Any other Chritians here?

[Yardley]

I associate "Christians" with a nice dose of sexual angst. I am sure there are plenty of other sets of beliefs that put a framework around what is "OK" and what is "not OK" sexually.

I actually like a little dose of unease, a little guilt, a little "sex is so dirty..." sort of mindset and watching as a person navigates that. I kind of miss the pretty tame makeout sessions that threatened to go "too far" even if they didn't.

I would welcome a chance to let some girl that was not sure how "far" she wanted to go explore a bit.

People that actually understand Christianity know that there is nothing perfect about a Christian, nor would a good one even suggest they were getting very close. It amuses me the anti-religious people that shout "aHA!" when a prominent Christian is caught up in some sex scandal. Why would Christians be any different than anyone else in making bad choices when they are under the influence of arousal?

 

[callipygianette327]

I find it interesting that you're visiting a site dedicated to sin and deciding to preach on it. Are you preaching and then going and looking at the AmPic threads? Are you sending PMs to girls trying to get sex? Or are you just here because you feel the need to preach to a site full of people who don't give a flying fuck about what you have to say?

It's not *just* the atheists that are calling you an idiot. I'm a Christian and I'm calling you an idiot. You are self-righteous. You are fully engaging in telling people how to live their life. You are disputing other people's beliefs. You have zero interest at all in thinking of anything but a black-and-white world where everything you believe is 100% correct and any slight deviation is absurd.

You know why people are coming on here calling you a fool? It's not because they're being convicted, and it's not because they feel threatened. It's because you're annoying as shit. Regardless of whether you're right or wrong, it's so fucking annoying listening to a self-righteous Christian talk.... PERIOD. It's so annoying having to hear you tell the world what the truth is. And what makes this 1,000,000 times worse is that you're doing it on an erotica site. I've been on this site 8+ years, like I said. And multiple times, I have told people that I am a Christian. I tell people that I grew up in church, that I believe in Jesus, that I believe I'm saved. But I don't sit here and spew BS to people and then tell the entire site that I'm correct in my beliefs.

It's people like you that make me just want to say "Uhh I'm a Christian but not THAT kind of Christian." You annoy the hell out of me, no pun intended.

So for the love of God (pun intended that time), can you PLEASE shut the fuck up and go flirt with some Lit women!? Or men, if that's your thing but I'm assuming it's not because if you were into men, you would be completely full of sin.

Jesus Christ.... I need a Xanax and some League of Legends. Back to thinking about 9-tailed foxgirls (Ahri) and video games.

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I am a Christian girl and am really having a hard time letting go of Literotica and masturbation. Somehow, I am thankful that I saw this link--being new here. Though it is sad that it has turned into a mudsling fest. I think the original author's intention was to find people to empathize with and not really to preach and condemn.

So anyway, just chiming in. And as embarrassing as it may be to say, for a Christian woman, especially it is tough when hormones kick in and you just feel that urge and feel the need to be affirmed and recognized by a partner(who in my case is nonexistent because I am waiting to be "pursued" by someone and be "equally yoked" with a Christian). And I have tried praying, but I am drawn here. And yes, I've chatted with a few men and participated in some sex chat. And it feels good. And sometimes, I justify what I am doing. That it's not as bad as it looks, because I'm still a virgin and keeping myself "pure" technically. But it is heart-breaking because I feel like I'm lying to myself and to God. Sorry, I'm blabbering. Just letting it out.

 

[Christopher2012]

I am a Christian girl and am really having a hard time letting go of Literotica and masturbation. Somehow, I am thankful that I saw this link--being new here. Though it is sad that it has turned into a mudsling fest. I think the original author's intention was to find people to empathize with and not really to preach and condemn.

