Any popular bdsm chat sites? (Free & Not a Personals Site)

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Hi, I recently go into BDSM (online) Im looking for a free chat site that focuses on BDSM or Kink. I can't find anything that is actually popular. Right now I'm going to sex chat sites that have bdsm rooms attached to them but thats not what people who go there are interested in.

I'd really like to find something free. I see personals sites like alt.com and stuff like that that say they have chat rooms but I'm not interested in bots or people just looking to hook up. When I google bdsm chat it comes up with a bunch of sites that act as though they are chat sites but really are just gateway pages to personal sites :(. I found http://www.bdsmchat.co which is nice and all but its new and has few people.

Please help me out, surly pay personal sites are not my only option for a popular bdsm chat.
 
Hi, I recently go into BDSM (online) Im looking for a free chat site that focuses on BDSM or Kink. I can't find anything that is actually popular. Right now I'm going to sex chat sites that have bdsm rooms attached to them but thats not what people who go there are interested in.

I'd really like to find something free. I see personals sites like alt.com and stuff like that that say they have chat rooms but I'm not interested in bots or people just looking to hook up. When I google bdsm chat it comes up with a bunch of sites that act as though they are chat sites but really are just gateway pages to personal sites :(. I found ****** which is nice and all but its new and has few people.

Please help me out, surly pay personal sites are not my only option for a popular bdsm chat.
Several years ago, there were quite a few chat sites but with the influx of bots, many of them lost their appeal. I don't even know if Lit has a chat page or not. Somebody else might know. You might also check fetlife, but I don't know if they do, either. It's just not easy for a web site to deal with the necessary security measures for chat, so, if there is one that's free, I'd stick with it.
 
Lit has it's own chat, but last time I tried to use it, I couldn't get it to load, so I don't know if there's a problem on my end or theirs. Most likely mine, since my computer is picky about what scripts it'll execute from the web.
 
The lit chat works fine...sometimes. It is very active. Probably the only place you can go for this sort of thing on the net.
 
Fetlife.com is your answer. Not primarily a chat or hookup site, but you'll learn of munches and clubs near you, and meet lots of interesting folk online and IRL.
 
Literotica has one but it's very buggy, sometimes it'll let you on and you'll be on till you're done chatting, other times you'll spend 30 minutes trying to get on and get kicked 5 minutes later. That's been my experience with it so far at least.
 
I will second Fetlife.com. I have met some people in my area, and I don't feel awkward about my kinks.
 
The chat on here is up, but it can take a lot of attempts to log in.

Collarme.com has chat, which uses IRC (internet relay chat) as its backbone, and some of it can be okay.

You also could get an internet relay chat client (like mirc), and look for rooms on there. you probably could do a google search on irc bdsm rooms and find names of rooms out there, and try that as well.
 
Bdsmlibrary and mydungeonspace both have small chat rooms. Population varies but I use both from time to time.
 
try alt.com you can chat for free but get banned for passsing details without paying lol beeen banned more than once but I was busy anyway
 
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