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nikeguy

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Just wondering cause I don't seem to find many here on lit. There is nothing better than a sexy woman In her 40's or 50's. And I constantly see all the threads for younger men like myself that are in to older women but never see much of older women into us young guys. So let's hear from the sexy women out there that like younger guys.
 
Well...I'm not quite old enough to be replying, but I will venture a guess as to why you don't get many replies anyway.

Generally speaking (very generally) women's self esteem takes a hit as they age. For me, becoming a mother very much ruined my stomach and I want to cry when I see it.

Having sex with older men feels ok, because they're not perfect either. Age hits men too. Especially if it's the man that GOT you pregnant, because you can reasonably expect a measure of understanding from him.

Having sex with a younger man is asking a woman to have the self-confidence to show her (possibly significant) imperfections to not only a new person, but a young, unblemished, beautiful person. Someone who will remind you that you, too, we're once young, tight-bodied, and un-stretchmarked.

Personally I would be fine with a younger man (within reason!) but when I think about exposing my nakedness to him, I cringe.

Please excuse what is probably the least sexy post EVER on this board, but there it is, my opinion in its bleeding insecurity and all.
 
thanks

Thank you kitten for shining some light on this for me. How old are you? Up for chat with a younger guy? :)
 
My age is in my profile.

Sorry...for most of the reasons above, I'm gonna say "no thanks" :)
 
SexyKitten1974 said:
Well...I'm not quite old enough to be replying, but I will venture a guess as to why you don't get many replies anyway.

Generally speaking (very generally) women's self esteem takes a hit as they age. For me, becoming a mother very much ruined my stomach and I want to cry when I see it.

Having sex with older men feels ok, because they're not perfect either. Age hits men too. Especially if it's the man that GOT you pregnant, because you can reasonably expect a measure of understanding from him.

Having sex with a younger man is asking a woman to have the self-confidence to show her (possibly significant) imperfections to not only a new person, but a young, unblemished, beautiful person. Someone who will remind you that you, too, we're once young, tight-bodied, and un-stretchmarked.

Personally I would be fine with a younger man (within reason!) but when I think about exposing my nakedness to him, I cringe.

Please excuse what is probably the least sexy post EVER on this board, but there it is, my opinion in its bleeding insecurity and all.
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kitten


I am old enough but I agree with almost all that Sexykitten said. But I need to add that ageism is not my thing as I have had relationships with older men and younger men.

Currently I have a crush on a man that is 8 years younger and I believe he is attracted to me also.

I still worry about the fact that my body does not look like it did in my 20's and that does play a significant role in how comfortable I feel being seen naked by someone much younger.

The mental attraction and compatibility needs to be extremely present (more so than with an older man) for me to take the relationship to a physical level.

When I was 38 I fell in love with a co-worker who was 24. We did have an short intimate fling but I soon recognised that he was an alcoholic so I broke it off for that reason but not because of his age. Six months later I met the man of my dreams and we married 1 year later and Pat was 20 years my senior. I odviously have no age boundaries. Unfortanately he passed away 9 months ago.

So I would say that for myself I do not search or desire any particular age. One doesn't turn me on more than the other.

I get turned on by the character of a man. But I do love a youthful soul whether it be in a younger man or older.

So if you love mature woman than I suggest just finding an older woman that you can connect with regarding personality and character. The rest will follow when she realizes that you are not shallow. JMHO
 
SexyKitten1974 said:
Well...I'm not quite old enough to be replying, but I will venture a guess as to why you don't get many replies anyway.

Generally speaking (very generally) women's self esteem takes a hit as they age. For me, becoming a mother very much ruined my stomach and I want to cry when I see it.

Having sex with older men feels ok, because they're not perfect either. Age hits men too. Especially if it's the man that GOT you pregnant, because you can reasonably expect a measure of understanding from him.

Having sex with a younger man is asking a woman to have the self-confidence to show her (possibly significant) imperfections to not only a new person, but a young, unblemished, beautiful person. Someone who will remind you that you, too, we're once young, tight-bodied, and un-stretchmarked.

Personally I would be fine with a younger man (within reason!) but when I think about exposing my nakedness to him, I cringe.