So anyway, just chiming in. And as embarrassing as it may be to say, for a Christian woman, especially it is tough when hormones kick in and you just feel that urge and feel the need to be affirmed and recognized by a partner(who in my case is nonexistent because I am waiting to be "pursued" by someone and be "equally yoked" with a Christian). And I have tried praying, but I am drawn here. And yes, I've chatted with a few men and participated in some sex chat. And it feels good. And sometimes, I justify what I am doing. That it's not as bad as it looks, because I'm still a virgin and keeping myself "pure" technically. But it is heart-breaking because I feel like I'm lying to myself and to God. Sorry, I'm blabbering. Just letting it out.

The intention of the thread is not the point. We have already established the intention of the article, which I think it is fine. My opinion obviously doesn't matter, but I will post this to defend myself.

1. I am not here saying that Christians joining and participating in Lit is bad.
2. I am not saying that Christians having sex is bad.

What I am saying, however, is that when Christians come to a forum filled with what they believe to be sinful (and they admit it on this site), it's a terribly bad time to call out other lifestyles like other denominations, religions, and atheists. Furthermore, it's quite hypocritical to then say "Well, these are my sins and God forgives me of these sins. But btw, I find it hard to believe that you can pray to man before God himself like Catholics do."

So Chris, you're a Christian and you're calling out people for being judgmental. "....pot meet kettle." Yeah but I'm not saying that you don't have a right to do it. I'm saying that you are an ASSHOLE for doing it. There's a difference between being hypocritical by being judgmental and calling somebody a complete asshole.

When you see "Praise God, our loving Father!" and "AMEN TO THAT BROTHER" on a sex site, you just go "What the fuck, dude...? Really?"

If you create a thread about Christianity to find people that relate to you, fine. But for the people here who even make the slightest remark against another belief, sin, problem, lifestyle, or whatever... You are just an asshole.

That's all I'm saying. And yes, you do have the right to be an asshole. You also have a right to think I'm an asshole. But isn't that a sin? This cycle can go on and on but as long as the self-righteous Christian is still posting here, they are losing the battle because they are proving they are no better than anybody else, including Islams or any other religious faction or cult. As a matter of fact, they could be considered worse.

And thank you for quoting my Ahri picture. She's beautiful, isn't she?

 

[meop79]

I am a Christian girl and am really having a hard time letting go of Literotica and masturbation. Somehow, I am thankful that I saw this link--being new here. Though it is sad that it has turned into a mudsling fest. I think the original author's intention was to find people to empathize with and not really to preach and condemn.

So anyway, just chiming in. And as embarrassing as it may be to say, for a Christian woman, especially it is tough when hormones kick in and you just feel that urge and feel the need to be affirmed and recognized by a partner(who in my case is nonexistent because I am waiting to be "pursued" by someone and be "equally yoked" with a Christian). And I have tried praying, but I am drawn here. And yes, I've chatted with a few men and participated in some sex chat. And it feels good. And sometimes, I justify what I am doing. That it's not as bad as it looks, because I'm still a virgin and keeping myself "pure" technically. But it is heart-breaking because I feel like I'm lying to myself and to God. Sorry, I'm blabbering. Just letting it out.

These are things we all deal with in one way or another. I get the masturbation thing... sometimes I've found my mind going to some very dark places when so engaged. As far as the rest, shrug, nothing says you can't pursue if you find someone you're interested in. Not sure about the purity thing, Jesus said rather directly that thinking it in your heart was not different than doing it in God's eyes. Thanks for joining the convo though... and just my advice, but don't feed the troll.

Personally I think the Bible is a very open and rather Earthy book about the subject. Some things have been interpreted very darkly, but I think an honest reading of the book sheds a very different picture of God's opinion of sex and love.

 

[ConflictedOne]

The intention of the thread is not the point. We have already established the intention of the article, which I think it is fine. My opinion obviously doesn't matter, but I will post this to defend myself.

1. I am not here saying that Christians joining and participating in Lit is bad.
2. I am not saying that Christians having sex is bad.

