've been a member of swinglifestyle.com for a couple of years or so and have met many people in the lifestyle who enjoy bi play....Do you and your significant other play in the lifestyle?

Use this as a forum to discuss....

J.R.

 

[gingermango]

Yes, and we have a profile on SLS too (as well as on a couple other sites). It's a great way to meet people for fun. We have a "date" with another like-minded couple for Friday night in fact.

 

[mansome]

ahhhh.... nice... hope all goes well... what's your sls name?

 

[elizabeth22673]

Who enjoy bisexual experiences? I've been a member of swinglifestyle.com for a couple of years or so and have met many people in the lifestyle who enjoy bi play....Do you and your significant other play in the lifestyle?

Use this as a forum to discuss....

J.R.

Hey JR! Glad you posted this. Husband and I got into swinging about a year ago (or a bit less) and I love it
Will post more of my thoughts later gator.
Liz

 

[tribbles]

We found www.nasca.com to have great info on where parties are.

It is the easiest way to meet real swingers for us.


As for biplay...most clubs frown on it if it's males and love it if it's females.

That's just the way it is.

 

[Ashleigh_C]

Yep. I actually heard about lit from someone on SLS.

 

[mansome]

We found www.nasca.com to have great info on where parties are.

It is the easiest way to meet real swingers for us.


As for biplay...most clubs frown on it if it's males and love it if it's females.

That's just the way it is.

OHHH..... I KNOW CLUBS FROWN ON IT... I'VE BEEN TO TWO... I'M MORE INTO HOTEL TAKE-OVER PARTIES, HOUSE PARTIES, & PRIVATE MEETINGS......

 

[mansome]

Hey JR! Glad you posted this. Husband and I got into swinging about a year ago (or a bit less) and I love it
Will post more of my thoughts later gator.
Liz

love to here more.... I know I've been having an awesome time meeting couples......

 

[elizabeth22673]

love to here more.... I know I've been having an awesome time meeting couples......

i have to. i love the social aspect of it and have met some really awesome people. we've had really good luck with our swing club because the people that run it keep the not so nice peeps out.

how long have you been doing it?

 

[mansome]

i have to. i love the social aspect of it and have met some really awesome people. we've had really good luck with our swing club because the people that run it keep the not so nice peeps out.

how long have you been doing it?

over 2 years... actually me and another lit member met in New Orleans before the hurricane & attended a club down there (Colettes).. and I was hooked... I've been to a few SLS sponsored events... and met couples out privately.... been about 6 weeks since I've played though....

 

[elizabeth22673]

over 2 years... actually me and another lit member met in New Orleans before the hurricane & attended a club down there (Colettes).. and I was hooked... I've been to a few SLS sponsored events... and met couples out privately.... been about 6 weeks since I've played though....

yea i haven't played in a few months myself. the get togethers are once a month and the last few dates haven't worked out. do you think you will continue to swing for many more years?

 

[gingermango]

Although bi-males don't seem too welcome on SLS (or other swing sites for that matter), we've found there are some keywords you can put in your profile that kind of clue people in to what you may be looking for, while still giving you plausible deniability if you meet an otherwise-really hot couple you want to meet.

Interestingly, we've met two couples for bi-female/straight male swinging encounters that have eventually resulted in male-male play - the key is to get a handle on just how open-minded each couple is and how attracted to each other they all are. You can phrase stuff as fantasy material or "what if" scenarios when discussing other kinks and just see where it leads.

 

[mansome]

Although bi-males don't seem too welcome on SLS (or other swing sites for that matter), we've found there are some keywords you can put in your profile that kind of clue people in to what you may be looking for, while still giving you plausible deniability if you meet an otherwise-really hot couple you want to meet.

Interestingly, we've met two couples for bi-female/straight male swinging encounters that have eventually resulted in male-male play - the key is to get a handle on just how open-minded each couple is and how attracted to each other they all are. You can phrase stuff as fantasy material or "what if" scenarios when discussing other kinks and just see where it leads.

check out my profile on there... no key words needed JR_1969

 

[pa-guy]

ha, listing as a single bi male I got so few responses I finally quit the site. I'm a pretty good lookiing guy too. Of the couples that would play with single males, very few that I could find wanted a bi male.

 

[mansome]

ha, listing as a single bi male I got so few responses I finally quit the site. I'm a pretty good lookiing guy too. Of the couples that would play with single males, very few that I could find wanted a bi male.

really? I'm surprised... I'm not that good looking at all & have had no problem with inquiries to my profile or meeting couples for real... You'd be amazed at how many male half's listed as "straight" really enjoy some bi~play.... my passion really is women, but with the right couple I'll play with the guy....wow it's been awhile since I've had a cock in my mouth... I think I'm due....

 

[tribbles]

ha, listing as a single bi male I got so few responses I finally quit the site. I'm a pretty good lookiing guy too. Of the couples that would play with single males, very few that I could find wanted a bi male.

http://www.swingers-palace.com/

 

[skittles_lm]

You know, I love the idea of this... but lesbians get so jealous!


Yes, I know I'm generalizing. That has still been my experience.

We like to pick up a girl and show her a good time every now and again, though. A couple would be awesome if it stayed friendly.


So, how often do things not work out like they are supposed to? Just for sheer curiosity's sake.

 

[mansome]

You know, I love the idea of this... but lesbians get so jealous!


Yes, I know I'm generalizing. That has still been my experience.

We like to pick up a girl and show her a good time every now and again, though. A couple would be awesome if it stayed friendly.


So, how often do things not work out like they are supposed to? Just for sheer curiosity's sake.

I've been stood up a couple of times... & 1 couple we just weren't compatible... yet we frequent the same bar and talk/have drinks with nothing sexual....

 

[gingermango]

So, how often do things not work out like they are supposed to? Just for sheer curiosity's sake.

We've been stood up exactly once - by a single girl (or someone posing as a single girl) who never showed up for dinner as planned, and then never returned emails or phone calls expressing concern on our part that she was okay. We were really worried about her at first but when we met another couple a few weeks later and started telling "war stories" it turns out the same person had stood them up. Oh well.

We've always had some great sex - once in awhile the inter-personal stuff can get sticky though. We played with one couple for awhile where the guy started getting a little too emotionally interested in my wife, to the point where she got uncomfortable and we were discussing how to stop seeing them without hurting the other woman's feelings (she was a real sweetheart). Then out of the blue she contacted us and told us she was moving our of state for graduate school and they were divorcing. That solved THAT problem for us.

Some people bring a lot of that kind of "drama" to the scene - you have to watch out for it and be able to nip it in the bud quickly if you don't want to get dragged into it. It's not much of a problem for a one-time only meeting, but if (like most people) you tend to like to meet a few "regulars" you know and trust, it can be too easy to start sharing personal "stuff" as part of a growing friendship that can either lead to a deeper (too deep perhaps) emotional connection, or which can spoil the sexual chemistry. It can be a fine line to walk.

 

[mansome]

The motto I have on my opening line on SLS is: "No drama, no jealousy, no strings"