Please excuse what is probably the least sexy post EVER on this board, but there it is, my opinion in its bleeding insecurity and all.
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I understand where you're coming from, but at the same time, I don't think you realize that some younger guys think an older woman's body is perfect no matter what. I'm 21, and usually set 50 as my limit, but I wouldn't care what you look like. You said you want to cry when you see your stomach, but I'd bet you anything I'd find it very sexy. Granted, my body isn't perfect, I have several scars from a car accident I was in, but that not the point. I wish more older women would take a chance, because it's very sexy.

Ps - love the pic in your profile, very hot :)
 
Funny as much as I seem to go towards young guys, it's the way they behave not th actual age that gets me.
 
Great comments from the other ladies. I think there are plenty of older women on Lit. Maybe it's a question of where to look.

Anyway, for me, I've learned that I get more out of commenting on threads than I do with trying to chat in a pm. I got tired of receiving pm's from men who mainly had no profile but whose first sentence was "wanna cum?", "I have a big one for you" or "I'm open to chatting as well as sexual roleplay" (but it's really the sex, forget the chatting). I no longer answer pm's because I got tired of the pm's that for the most part seemed to be written by someone in a hurry or they were under age. :) Anyway, if one wants to build relationships on any platform it takes more than sex to do it.
 
Aviator1976 said:
Man, so that is what has been wrong with my approach.

Who knew?
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:) Who knows is right. And, there are probably women who like the kind of pm's I don't. On Lit, it's like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get.
 
I have always liked and dated younger guys ... maybe because I am a kid at heart. Now at 35 ... and married to an older man ... and in a purely sexless relationship ... I sometimes find myself fantasizing about a younger guy (like, 25-27) but I don't have the body confidence I used to. I can't imagine a 20-something being attracted to extra pudge and stretch-marks ... but yeah ... if I found a sweet, loving, and accepting younger man -- maybe I could be persuaded.
 
ohwhynot77 said:
I have always liked and dated younger guys ... maybe because I am a kid at heart. Now at 35 ... and married to an older man ... and in a purely sexless relationship ... I sometimes find myself fantasizing about a younger guy (like, 25-27) but I don't have the body confidence I used to. I can't imagine a 20-something being attracted to extra pudge and stretch-marks ... but yeah ... if I found a sweet, loving, and accepting younger man -- maybe I could be persuaded.
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Yeah, sexless marriages or relationships pretty much suck. :(
 
LadyVer said:
:) Who knows is right. And, there are probably women who like the kind of pm's I don't. On Lit, it's like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get.
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A lot of people think they can leave their manners behind when they go online.

I still try to be a little civil. (My hormones get the better of me at times.)
 
nikeguy said:
Just wondering cause I don't seem to find many here on lit. There is nothing better than a sexy woman In her 40's or 50's. And I constantly see all the threads for younger men like myself that are in to older women but never see much of older women into us young guys. So let's hear from the sexy women out there that like younger guys.
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They are around, you just have to know how to get their attention. Phrases like "There is nothing better than a sexy woman in her 40's or 50's generally don't help.
 
Aviator1976 said:
A lot of people think they can leave their manners behind when they go online.

I still try to be a little civil. (My hormones get the better of me at times.)
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It's easy to say things on line that one may end up regretting or thinking things could have been said more diplomatically, especially on a sex forum where the platform is clunky and the off platform apps aren't that much better...plus the heat of the moment gets one distracted.
 
LadyVer said:
It's easy to say things on line that one may end up regretting or thinking things could have been said more diplomatically, especially on a sex forum where the platform is clunky and the off platform apps aren't that much better...plus the heat of the moment gets one distracted.
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That, and men are not always know for thinking with the right head to begin with.
 
LadyVer said:
Would I be correct in saying that you are unique and a fine upstanding gentleman? ;)
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I suppose it would depend on who you ask. I am unique, and so stand upright...but as for a gentleman, only when other people are watching!
 
Aviator1976 said:
I suppose it would depend on who you ask. I am unique, and so stand upright...but as for a gentleman, only when other people are watching!
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Standing upright may be a characteristic of certain gentlemen...
 
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