What I am saying, however, is that when Christians come to a forum filled with what they believe to be sinful (and they admit it on this site), it's a terribly bad time to call out other lifestyles like other denominations, religions, and atheists. Furthermore, it's quite hypocritical to then say "Well, these are my sins and God forgives me of these sins. But btw, I find it hard to believe that you can pray to man before God himself like Catholics do."

So Chris, you're a Christian and you're calling out people for being judgmental. "....pot meet kettle." Yeah but I'm not saying that you don't have a right to do it. I'm saying that you are an ASSHOLE for doing it. There's a difference between being hypocritical by being judgmental and calling somebody a complete asshole.

When you see "Praise God, our loving Father!" and "AMEN TO THAT BROTHER" on a sex site, you just go "What the fuck, dude...? Really?"

If you create a thread about Christianity to find people that relate to you, fine. But for the people here who even make the slightest remark against another belief, sin, problem, lifestyle, or whatever... You are just an asshole.

That's all I'm saying. And yes, you do have the right to be an asshole. You also have a right to think I'm an asshole. But isn't that a sin? This cycle can go on and on but as long as the self-righteous Christian is still posting here, they are losing the battle because they are proving they are no better than anybody else, including Islams or any other religious faction or cult. As a matter of fact, they could be considered worse.

And thank you for quoting my Ahri picture. She's beautiful, isn't she?

GREAT post...

 

[cuckmn]

I am one as well. We are human though and do fall at times.

 

[dondd]

I am a Christian too and rather active in church so you can add me to the list also.

That's the type I'd like to conquer.

 

[julybaby04]

Yes....

 

[bristolbabcock]

Me Too

And I agree with Chris 2012... We have to live and let live... my short comings are my own cross to bear but, is sexuality really a cross to bear?

 

[21orca]

I too am a Christian. I am not perfect. Never have said I was. I am forgiven.

And here's the thing, I won't be perfect tomorrow, or the next or next........but, like I said, I'm forgiven.

 

[dondd]

This pic is a good one for the topic...
http://byroncrawford.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c558f53ef017c36a5c163970b-500wi

 

[dondd]

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[wallyrutherford]

I am a Christian girl and am really having a hard time letting go of Literotica and masturbation.

That's very common.

as embarrassing as it may be to say, for a Christian woman, especially it is tough when hormones kick in and you just feel that urge and feel the need to be affirmed and recognized by a partner(who in my case is nonexistent because I am waiting to be "pursued" by someone and be "equally yoked" with a Christian). And I have tried praying, but I am drawn here.

Very understandable.

And yes, I've chatted with a few men and participated in some sex chat. And it feels good.

That's also very common.
I won't throw rocks @ anyone over that kind of thing either.

And sometimes, I justify what I am doing. That it's not as bad as it looks, because I'm still a virgin and keeping myself "pure" technically. But it is heart-breaking because I feel like I'm lying to myself and to God.

Don't beat yourself up over it.
You're a Christian but you're also human and a sinner.
Sex is a natural part of life.
If you fall, do what you need to do for repentance but please understand this is entirely normal.
In ancient times, it was very unusual for someone to go into their 20s and not be married, so try to understand.

I admire you for keeping your virginity into your late 20s.
That reflects well of you as many Christians (60% from the studies I've seen) aren't virgins @ marriage.

 

[Jacques_Corbin]

Yes, I am Christian. Far from perfect. I question the dogma all the time. The taboos on sex were written in a time before birth control, and a lot of it was written to preserve family lineage, and prevent inbreeding. There were alpha males, back in ancient times, that would fuck every woman in the village, willing or not, and pretty soon, everybody was related by blood, and ailments common the generations of inbreeding started to show. So I have a far more modern view. My sexuality is between me, the woman I am with, and God. I do not accept jugdement of either of us by mortal men or women.

Also, I am not the type of Christian that keeps God and Christ all to myself, and goes nah nah nah to all those without. Nor am I the type that rams my belief down the throat of others.

 

[txgent101]

It might have helped if the OP had spelled the word Christian correctly....