Any softies?

[Guest]

Hey! I'm here to ask you guys for advice... my bf is a softie, and by that I mean that he never gets really hard, he's always sort of semi-erect and it bothers me cause he keeps coming out! And whenever I feel like being on top it gets really frustrating cause it never works... Any suggestions on what I could do to really get him hard before hand? (And no, the hand doesn't work, tried it ) Thanks in advance, I'm desperate!!!

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

Go Out To Your Nearest Sexshop

And Purchase A Cockring!

Suck His Dick Real Good And HArd, Then Slide tHat Little Wonder On And He'll Be Hard Fer As Long As Ya Want

There Is A Time Limit To How Long You Can Wear It Though! LOL

Get It Done Then Free His Willy!

 

[Guest]

Have him checked out by his doctor - make sure there is nothing going on causing this condition. Does he have a hard erection first thing in the morning? Certain medications can also affect quality of hard-ons.
If you already know the reason why, I love the cock ring idea - also some anal stimulation - men say they don't want it but the erections are amazing!!!

Good luck!

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[alvin462]

soft

Stress will kill it , cigarettes don't help as they constrict blood vesels. Maybe Viagra is needed. Go to doctor and ask for advice and sample . Good luck

 

[The_old_man]

A problem that I am too familiar with.

In my case the cause is understood, age. I still get full hard blader erections, but once the blader is relieved it's a semi hard.

Primary cause, an enlarged prostate. Secondary,low blood preasure.

Other medical problems can also contribute. Excessive drinking(more than two or three a night) will also lower the flag.

A medical checkup is in order.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

I agree with the cock ring idea...

Try getting him a cockring. I hav eno problem gettin ghard and I still use one every now and then. You'd be amazed...even when I think I'm rock solid, I can still get a *little* bit harder.

If that doesn't work, then it could be bad blood flow caused by a number of things.

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[exvitermini]

I've got the same problem - don't worry your boyfriend isn't the only one, unregistered. This is a great thread, though. Keep the suggestions coming!

 

[SexyChele]

I used to have a boyfriend who was like this. No matter what was tried (never did the cock ring, though!), he could never attain a full, hard erection. He wasn't on any meds or drugs, rarely drank, and in his early 20s. I remember hating it - I'd suck on that thing till I couldn't see straight, and it still barely limped along. He could orgasm, but it really limited what we could and couldn't do. (Plus, note he is my "ex")

If your boyfriend is on any kind of meds, have him check with his doctor for possible sexual affects. If he smokes, that might contribute. If he drinks, that will definitely have an impact. I dated an alcoholic, and he was rarely able to even get minimally hard. Drinking and sex for guys is a no-no. Beyond these things, asked him to go to the doctor and get things checked out.

I wouldn't be so quick to do the cock ring. If he is having some sort of blood flow problem, I can't think doing this would be a real good thing for him to do. Get checked by a doctor first and make sure all the plumbing is operating correctly first.