Any professors out there?

[buggawugga]

My English professor is in his early 30's and is extremely attractive. If one were to want to seduce their professor, what would be the best way to do it? I know there is "How To" essay in the stories section but I was hoping to get more input from different professors. Not that I necessarily plan to do this but if I were to.....

If you are a university level professor, what is your take on all of this? Good idea or bad? Hints or tips?

 

[asenath]

Do you want him to lose his job?

 

[shescurious]

My English professor is in his early 30's and is extremely attractive. If one were to want to seduce their professor, what would be the best way to do it? I know there is "How To" essay in the stories section but I was hoping to get more input from different professors. Not that I necessarily plan to do this but if I were to.....

If you are a university level professor, what is your take on all of this? Good idea or bad? Hints or tips?

This just seems like a really bad idea to me....

 

[Zilla]

Umm...my mom seduced her college professor when she was 19. My dad is retiring from said college in May.

 

[Sabledrake]

If one were to want to seduce their professor, what would be the best way to do it?

Graduate first?

Sabledrake

 

[Sebastian Sanders]

I had a university professer I wouldn't have minded seducing. She was great.

 

[RomanHans]

Re: Re: Any professors out there?

Graduate first?

Sabledrake

I'm not a full-time professor, but the ethical conflicts are somewhat less if you at least wait until the semester is over and he's turned in your grade...

Beyond that, professors aren't anything special--maybe you could seduce him like you would anyone else.

Roman

 

[RomanHans]

My English professor is in his early 30's and is extremely attractive. If one were to want to seduce their professor, what would be the best way to do it? I know there is "How To" essay in the stories section but I was hoping to get more input from different professors. Not that I necessarily plan to do this but if I were to.....

If you are a university level professor, what is your take on all of this? Good idea or bad? Hints or tips?

BTW, glad to bump into you again!

Roman

 

[buggawugga]

Re: Re: Re: Any professors out there?

I'm not a full-time professor, but the ethical conflicts are somewhat less if you at least wait until the semester is over and he's turned in your grade...

Beyond that, professors aren't anything special--maybe you could seduce him like you would anyone else.

Roman

i was planning on waiting until the end of the term just because i think chances of success are greatly reduced if he thinks you're doing it just to boost your grade...

seduce him like anybody else? like "eh, how YOU doin'?" *wiggle eyebrows* ??
heheh, actually, as a student i think it would be harder to seduce somebody who is supposed to be an authorative figure. but the teacher-student relationship holds a unique quality of seduction in itself....

"Originally posted by RomanHans"
BTW, glad to bump into you again!

how YOU doin'? *wiggles eyebrows*
lol

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Another Shy One]

buggawugga



how did you come up with this nickname?

 

[StevenWill]

Be Honest

Where I teach, there is no explicit policy that prohibits romantic relationships between students and faculty. We debated our policy for over a year and, in the end, decided that it was improper to tell adults who they could and could not have sex with. That being said, our policy does discourage the practice and goes on to suggest that, if the student is in your class, you should find a colleague to evaluate that student's work so your grading is not biased.

People have sex with the people they spend time with. That's just the way it works. Students have sex with students, faculty with faculty, faculty with administrators, faculty with students, and on and on. If a faculty member pursues a student, the student is at a power disadvantage, especially if the professor is that student's teacher. So, such pursuit is considered to border on harrassment.

My advice to you would be to just be honest. Just tell the professor you are interested in seeing him socially and tell him after the class is over and you are sure you are never going to be in one of his classes again. Let him decide. Remember that a college is small community and everyone will know about the relationship and everyone will have an opinion about it. That puts unwanted pressure on the relationship.


The teacher-student fantasy of sex in the office, seduction, teasing and taboo asignations is nothing like the real relationship. I have played the fantasy game online with women who loved the idea. I even wrote a story under the name "Professor" called "Class Project." But just as the incest fantasy is more fun than actually getting involed with a relative, an affair with a professor is probably going to be less exciting than the fantasy.

The bottom line is the same for all situations. Treat the other person with respect and keep their best interests at heart. There are many professors married to former students, but many more students and professors whose relationships fell far short of expectations. I have had one relationship with a student whom I loved dearly and we are still friends some 10 years later. Otherwise, I have avoided such relationships. I love the comfort of my job more than I love the initial thrill of sex with a much younger woman. Plus, I love my students and would never put them in an uncomfortable position.

Good luck.

Dr. Steve

 

[Ice Princess]

It depends very much on the university. Dr. Steve's school is extremely liberal and I think most schools lean towards a very strict prohibition against amorous relations between students and professors. Where I taught, it would immediately cost you your job, and the chances were very slim, given how competitive the job market is right now, that anyone else would hire you. If your school has a policy like that, you'd be asking someone who worked hard for a lot of years on a degree, getting the teaching job, and works hard every day to keep that job, to throw it away for some meaningless sex with you. You might find a professor willing to risk all that, but I'd say odds are against it.

When I was a graduate student myself, it was very different. Everybody was screwing everybody, and to tell you the truth, it led to so many problems, and so many sleazy abuses of power by professors and administration, that I think it's probably better to have a very stringent policy against it, even if it is limiting.

 

[Imi]

Yep, wait until the end of the semester. Find out what the policies are and find out if he's married.

What's the age difference? Sometimes that will wig people out too, professor or no.